FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging age gap limits

By *ermaine44 OP Man
over a year ago

North Birmingham

Do you set an age gap limit (younger/older) on the people you’re willing to meet with and if so what’s your range?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slightly older women 50-65 but it's not set in stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not set in stone but I prefer older men. I feel a bit icky being with someone under 30.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Our current limit is 30-66 but it is a guideline. We are considering to make it 40-66, mostly because we find difficult to find common points of conversation with people of much different ages, so socials end up being no good for everyone involved. However, at organised socials, clubs or parties, we do not have any age limits, we would talk and even play with any couple that we fancy of any age if they fancy us and click with each other.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We enjoy age gap couples as I like an older man so we’ve “chatted” to a few couples that have an age gap as it’s worked well for us.

Sarah xx

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

As an older male my limits are really based upon the person. If they’re able to hold a good conversation it’s a definite plus, age is irrelevant, I’ve had nice conversations with 25 year olds and 75 year olds. I’ve also found monosyllabic 50 year olds who I simply couldn’t speak to.

I’m not good with text speak, I simply don’t get exposed to it not having young kids.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Our age range is 50 to 74.

We will happy meet anyone of any age socially but understandably very few people are genuine here for just social interaction so we stick with that

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

18 and up for us - it really depends only upon mutual attraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Our age range is 50 to 74.

We will happy meet anyone of any age socially but understandably very few people are genuine here for just social interaction so we stick with that"

God! Please replace happy with happily and genuine with genuinely

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Grammar lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Grammar lol x"

Not proof reading

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Ha ha you’ll be busy !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ha ha you’ll be busy !"

I just need to read my own posts more carefully before I press on 'post message '

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

I leave them at a decade either side of my own age although I prefer similar age to myself

I’ve had relationships with both older and younger and it’s just not my cuppa personality, each to their own and all that jazz

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

40-66 seems to work well for us

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

35 to 57 for us ish

I definitely wouldn't go too low and prefer around our age ,give or take a few years either way.

Miss

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

At my age . Have age range fully open .

. Not that many older than me on Fab ? . So I do not restrict any chance of messaging and hopefully more.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

No limits really, you either feel it or you don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 to 60 for us.

We have a 35 year old son so the lower age will move year on year.

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By *ary1974Man
over a year ago

Luton

I have set an older range but not set in stone. Really depends on the person and if we click.

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

For longer solo meets in private or threesomes with me, Miniskirt prefers mature gentlemen, generally 40+.

Because she finds older guys more interesting for the 'date' part of solo meets. She likes men who can entertain her out of bed, not just in it.

But she probably wouldn't refuse a nice guy at a club or an outdoor meet just because he was younger, provided he ticked all her boxes (tall, well hung, handsome, interesting, intelligent, etc).

For me (Driver) I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable with a girl under 30 - but then again, if the chemistry is there, why refuse just because of age.

Also, I find women in their 50s who have kept themselves in great shape and are still very enthusiastic about sex extremely alluring.

Fortunately, I happen to live with such a woman

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"35 to 60 for us.

We have a 35 year old son so the lower age will move year on year."

Quite recently, I had sex with a woman five years younger than my eldest daughter. It didn't actually feel weird at all - although I had previously worried that it would.

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"No limits really, you either feel it or you don’t "

But you have an upper age limit of 53 on your profile

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By *interflingMan
over a year ago

london

Go with 10yrs either way usually but in clubs recently I’ve found myself with some really fun older ladies. Know what they want and extremely comfortably with themselves. It’s very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is 10years different between me and Rachel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50-70 for us which works fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They need to be older than our children... so lower range around 30ish...Not early twenties! Upper range in forties...

Jess xx

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I prefer to meet guys younger than me. One of the best meets I've had was with the youngest guy I've met... I'm 46, he's 25.

I wouldn't go any younger than that though.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

Age is just a number if you get on, have things in common and are attracted to each other then does it really matter.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I think I’d struggle meeting an 18 year old.

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Mine is 30 to 55

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
over a year ago

boston

"Our age range is 50 to 74.

We will happy meet anyone of any age socially but understandably very few people are genuine here for just social interaction so we stick with that

God! Please replace happy with happily and genuine with genuinely

who are you, english teachers!!!!!!

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

I wouldn’t be happy going lower than our minimum age. It just feels a bit ick. Similarly with the upper limit tbh.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Our age range is 50 to 74.

We will happy meet anyone of any age socially but understandably very few people are genuine here for just social interaction so we stick with that

God! Please replace happy with happily and genuine with genuinely

who are you, english teachers!!!!!!"

No. They're just intelligent people who don't want accidently to sound ignorant.

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester

"Do you set an age gap limit (younger/older) on the people you’re willing to meet with and if so what’s your range?"

Nothing set in stone but for me personally, I think if I was looking to meet with a woman under 25 at my age it would feel a bit creepy to me but regardless of age (older/same/younger) it’s them as a person that would be what drives my decision. So I’d be more influenced by things like if there a connection and how good that connection was that would sway me more

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

We keep our age range pretty broad - I personally wouldn't want to meet someone old enough to be one of my parents though.

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By *ctualhungladMan
over a year ago

Preston

Prefer older women

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Prefer same age or older, teens early 20’s are a bit immature

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By *ave0070Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

I prefer older but if we get on with each other age doesn't really matter to me

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By *otwife Lilith and LeoCouple
over a year ago

West London

I prefer younger men around half my age / in their mid 20s. My age limit is set at 22-32. Attraction and connection is important. Lilith

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"Prefer same age or older, teens early 20’s are a bit immature "

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Definitely a preference for younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Vix) prefer older men 40+ and in 23.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure, there is a fine line between acting like an idiot and maturity

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

For me it’s never be about age it’s always that attraction we can’t explain that does it.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

The age range that men put on their profile is often derided ( by forum commentators) as being to wide because of the extremes when really it is often because they could not be bothered to change the default. However i have met all ages at social events,parties and clubs etc and don't want to be prescriptive. For women of course it's a useful tool to be able to cut down the amount of unsolicited messages to a manageable number of those within a few years of their sweet spot.

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

I (Mr) go by attraction more than age.

Mrs has a range of 25ish to 50. It tends to be a bit fluid depending on initial attraction but that is a rule of thumb.

We do get quite the number that still argue or get offensive when this is pointed out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to read this one as I seem to be too old for almost anyone

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