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Honesty is the best policy?

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By *inkyJames OP   Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I know id be able to interact therefore have a lot of fun if Id just lied about my age by at least 20 years

Is honesty still the best policy for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always be honest, something/someone out there for everyone x

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Honesty is always best, you lie you get caught out

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By *inkyJames OP   Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Thx for such great food for thought

You really do Rock

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I know id be able to interact therefore have a lot of fun if Id just lied about my age by at least 20 years

Is honesty still the best policy for me? "

Do you really think you could convince anyone you're at least 20 years younger than you are?

Frank

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I sometimes look at guys on here and think, "am I the only one telling truth about my age. There's no way you are younger than me"

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep always be honest

If people catch you in one lie,they'll wonder what else you're not being truthful about.

Miss

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By *inkyJames OP   Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I guess I'll have to wear my age like a badge couldn't hurt it is what it is and I am as old as I am no denying it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm 66 I don't think anyone would believe me if I said I was 46.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think would happen if you turned up to a meet and you were clearly lying about your age?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im 63 and no i couldnt get away with a younger age,,

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

We think being honset is always right we dont like people who use fake face pictures.

But we know what to do with those profiles and also like people being honset if its not a regaul thing they want we move on

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

We've chatted to couples more than once, then seen face pics that were clearly years older. Almost always resulted in not meeting.

And yes, we realize some people look older than they are. Unfortunately we also realize a lot of fabbers are fibbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never have problems with anyone who is honest.. we see it as a positive attribute.

On the other hand we have met others who have clearly lied about ages and other things. We instantly walk away. If they lie about that what else do they lie about..

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

Driver looks young for his age, he looks younger than some men I’ve met that are younger than me.

Photos people post or send don’t always tell the real story either, which is why I now find it essential to meet guys socially before a proper sex meet happens.

x Miniskirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person won't sleep with you because of your age, and you like to get laid, your doing so without informed consent. .

Be honest the right people will want you

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"If a person won't sleep with you because of your age, and you like to get laid, your doing so without informed consent. .

Be honest the right people will want you"

Good point. But it would be interesting to see a ‘I consented because he said he was 35 but subsequently turned out to be 45 so I retrospectively withdraw my consent and have reported him for non consensual sex’ line tested in law.

Especially given how upsettingly hard it is to secure a charge, let alone a conviction, for actual non-consensual sex nowadays.

This forum won’t allow the use of the ‘R’ word btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Good point. But it would be interesting to see a ‘I consented because he said he was 35 but subsequently turned out to be 45 so I retrospectively withdraw my consent and have reported him for non consensual sex’ line tested in law.

Especially given how upsettingly hard it is to secure a charge, let alone a conviction, for actual non-consensual sex nowadays.

This forum won’t allow the use of the ‘R’ word btw. "

Unless you are spanish and kiss someone on the lips...

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

When the Mrs checks out pics of potential meets, she checks the age & the usual comment is

" fuck me, his paper round was all up hill" . So basically if your trying to fib about your age it's an instant NO . Just be honest

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"

Good point. But it would be interesting to see a ‘I consented because he said he was 35 but subsequently turned out to be 45 so I retrospectively withdraw my consent and have reported him for non consensual sex’ line tested in law.

Especially given how upsettingly hard it is to secure a charge, let alone a conviction, for actual non-consensual sex nowadays.

This forum won’t allow the use of the ‘R’ word btw.

Unless you are spanish and kiss someone on the lips... "

Perhaps the problem there was it was done in front of a stadium full of witnesses on worldwide television, maybe?

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"When the Mrs checks out pics of potential meets, she checks the age & the usual comment is

" fuck me, his paper round was all up hill" . So basically if your trying to fib about your age it's an instant NO . Just be honest "

Would a guy publish such a negative verification though?

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close


"When the Mrs checks out pics of potential meets, she checks the age & the usual comment is

" fuck me, his paper round was all up hill" . So basically if your trying to fib about your age it's an instant NO . Just be honest

Would a guy publish such a negative verification though? "

Not sure what you were trying to say....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the Mrs checks out pics of potential meets, she checks the age & the usual comment is

" fuck me, his paper round was all up hill" . So basically if your trying to fib about your age it's an instant NO . Just be honest "

Haha, I always think wow you must have had a hard paper round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us anyway however if you were...

Seeing this would make us avoid you anyway as you had to ask about lying.

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By *inkyJames OP   Man
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Thank you so much for your input such good food for thought

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if you lie about your age then what else are you lying aboiut...

people being truthful about there age on here is a big problem they use old photos or filters to con you then turn up looking nothing like ...its simple with me i just walk away they have wasted there time and ill then by word of mouth tell everuone i know that this person lies to get meets its dishonest and it in no way just men in fact ill go a little further here i think its more women that lie about age than men ...its sad and desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are very few people who could knock 20 years off their age and get away with it.

It would be apparent as soon as they turned up and would be an instant end to the meet for me personally.

I certainly wouldn’t have the energy of someone 20 years younger ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty every time!

To lie is to be caught out.

We ask for several requirements in our profile and 70% of our social meets have been caught out.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Be honest the right people will want you"

Bingo. There are those who are specifically only interested in older or much older men.

I feel like most often the instinct of most guys is to try and play the numbers game and cast the widest net possible, therefore not being at all specific or intentional about what they want (and what they can offer).

In my opinion it's better for all involved to actually lean into your niche, narrow that field and be really specific and intentional. Does that make the pool a lot smaller? Yes. Does it also increase the chances of a successful match with those left in said pool? Also yes.

Honesty is huge. It's your integrity. Don't trade away your integrity for superficially boosting your chances at getting your dick wet.

Good luck.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Be honest the right people will want you

Bingo. There are those who are specifically only interested in older or much older men.

I feel like most often the instinct of most guys is to try and play the numbers game and cast the widest net possible, therefore not being at all specific or intentional about what they want (and what they can offer).

In my opinion it's better for all involved to actually lean into your niche, narrow that field and be really specific and intentional. Does that make the pool a lot smaller? Yes. Does it also increase the chances of a successful match with those left in said pool? Also yes.

Honesty is huge. It's your integrity. Don't trade away your integrity for superficially boosting your chances at getting your dick wet.

Good luck. "

this is great advice for all ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be as honest as I can although it kills me seeing my age go up on my birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be as honest as I can although it kills me seeing my age go up on my birthday"

That made me smile as I’m exactly the same. It was my birthday this month and I checked straightaway just in case it hadn’t changed.

It had of course !

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Be honest the right people will want you

Bingo. There are those who are specifically only interested in older or much older men.

I feel like most often the instinct of most guys is to try and play the numbers game and cast the widest net possible, therefore not being at all specific or intentional about what they want (and what they can offer).

In my opinion it's better for all involved to actually lean into your niche, narrow that field and be really specific and intentional. Does that make the pool a lot smaller? Yes. Does it also increase the chances of a successful match with those left in said pool? Also yes.

Honesty is huge. It's your integrity. Don't trade away your integrity for superficially boosting your chances at getting your dick wet.

Good luck.

this is great advice for all ..."

I'd be interested to see if the folk above still think the same when they hit their 50s. Except the single female. Your age doesn't matter as some bloke will always want you.

Frank

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife


"I know id be able to interact therefore have a lot of fun if Id just lied about my age by at least 20 years

Is honesty still the best policy for me? "

Be honest, up front..

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