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How much is too much?

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford

There have been a number of posts with people talking about liking longer or thicker dicks (or both). I'd be interested in exploring the other side - ladies, what would you consider too long or too thick and why?

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

If it hurts, it's too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6-7" is perfect. My guy is 7" and that's about just perfect - sometimes slightly too big if he gets very very hard...

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

11” is definitely too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6-7" is perfect. My guy is 7" and that's about just perfect - sometimes slightly too big if he gets very very hard..."

Would a 5.75" in deep positions also be fun

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I don't have that problem, I'm what you would call avarage size, both in length and girth. So what I lack in the cock department and more the make up for it in my oral skills

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"11” is definitely too long."

Am sure most women would agree - am assuming those who like it that long may be into pain

What is too much girth?

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By *r.XratedMan
over a year ago

Liverpool/New York

Kirsty says mine hurts her if I push it in more than half way

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"Kirsty says mine hurts her if I push it in more than half way"

Either you are huge or she can't take big (or both). How big are we talking?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Being around the 7.5" mark and having been with a number of women I can say this.

They pretty much all say that the 6"-7" range is the sweet spot.

Occasional cervix banging (which is uncomfortable) but enough to fully fill.

A good girth appears to be favourable too.

But I've not measured so I've no idea of a range.

I myself like a bigger, and girthier cock but... I'm not a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have good size and never had any complaints. All women I have been with took in completly and loved feeling of my balls slapping clit from behind.

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

My preference is average sized but I occasionally like a challenge! Bigger guys really need to go slow with me though as I’m quite tight.

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"My preference is average sized but I occasionally like a challenge! Bigger guys really need to go slow with me though as I’m quite tight."

Bigger as in girth or length?

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By *r.XratedMan
over a year ago

Liverpool/New York


"Kirsty says mine hurts her if I push it in more than half way

Either you are huge or she can't take big (or both). How big are we talking?"

I wouldn't say I'm huge but it's a good size. Other girls have said the same but others could take it well

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Over 8 is too much, I prefer average even small.

Mrs

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

you can have average size cock, but you sure know how to use it

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Prefer average to small (if they can use it) rather than big. Big is just fricken painful. I want thrilling not killing

Mrs M

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"I want thrilling not killing

Mrs M"

Love that!

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By *ctualhungladMan
over a year ago

Preston

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By *iFunMale_southMan
over a year ago

Reading

At 8 inches I seem to be very well received in the front and sometimes declined in the back!

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There's a video clip about size that does the rounds which starts;

5in fine

6in fabulous

7in almost too big

8in definitely too big

I'm inclined to agree lol. Not that it's all about the length, girth is noticeable as well. Also ignoring size completely I'd much rather have someone who knows what angles to hit than someone who's just going to pound away. Get me at the right angle and I'll get so wet there's puddles.

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"My preference is average sized but I occasionally like a challenge! Bigger guys really need to go slow with me though as I’m quite tight.

Bigger as in girth or length?"

Both really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a video clip about size that does the rounds which starts;

5in fine

6in fabulous

7in almost too big

8in definitely too big

I'm inclined to agree lol. Not that it's all about the length, girth is noticeable as well. Also ignoring size completely I'd much rather have someone who knows what angles to hit than someone who's just going to pound away. Get me at the right angle and I'll get so wet there's puddles. "

Well at 5.75, im top end of fine and just off fabulous, ill take that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older ive got the more ive come to appreciate being average as its good for balls deep oral, allowed for.anal and fucking hard in deep posutions is all good as the female enjoys it as they can relax knowing they arent going to get hurt.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

All true & not going to blow their mind with the ride of their life either.

Perfect?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.

Mrs

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.

Mrs"

I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal?

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

I'd agree with the majority of the female posts on here, 7"-8" is the sweet spot for me. Bigger can really bloody hurt and can restrict positions for play, a wee bit smaller can be ok, not a diddy one though wouldn't do it for me.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.

Mrs

I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal?"

Anal depends how turned on i am. My partner is around 6" girth. Most times i can take him anally. Rarely we have to leave anal alone as i struggle to take him. Pussy wise 6-7" is ok. I did try a 8.5" girth dildo in my pussy once, after i was quite sore so even girth can be to much at that thickness. Jo.

