FabSwingers.com forum: Rude people

By *onythebigbull OP Man
over a year ago

barrow

End of the day we are swingers we all have are reasons to stay private so why are people so fucking negative sorry for the rant

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hris211978Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

There are some very rude people on here I agree with you. I just try and find the nice ones out there.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onythebigbull OP Man
over a year ago

barrow

Thanks pal

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is on here and can get upto 50 messages, she doesn't have time to read and reply so will delete most.

Some see this as being rude. Often alot of guys don't read the profile and send messages anyway.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

How are people being negative?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onythebigbull OP Man
over a year ago

barrow

Ye I get what your saying Leon but its frustrating.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onythebigbull OP Man
over a year ago

barrow

Hi there so negative they don't want to chat or give you a chance to put your case across why am on this site .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there so negative they don't want to chat or give you a chance to put your case across why am on this site ."

If someone isn't interested in you it doesn't mean they are negative

Women don't have to chat or give anyone a chance if they don't want to...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Tony, no one has to speak to anyone they don’t want to.

It’s normal life. Don’t let it get to you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know alot of women on here literally won't entertain a conversation with someone without a profile pic or decent profile.

I get some don't want to for personal reasons but they kinda need to see you to see if there's a fancy first.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *assyleigh92Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Hi there so negative they don't want to chat or give you a chance to put your case across why am on this site ."

Consider it the other way around. Would you entertain someone you didn't want to play with out of politeness ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"End of the day we are swingers we all have are reasons to stay private so why are people so fucking negative sorry for the rant "

How would your wife react if she received the messages you send

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onythebigbull OP Man
over a year ago

barrow

Thanks everyone av took on board your comments

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know alot of women on here literally won't entertain a conversation with someone without a profile pic or decent profile.

I get some don't want to for personal reasons but they kinda need to see you to see if there's a fancy first."

no one "kinda needs" to do anything that they dont want to do!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"End of the day we are swingers we all have are reasons to stay private so why are people so fucking negative sorry for the rant

How would your wife react if she received the messages you send"

Fair point.

Will you answer OP?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I know alot of women on here literally won't entertain a conversation with someone without a profile pic or decent profile."

Yep, that's us. If you're not willing to put any effort into writing a good profile why should we put the effort into having a conversation with you?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Yeah deffo perfer kind people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

So many arrogant pricks.

I am ok with some of the brutal messages but some of the new guys trying to just get involved must get annoyed here a lot.

Cheer up EVERYONE!!

We all just want fun!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

Expectations and entitlement

Its getting worse the amount of people yes people cause no this is not just a guy thing lately lots of couples too who think that they are owed something or will get something for very little work ..

expectations you should have none its that simple swinging is a lifestyle where to have fun you have to attract and that’s not a given guarantee for anyone

entitlement you have none zero na da none … that applies to all on this scene no matter who you are

day after day post after post claims people not nice …people rude … give me a chance … am I that ugly … been ghost (clearly not … why have they stop chatting …. Oh poor me …. Its affecting my mental health …and on and on it goes … but the truth is nobody owes you anything nothing yep its that simple ….

Swinging is a lifestyle choice it’s a choice to have extra fun without commitments with other people who feel the same way and your attracted to in someway …. Its not and never will be a sex on a plate for everyone no mater who you are or another words its not a shag anything with anyone do anything lifestyle those of you who constantly moan its not working for me well theres a reason could be one of many reasons but theres always a reason and for many it will simply be a % percentages thing

Its not rude if someone don’t want to talk its not rude to block its ok if someone stops talking nobody owes you anything…

Swinging always has and always will be based on acceptance or rejection by individuals and couples

And lastly sorry guys but this is to you …its not the fault of women and couples that the site is 95% men so taking it out on us is counter productive as women and couples will just leave the online scene therefore making it even less likely for you to get meets

It’s a swingers site …. Nothing more nothing less

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

OP whilst I get what you’re trying to say however what us lads need to do understand is that it’s a battle in itself to get the attention we want from the swingers here!!!

Bombarding people ain’t gonna help the cause fact being that it’s always gonna make it worse regardless of how much we behave in a decent manner….

