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Do you kiss, when swinging?

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

For me it's what starts the whole thing going. The passionate build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.

Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I like kissing, it's a big part for me. Tbh without would feel more like a wank just mechanical release

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No we don't

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Very much so

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"No we don't "

Can understand that

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Very much so"

Nice, it's super sexy

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.

Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is. "

I understand that... But many believe the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we don’t. We like to keep a little something for ourselves and we’re not really arsed if some think that’s ridiculous.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

we choose to kiss xx A & G

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By *eltic connectionCouple
over a year ago

Manningtree

Absolutely, it's part of the foreplay for us!

People who don't kiss but are are happy to fuck are hypocrites in our eyes! Especially when they say they prefer bareback

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By *cott14Man
over a year ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Absolutely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100%

Mrs C xx

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

Each to their own. I'm not a big kisser only with certain people. And I also don't give a fuck what strangers on the Internet think about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching Mrs kissing someone while their hands are all over each other will always be amazing, just the right amount of naughtiness and jealousy

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We like to kiss - sex without it just feels a little strange to us! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to kiss - sex without it just feels a little strange to us! X"

I agree!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Absolutely!

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Oh yes!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Absolutely, it's part of the foreplay for us!

People who don't kiss but are are happy to fuck are hypocrites in our eyes! Especially when they say they prefer bareback "

We don't prefer bareback but I struggle to see the hypocrisy in our choice not to kiss

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Absolutely! Love a good kiss and it’s an instant panty wetter if it’s really good.

Kink (f)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we don't either. It's something we prefer to keep for ourselves. We know it's not for everyone, so when guys pass up the chance to meet because of it we fully understand. But they are missing a whole lot more than a kiss when they do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely, it's part of the foreplay for us!

People who don't kiss but are are happy to fuck are hypocrites in our eyes! Especially when they say they prefer bareback

We don't prefer bareback but I struggle to see the hypocrisy in our choice not to kiss"

We don't do bareback either, or kiss. We haven't got anything to say about those that do. Each to there own, definitely doesn't make us hypocrites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe kisses are great.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

We always said no kissing but it just happened naturally ! Looking back it was strange for us to feel kissing is personal but it’s alright for a guy to lick Ranes pussy !

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By *ornycouple1176Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We both love the kissing side of play, adds to the build up for us

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By *uriousBeastMan
over a year ago

London

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be the odd one out, barely kiss my wife lol just feels a tad weird lol

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By *helseaJimmy1975Couple
over a year ago

uk

Yes, Normally the 1st thing that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, Wife never kisses others - only me!

She thinks that is far to intimate but has no worries about taking a cock? - Nowt strange as women

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

Yesssss, always. It's one of the most important things for us. It just sets the whole sex thing up to follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes…… there has to be intimacy

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Yesssss, always. It's one of the most important things for us. It just sets the whole sex thing up to follow. "

Agree as I've said before, it's not a deal breaker but it is rather sexy

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Yes…… there has to be intimacy "

Yes agree with that

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.

Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is. "

There's nothing wrong with "keyless entry"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.

Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is.

There's nothing wrong with "keyless entry" "

... but yes, we do kissing

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.

Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is.

There's nothing wrong with "keyless entry" "

Ha, you beat me to it!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Very much so"

Very glad to hear that

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By *olvespairCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We do, we also kiss when we're not swinging x

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Of course x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we don’t. We like to keep a little something for ourselves and we’re not really arsed if some think that’s ridiculous."

We are exactly the same

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

As new people to this life style

We have discovered this is a thing ….or more important

It’s a not allowed thing for some people

Each to their own

But if our lips can’t touch then your genitals are absolutely not getting touched

It’s just fuckin weird

In our humble opinion

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By *ctualhungladMan
over a year ago

Preston

Yes

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By *ookin4fun88 300Couple
over a year ago

Camborne

Kissing is a big part of the whole build up, it's not a deal breaker for us though if they don't as we respect others need's

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"As new people to this life style

We have discovered this is a thing ….or more important

It’s a not allowed thing for some people

Each to their own

But if our lips can’t touch then your genitals are absolutely not getting touched

It’s just fuckin weird

In our humble opinion "

Calling people ‘fuckin weird’ when you’re new to the lifestyle might not be the best approach? Everyone has a right to choose what they allow or don’t, surely?

HW

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"No, we don’t. We like to keep a little something for ourselves and we’re not really arsed if some think that’s ridiculous.

We are exactly the same

"

So are we x

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Our first meet was without kissing, it lacked something.

Kissed on every meet since, it's part of the foreplay and a big turn on.

Being kissed whilst another guy kisses my neck, sucks my nipples or is eating me is going to get me gushing ?? x x

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Our first meet was without kissing, it lacked something.

Kissed on every meet since, it's part of the foreplay and a big turn on.

Being kissed whilst another guy kisses my neck, sucks my nipples or is eating me is going to get me gushing ?? x x"

What an extremely sexy reply to the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy kissing but it’s not a deal breaker

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Kissing is a must for me. Tried meets before without kissing and it just did not feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way people get all worked up about couples that don’t kiss kind of proves the point of how important kissing is and why some choose not to do it with others.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Huge turn on for me. I have played without but I felt the fact that we didn't - and I was conscious of having to remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can definitely see a point on both sides of it, kissing is great in the lead up to sex but for that reason I can see why couples would like to keep that to themselves

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Each to their own. I'm not a big kisser only with certain people. And I also don't give a fuck what strangers on the Internet think about that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. I'm not a big kisser only with certain people. And I also don't give a fuck what strangers on the Internet think about that.

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Lool Amen!!!

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

With woman 100% yes! Guys 50/50. Passion is a must with woman.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

As Hot Chocolate once sang:

It started with a kiss.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have no issues with kissing but we get why others don’t and it’s no one else’s business anyway.

We have friends that don’t kiss and they don’t have any problems finding meets.

I’m not sure why some people have such strong feelings on this subject if you like kissing then don’t meet people that don’t it’s really that simple..

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By *ungeon loving squirterCouple
over a year ago

redcar

Kissing is good for us. We both think it makes it more intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We respect others boundaries but do prefer to include kissing

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course because it’s a great indication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.

Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is. "

You are being ironic aren’t you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx "

Who said romance was Dead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Hot Chocolate once sang:

It started with a kiss.

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It was Errol Brown who actually sang it !

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

No kiss, no meet. Id be drier than the sahara

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m single and prefer not to kiss.

If it’s someone super hot and they prefer it I can, but wouldn’t ever chose too really

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

No kissing no meeting.

We’ve even been known to snog on a social.

Girly snogging in front of a posh pub full of muggles who’s faces were a picture

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Sex without kissing wouldn't feel right for me.

Amy

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By *ylvie SucksWoman
over a year ago

Right Up Your Street


"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."

Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing i find very important

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By *irtysnapperMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Kissing is so damn sexy. Kissing while fucking… even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We kiss. A lot.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Would only plan to meet with folks I would kiss, but wouldn't necessarily snog in a club setting etc all depends on attraction

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker.

Always. "

Totally!

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Yes of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."

We didn’t at first but now we do and it’s a huge turn on for all involved.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I was so pleased when I finally persuaded the wife of the couple I meet to kiss me properly - it made a lot of difference. I sor tof understand why husbands can be against it but I never was when it was my wife kissing other men, in fact I found it a turn on.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm not really a kissing person, it doesn't add anything for me but I don't mind if the other person wants to, I can play along with it

The Mr loves kissing but will only do it with me, though he's not overly into play with others anyway

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I really love kissing do used to say i wouldn’t meet couples who doesn’t kiss, but tried it and it was quite hot not being able to kiss her as long as good eye contact . No kissing and no eye contact is awful

What bugs me is when you meet a no-kissing couple for a social and the man starts slobbering over my partner. Married men not behaving as usual !

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker.

We didn’t at first but now we do and it’s a huge turn on for all involved. "

I guess it's about exploring and finding out what turns you on doesn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love kissing xx

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

We didn't when we started but we do now

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By *ifeCouple66Couple
over a year ago

Fife


"Watching Mrs kissing someone while their hands are all over each other will always be amazing, just the right amount of naughtiness and jealousy "

This 100%

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It’s an essential for us, but completely understand why others would choose not to kiss on meets.

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By *wingingbrit OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"It’s an essential for us, but completely understand why others would choose not to kiss on meets."

It's just about respecting isn't it! That's pretty much it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely! Ibl9ve kissing. Don't get why some think its fine to stick their cock I'm my mouth or their tongue I my pussy bit we can't kiss on the lips

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always kissed on the meet during and afterwards

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Yes kissing a definitely for us, get the juices going

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By *eepingItKinkyCouple
over a year ago

reading

Yes yes yeeeesss xx

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, kissing is a massive turn on for me. B

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

We do kissing is the best like good kissers

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Yes we love kissing however we are also respectful of other people’s boundaries so it’s not a must have for us......

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx

Who said romance was Dead?"