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.

Mrs

I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal?

Anal depends how turned on i am. My partner is around 6" girth. Most times i can take him anally. Rarely we have to leave anal alone as i struggle to take him. Pussy wise 6-7" is ok. I did try a 8.5" girth dildo in my pussy once, after i was quite sore so even girth can be to much at that thickness. Jo. "

Wow - at that girth I'm not surprised! At least with a dildo you could control the motion.

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.

Mrs

I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal?

Anal depends how turned on i am. My partner is around 6" girth. Most times i can take him anally. Rarely we have to leave anal alone as i struggle to take him. Pussy wise 6-7" is ok. I did try a 8.5" girth dildo in my pussy once, after i was quite sore so even girth can be to much at that thickness. Jo.

Wow - at that girth I'm not surprised! At least with a dildo you could control the motion."

Yes and stop when you feel like. If it was a guy id struggle to go for a long time.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread"

No point in taking a big cock if it's going to hurt. Rather pleasure over size any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be a problem for a few ladies but appearances can be deceiving.

The art is in how to make it functional

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread

No point in taking a big cock if it's going to hurt. Rather pleasure over size any day. "

I get that entirely (I know exactly what you mean!)

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread"

Ah they may not be on this thread but they defo exist, I've been surprised at women specifying the need for a big cock, implies a rather flappy fanny! Lol!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I could be a problem for a few ladies but appearances can be deceiving.

The art is in how to make it functional "

It don't make a difference if the guy is over 7.5" i am not interested how skilled he is with his dick. One thrust too deep and pain is on the cards. No thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread

Ah they may not be on this thread but they defo exist, I've been surprised at women specifying the need for a big cock, implies a rather flappy fanny! Lol!"

Flappy fanny !!! Lol

How tight are you ?

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread

Ah they may not be on this thread but they defo exist, I've been surprised at women specifying the need for a big cock, implies a rather flappy fanny! Lol!

Flappy fanny !!! Lol

How tight are you ?"

Mwhaha just totally normal, tight enough to feel an average member, too tight for a huge monster lol! I enjoyed writing 'flappy fanny', made me think of the old 'yer ma' jokes lol!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

About 7-8 inches would be just nice

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"About 7-8 inches would be just nice "

Sounds like we have some consensus on length, and from the sound of it girth up to around 6 or 7, with maybe a little thinner for anal play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she walks out the hotel room like Tina Turner, she's satisfied. If she needs to be wheeled out, your penis is too big for her bro.

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By *immy0169Man
over a year ago

london

7,5” here

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford


"If she walks out the hotel room like Tina Turner, she's satisfied. If she needs to be wheeled out, your penis is too big for her bro."

Mine is 7.5 inch length, a little on the thicker side at 7 inch girth so "should" be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 8 inches I seem to be very well received in the front and sometimes declined in the back! "

I've found this too, luckily I'm not really into anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a thought.. why is it always about the size of the wick and not the inkwell it is being dipped into?

Men take penis size far too seriously when good sex is made up of so much more.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I don't have exact measurements, but thickness always has to be around average or my vaginismus will kick off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a thought.. why is it always about the size of the wick and not the inkwell it is being dipped into?

Men take penis size far too seriously when good sex is made up of so much more."

I'd agree, I d say it matters more to gay and bi sexual guys on here from messages and comments on here.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"If she walks out the hotel room like Tina Turner, she's satisfied. If she needs to be wheeled out, your penis is too big for her bro."

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

dublin

Have never taken out a rule for used a sky remote or a can of something

For me it’s about chemistry in a meet

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Have never taken out a rule for used a sky remote or a can of something

For me it’s about chemistry in a meet "

OP is asking ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she walks out the hotel room like Tina Turner, she's satisfied. If she needs to be wheeled out, your penis is too big for her bro.

"

Isn't Tina dead?

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By *am OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilford

My question applies to woman primarily, any others who want to respond also are welcome

This can apply to vaginal, anal or oral play.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Im very large in length and girth.

Ive found that most women find it uncomfortable , and some too painful. Ive never dared try anal with anyone.

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