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By *istersomethingtome OP   Man
over a year ago

Hitchin

It really gets on my tits, that you receive a wink from a profile, reply saying thanks for wink blahdy blahdy blah and they don't respond.

Anyone else have this issue?

Right rant over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, many times

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

It’s rude it’s only a wink ffs.

Be nice send one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not shy, I would reply and see what's what if winks are exchanged. Quite often it was a fat thumb brushing the wrong bit of screen. No harm, no foul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why rant about it? It's not worth getting wound up over.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I rarely wink back but recently thought I'd give it a try, no message or anything it kinda baffled me, why wink in the 1st place

Mrs

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Haha happens with us almost daily.

Cpls wink at us and when replied , disappear

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yep. So frustrating but part of the process on here I'm afraid!

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By *istersomethingtome OP   Man
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Haha happens with us almost daily.

Cpls wink at us and when replied , disappear

"

Their loss

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Yeah that’s happened to us too !

I don’t get it ? Can only think one half of the couple winked but the other half has decided we aren’t worthy lol

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yeah that’s happened to us too !

I don’t get it ? Can only think one half of the couple winked but the other half has decided we aren’t worthy lol "

They must be crazy! So worth it x

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Yep, which is why I no longer respond to them

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"It really gets on my tits, that you receive a wink from a profile, reply saying thanks for wink blahdy blahdy blah and they don't respond.

Anyone else have this issue?

Right rant over!"

They may be accidental winks. If you're using the Desktop site on a Tablet one touch and the wink is sent. It doesn't say "Are you sure you want to send a wink?". We've done it ourselves, so use the Mobile version now.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Yes, constantly. We wink back if we are interested but do not message them. If they were interested in the first place we wait for them to initiate with a message, if they don't, then we know any message from us would have been wasted.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"Yes, constantly. We wink back if we are interested but do not message them. If they were interested in the first place we wait for them to initiate with a message, if they don't, then we know any message from us would have been wasted."

We do exactly the same.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I dont pay attention to winks no more. If someone winks and not message me then I just delete it maybe even block the person too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, but then people don’t have to like me when I virtually open my gab. Plenty of fish in the …..

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Yes, constantly. We wink back if we are interested but do not message them. If they were interested in the first place we wait for them to initiate with a message, if they don't, then we know any message from us would have been wasted."

This is the same for me, I'll wink back if they don't msg forget about it and move on, same if I wink someone first if they wink back I'll msg them.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London


"Yes, constantly. We wink back if we are interested but do not message them. If they were interested in the first place we wait for them to initiate with a message, if they don't, then we know any message from us would have been wasted."

This is what we do too, but lots of times winking back does not lead to them messaging lol. Maybe they get a lot of winks and ours get lost in the pile……

Sarah xx

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We get this too. It’s a bit odd. Maybe they wink while d*unk, then feel like they don’t have any interest while sober? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get winks?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We get this too. It’s a bit odd. Maybe they wink while d*unk, then feel like they don’t have any interest while sober? Lol"

You'll probably find it's the Man in a couple sending out loads of winks and messages, when (or if) He shows the Wife She's not interested. We've actually met Couples in person and the Wife had no idea they'd messaged us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely wink back but recently thought I'd give it a try, no message or anything it kinda baffled me, why wink in the 1st place

Mrs "

Always say thank you when i get a wink....respectful and polite

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"We get this too. It’s a bit odd. Maybe they wink while d*unk, then feel like they don’t have any interest while sober? Lol

You'll probably find it's the Man in a couple sending out loads of winks and messages, when (or if) He shows the Wife She's not interested. We've actually met Couples in person and the Wife had no idea they'd messaged us."

lol yeh probably. Absolutely pointless and couples should be much more in tune and work together on this stuff.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

If we wink first then get one back we always send a message thanking them and opening up the conversation.

If we get a wink and we like them enough to wink back we wait for them to send us a message, doesn’t happen often so yes it’s frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its late at night then I guess there are a lot of tiddly winks...if it was an arranged meet and they didn't turn up then that's a different league

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Yes, this happened to me just the other day. The couple had looked at my profile so it was deliberate. I sent a warm but not pushy reply and nothing....The least they could have done was acknowledge that and say they didn't want to take it further.

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