Romance isn't something I'm here for.. just fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing on meets, would change it a lot for me if someone wasn’t keen on kissing

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes i like to kiss on meets think its all part of the build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like to kiss when I meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing.. alot of kissing....tongue playing with tongue

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Kissing is paramount however I have to respect people’s wishes when they state no kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We Yet to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love kissing….. every time I kiss passionately with a woman who kisses in return with the same passion, it sends my senses into overdrive…….but even without kissing, the intense eye contact with a woman on the same page is just as exciting……without either one sometimes sex is just sex……but with it…..OMFG…..it’s something you will never forget x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Kissing is a must for me.

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By *opingforfun2022Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Kissing is a must for me. "

Same for me

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester


"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."

Absolutely I do as I love kissing and how much more enjoyable it makes the experience. However I completely understand other peoples or couples might not be comfortable with that and that’s completely fine as well and I’d never presume

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

if i dont fancy someone enough to kiss then we sure as hell are not going to fuck ...

kissing is essential to have sexual fun they go together along with 4play

i would not meet anyone who did not kiss

ive seen cucky cum in his knickers just from watching me kiss without even touching himself thats how powerful a kiss is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i dont fancy someone enough to kiss then we sure as hell are not going to fuck ...

kissing is essential to have sexual fun they go together along with 4play

i would not meet anyone who did not kiss

ive seen cucky cum in his knickers just from watching me kiss without even touching himself thats how powerful a kiss is "

Gotta agree ..

Kissing is the key to anything that may follow.

Sensual and passionate…

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Never have and never will . God forbid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is one of the best parts!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx

Who said romance was Dead?

Romance isn't something I'm here for.. just fun "

Came here to say this, kissing is romantic for a lot of people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes…… there has to be intimacy

Yes agree with that "

100%...have always kissed when meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes from us, kissing isn't a deal breaker but definatley our preference.

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

I understand why some people don’t (mainly couples ) , however, I couldn’t play without kissing , for me it’s essential , plus I’m bloody good at it . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why some people don’t (mainly couples ) , however, I couldn’t play without kissing , for me it’s essential , plus I’m bloody good at it . Xx"

I agree kissing is so important. If the kiss isn’t good or enjoyed… 9 times out of ten the sex is shit aswell

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Yes i love kissing

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest


"I understand why some people don’t (mainly couples ) , however, I couldn’t play without kissing , for me it’s essential , plus I’m bloody good at it . Xx

I agree kissing is so important. If the kiss isn’t good or enjoyed… 9 times out of ten the sex is shit aswell"

100% agreed xxx

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Defiantly it's happens naturally and is part of the build up. Each to their own but I'd find it strange not to in the moment. Hey she is going to let you kiss her all over so why not on the mouth? Just our take but understand we are all different xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't kiss you properly, the sex won't be worth it.

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By *andyman4uanddiscreetMan
over a year ago

oxford

I love a good snog so a must for me....i even happy with just a snog meet xx

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

What's the point in having sex if there is no kissing .

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over a year ago


"What's the point in having sex if there is no kissing ."

This! Probably couldn't get to sex without kissing tbh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I couldn’t progress without kissing!

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Simply yes

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, I couldn't have sex without kissing it's the best build up.

Mrs

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Kissing is sex for us. Its essential.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Absolutely. It’s probably the most important part for me xx

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By *londecouple90Couple
over a year ago

northampton

Goes without saying

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By *inkycouple692023Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

We both agree kissing is more intimate

And should be kept to a minimum

Sounds silly but we both could feel a little jealous about kissing but watching each other have sex will somebody else

Is a real turn on for us both

That might sound strange but anything else is a real buzz

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I love a good snog….x

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By *ariadx2Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

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By *ariadx2Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"We both agree kissing is more intimate

And should be kept to a minimum

Sounds silly but we both could feel a little jealous about kissing but watching each other have sex will somebody else

Is a real turn on for us both

That might sound strange but anything else is a real buzz

"

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

We do kiss. We both love kissing. Feels odd not too kiss to someone attractive when having sex with them. Plus a turn on and huge part of foreplay before getting naked.

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

For us:

Outdoor random quickie meets don’t need to feature kissing.

For longer indoor and solo one to one meets, it seems strange not to kiss.

Not everyone is skilled at kissing though, we’ve met some guys who think kissing is just about exploring larynxes with tongues.

We will always respect other peoples’ choices though and won’t kiss if it is unwelcome.

As for the ‘keep something for ourselves’ part - we choose to keep LOVE for ourselves

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I love kissing it's one of things I look forward to in a meet

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We love kissing it brings the intensity to it all and its definitely in the build up to everything else

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Used to have threesomes with a mate and his Mrs. She used to kiss, then decided she wanted to keep it for him. As horny as the sessions were, they definitely lost something, as I love kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing it’s part of the action if that’s what the other person wants to

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We always ask as we prefer it but some don't, we find it adds to the excitement

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)


"

As for the ‘keep something for ourselves’ part - we choose to keep LOVE for ourselves "

This bit perfectly sums up how we feel about it.