Because we are a species that can only be accepted if it’s us people whom they seek out all will agree with me that we’re outnumbered,couples and females are spoilt for choice!!!!!

So don’t be offended or upset by not getting the recognition or response you want….

I hope nobody takes this a dig I’m just saying this as my perspective

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Its not only the ratio..how often do you think women and couples are actually meeting. Not as often as single guys get horny

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onythebigbull OP Man
over a year ago

barrow

Fair comments

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The tone of your profile isn't exactly enticing op and is showing your frustration at the site.

We wouldn't respond to a profile like that ,I appreciate the site can be hard work,it is for couples too believe it or not.

You have some good veries ,more pics and a bit more on your profile may help .

Miss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"End of the day we are swingers we all have are reasons to stay private so why are people so fucking negative sorry for the rant "

But you are being negative?

Chill and smile

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I can be rude too at times...coz majority can't even read

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Its not only the ratio..how often do you think women and couples are actually meeting. Not as often as single guys get horny

utter rubbish again women get as horny as men if not more i meet as often as i want and because i have a couple of regular guy i can meet every day sometime more than once a day ...

so this thing that men think women dont get as hormy as often is utter crap

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there so negative they don't want to chat or give you a chance to put your case across why am on this site ."

Put your case across ?

If someone isn’t interested in what you offer you aren’t going to change that .

We try to be polite and reply to most messages but if someone isn’t what you are looking for , it clearly states that in your Bio which they can’t be bothered to read why should someone be bothered to respond ?

Happy Fabbing everyone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

There are rude people here, rude people in real life. Some situations appear to encourage rudeness. Being online and being behind the wheel of a vehicle spring to mind.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Its not only the ratio..how often do you think women and couples are actually meeting. Not as often as single guys get horny

utter rubbish again women get as horny as men if not more i meet as often as i want and because i have a couple of regular guy i can meet every day sometime more than once a day ...

so this thing that men think women dont get as hormy as often is utter crap"

I didnt say women are less horny than men. That would be a ridiculous thing to say.

In your scenario you meet regular men when youre horny every day and if you get too horny you may also meet a guy who messages from here ... so if you get even 5 messages a day and you meet a new fabber even 2 or 3 times a week ...there will still be 30 odd guys a week who didnt get their dick wet in you .. 31 if you include your husband

So it wasnt a comment on how horny you get.

It was simply an observation that meeting men for sex is an occassional treat for many people ... not an unquenchable thirst

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Its not only the ratio..how often do you think women and couples are actually meeting. Not as often as single guys get horny

utter rubbish again women get as horny as men if not more i meet as often as i want and because i have a couple of regular guy i can meet every day sometime more than once a day ...

so this thing that men think women dont get as hormy as often is utter crap"

Agreed, it's totally nonsense. I (Mr.) am a guy too, and I guess I get as horny as anyone else and I my Mrs. gets horny as often as I do. Only difference is that as a couple with a young family we have commitments so we cannot meet whenever/wherever we want. It's that simple.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It’s my prerogative to pick and choose who I do and don’t want to reply to. As it’s theirs to choose whether or not to engage with me. Suck it up x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Had another one today. I was contacted by a local couple , said they wanted to meet them blocked me. It’s par for the course you have to just move on.

I agree it’s not nice to do it like that but it’s not the end of the world

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oll_Face_xxWoman
over a year ago

Dollywood

"Hi there so negative they don't want to chat or give you a chance to put your case across why am on this site .

If someone isn't interested in you it doesn't mean they are negative

Women don't have to chat or give anyone a chance if they don't want to..."

Fully agree with you. I get messages that either are lost in spam or ones with content I've said I'm not into and I don't reply then I get abuse and called alsorts of names..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Hi there so negative they don't want to chat or give you a chance to put your case across why am on this site .

If someone isn't interested in you it doesn't mean they are negative

Women don't have to chat or give anyone a chance if they don't want to...

Fully agree with you. I get messages that either are lost in spam or ones with content I've said I'm not into and I don't reply then I get abuse and called alsorts of names..

Liquorice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If they're rude for just not replying or saying no thanks, you might want to scale down what you class as rude.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread