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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I the only one who cringe on action shots on singles profile showing someone else? Does that other person know their “bits” are being shown like that? They account usually say they are ok with it but I wouldn’t be, especially multiple people on one profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's one of my biggest turn offs, if it's a single profile, that's what I want to see, the single male

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Action shots full stop make me cringe but yea even more so on a singles profile.

Kink (f)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn off for me so I pass them by

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't cringe not on all but size it up if mine would've looked better

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

There are loads of groups shots spread across the site. The same must apply to them.

Also, lots of wives getting banged by other people, same applies there too.

Any pic with more than three people falls into the same category. Dogging, GBs, Groups.

Let's play with an even field shall we?

Gbat

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Massive turn off, I don't want to see where they've been. And it raises the question of consent from the partner in the photo.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Not something I'm fond of either. Especially when 95% of the picture is taken up of someone clearly not the profile owner

Like the OP, I do wonder if all parties are in agreement. I know several.people who haven't agreed to thier images being used. Not just here, but other sites too.

However, appears that a lot of people take offence when you express this concern.

Still, each to thier own, and we do have the block button as a filter.

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Am I the only one who cringe on action shots on singles profile showing someone else? Does that other person know their “bits” are being shown like that? They account usually say they are ok with it but I wouldn’t be, especially multiple people on one profile "

We think they are absolutely awful.

But we get that some people want to prove that they have actually had sex.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It happens on couples profiles a lot too ,to the point where you can't tell who the people who own the profile are.

Sometimes it's the lady with loads of other men or ladies ,or its pics with loads of other naked people in on a bed or floor.

It's up to them what they show ,as long as everyone involved knows is happy about the pics being displayed & it's obviously attractive to some people.

It does put me off if I can't identify which people are running the profile though.

Miss

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

The short answer is no, they don't know, but the problem is that people who show them don't care, its about them.

Unfortunately trying to police it is too much effort and costly. Even if you them tell them you want them removed if they are of you - most likely refuse

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Big turn off for me so I pass them by "

Noted! Although I should be so lucky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Multiple bare play too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume they don't have permission to use the pics and avoid the person.

Whenever I ask who the person in the pics is they 99% of the time say it's their ex.

Yes of course an ex would allow their sex pics to be used as bait to get their ex a fuck.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I know for a fact there are pictures with me in them on single men profile. They full have my permission .

It doesn't put me off seeing action shots.

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Hard no. They almost certainly don’t have permission and I also don’t get the point.

I believe you that you’ve had sex before mate

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
over a year ago

Waterloo, Liverpool

I know it's double standards but I'm far more ok with it on a single female account than a male.

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By *utterfly WingsWoman
over a year ago

North West

I have 1 such photo and I most definitely got permission from the guy who's in the photo

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

Single males are really running out of criteria of photos be acceptable to post

No cock shots, no sky remotes, no deodorant cans, no photos with toilet in back ground, no sex, no not having pics, I think I’m going to give up

Disclaimer - this is sarcasm before anyone jumps on the wagon.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"I know it's double standards. "

Indeed!

Gbat

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

The people we put pics up of have defo consented.

Action shots dont put us off.

But we can understand a lot of folks thing differently of them.

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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

A few guys we have met have pictures and videos on their profiles from meets we have had we only send them stuff that we would put on here ourselves so we don’t have a problem with them using them.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I personally find it really attractive

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By *abluesbabyMan
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

It depends on what the single profile is looking for on here.

Lots of comments have said that if they're looking for a single person then all they want to see is a single person. I get that! But I will add this is a swingers site (or so I was led to believe) so by that very definition people are highly likely to have intimate pics with other and most likely multiple partners.

Yes, I'm a "single male" profile as that's what I am... but... I don't (or very, very rarely) use here to meet women for one to ones as I tend to just do Gangbangs. So they, by their very nature, involve lots of "action" with lots of sexual partners. If I have just pics of me people (rightly) question if I REALLY do organise GB's.

I am also acutely sensitive to the issue of consent so all my pics (except my avatar) are set to 'friends only' status and these pics all have full consent of those shown and - where requested - they are blurred or pixelated.

Showing anyone's face and/or "bits" without their consent is, in my opinion, odious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get this feels like another attack on men. What they can and can’t post. My point was if the other person in these photos is aware it’s on a swingers site? Sometimes I see them and they’ve added the other persons username in the photo. That actually makes me think then that they have given consent.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Am I the only one who cringe on action shots on singles profile showing someone else? Does that other person know their “bits” are being shown like that? They account usually say they are ok with it but I wouldn’t be, especially multiple people on one profile "

A small percentage may have permission, but most probably don't. A lot of the pics will be ex's and fb's who have no idea their pics are on a swinging site. They're actually decreasing their chances of meets as many are put off. Most of the more successful Men on here don't have such pics.

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We have action shots and of friends who know and are happy for us to share, we do look for recent action shots, it helps us see if the potential meets are on same level and that they do actually play with other people. A bit like complimenting the veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a problem with pics of other peoples cocks or tits in them although we don't really need to see them but our problem arises when you can see someone else's face or tattoos etc that would clearer out them and I'd be pretty sure most never gave concent.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

The last time I checked this is a swinging site.

I have action shots on my single profile. So are you saying op it ok for a woman to have action shots but not men.

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