We love kissing!

It's a great indicator of your potential sexual chemistry, and it makes everything so much hotter.

In fact, not kissing would actually be a deal breaker for us,

MrsGiggler

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

always

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."

I think there are many ways to form a good connection with someone and kissing is only one. If a person or couple want to meet and bring imagination, an open mind and acceptance of others boundaries to the table very good connections can follow. To us this swinging lark is a bit of light hearted fun, we don't want or need to kiss our casual partners, we don't want to make deep connections with people who we'll probably never see again or who will move on to their next meet without a backward glance.

In the past people have told us that sex with us must be cold, robotic, like being with a sex worked the film Pretty Woman is often mentioned and various other rude comparisons. We laugh and think they'd be darn lucky to ever get a chance to find out with that attitude .

The bottom line is some people prefer not to kiss.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?"

Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!

I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.

Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?

Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."

Yes, and yes.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands


"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?

Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?"

Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?

Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?

Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ? "

I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye …

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Kissing us a must for us...

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Exchanging saliva and bodily fluid through food hole is so sexy

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We both kiss others if we have a meet ,I can't imagine not doing.

I do understand why some couples keep it for themselves,but I wouldn't be able to get warmed up so to speak without a good old snog.

Miss

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands


"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?

Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?

Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ?

I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question."

The answer is in your own reply

If we were to just meet cpls for penetration sex then , it's mechanical . Sex meet is basically everything involved in reaching that climax and I believe kissing and sucking licking included.

I will tell you what is unnecessary, the bifem play is completely waste of time I believe in a play meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?

Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?

Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ?

I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question.

The answer is in your own reply

If we were to just meet cpls for penetration sex then , it's mechanical . Sex meet is basically everything involved in reaching that climax and I believe kissing and sucking licking included.

I will tell you what is unnecessary, the bifem play is completely waste of time I believe in a play meet.

"

I'll admit to being confused but that's nothing new.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not always but sometimes, depends on the mood of the meet at the time, neither of us have an issue with the other one engaging in it so it's more down to who we are meeting if it's within their comfort zones. Only if its ok with them.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?

Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?

Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ?

I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question.

The answer is in your own reply

If we were to just meet cpls for penetration sex then , it's mechanical . Sex meet is basically everything involved in reaching that climax and I believe kissing and sucking licking included.

I will tell you what is unnecessary, the bifem play is completely waste of time I believe in a play meet.

I'll admit to being confused but that's nothing new.

Your sarcasm seems very primitive dear. need to improvise a bit "

Ok.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Really don’t get why not ?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I couldn’t imagine not kissing when meeting someone whether that’s been on a one to one or when I’ve met a couple

On my old couples account when playing out a cuckold scenario kidding was withheld but that was part of the dynamic

I love the intensity of kissing and eyes locked on each other

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

We respect choices people have here regards to meet . If it fits in our criteria then we meet them .

No issues with people not kissing ,it's just not for us.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Kissing adds passion- I understand why some couples don’t like that but a recent meet had so many stipulations (don’t kiss, what I could touch, how deep, how hard, what position… where to finish) that I felt that I was just present as a cock for them. Robotic, soulless.

Not meeting them again despite requests

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By *tlwMan
over a year ago

Bermondsey


"I couldn’t imagine not kissing when meeting someone whether that’s been on a one to one or when I’ve met a couple

On my old couples account when playing out a cuckold scenario kidding was withheld but that was part of the dynamic

I love the intensity of kissing and eyes locked on each other "

I couldn’t agree more with you, gorgeous lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very enjoyable with a couple as part of sucking hubby's cock with his wife

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

Love kissing but there are times I’d happily forgo it - like during GBs, swinging parties where the lady has probably has a few before me, or when oral hygiene and teeth is not appealing! In those instances, I thank God I don’t have to do it.

But then again in those instances I probably wouldn’t play as kissing is integral to me..

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By *wointo1Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

I have to kiss.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I have to kiss.

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Are you the president of the Spanish FA?

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

Kissing is so underrated on here! Love a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe Fab needs to add kissing to the list of interests.

For me it's essential, a good passionate kiss with hands all over each other is the perfect way to start the fun.

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?"

Double anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of kissing personally. Gets the blood pumping and temperature rising in all the right ways

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Yes! How the hell do you have sex otherwise!

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Absolutely to kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We kiss, both with couple meets and single. I couldn't imagine having a meet and not kissing but I can understand those that prefer not too, keep something back for themselves (anal is "our thing")

Danish x

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