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Getting a Poly realtionship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does being polyamorous mean? Polyamory is a form of ethical, or consensual, non-monogamy that involves having romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners at the same time.

Really need to find a nice bi guy nice bi women or nice bi couple intrested in this if theres any one out there that wants this ????

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s something I’ve been interested in when I was singleX. But tough to find the people

To make it work

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By *aughtyLittlePicsCouple
over a year ago

Belper

poly is something we just "became" It happened over a period of years and didn't realise it. I don't think if we'd searched for partners it would have happened.

First they were friends, then extra sex partners and then one day we realised we had feelings.

But it's very, very different from other partners we had who were just for sex.

I hope you find what you what but as advice we'd just say make friends have fun.

Might sound weird but for us it wasn't choosing to have feelings for someone else it was choosing to accept that it was ok to have feelings for more than each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m poly, it’s fun.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Being an addition to an existing dyad is the worst form of polyamory

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

We branched out into ENM in recent years. It's been an enlightening experience. Mostly learning the different types of choices and preferences. Poly wasn't our thing, but solo fwbs felt a better fit.

A LOT of conversation is required on all sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds lovely

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By *ingerbeardman-Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

I'm poly and wouldn't have it any other way

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm polyamorous, I have two male partners and one has another female partner.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"We branched out into ENM in recent years. It's been an enlightening experience. Mostly learning the different types of choices and preferences. Poly wasn't our thing, but solo fwbs felt a better fit.

A LOT of conversation is required on all sides"

Yeah poly isn't for everyone... It's a lot of hard work, but if it is for you the hard work (and many shared calanders and spreadsheets) make it worth it.

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)


"We branched out into ENM in recent years. It's been an enlightening experience. Mostly learning the different types of choices and preferences. Poly wasn't our thing, but solo fwbs felt a better fit.

A LOT of conversation is required on all sides

Yeah poly isn't for everyone... It's a lot of hard work, but if it is for you the hard work (and many shared calanders and spreadsheets) make it worth it. "

The 4 way calendar planning was funny at times, occasionally overwhelming, but we learnt a lot about our needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the biggest thing you learned ?

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Communication is everything. Not making assumptions, everyone interprets things differently. You can't over communicate.

Also....it's hot AF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Communication is everything. Not making assumptions, everyone interprets things differently. You can't over communicate.

Also....it's hot AF"

I can imagine!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No thanks."

No from us to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only kind geuine people please

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if its poly your after then maybe find a site that is for poly ?

its a very small scene on its own so it would be even smaller on a swinger site ..

and i would guess and its only a guess that most poly people dont swing

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By *iLondonMMan
over a year ago

London

I lived with a bi couple for just over two years and while it certainly had its complications, on the whole it was an incredible experience

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By *entleman_of_pleasureMan
over a year ago

Manchester

And now I want a cracker...

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By *aughtyPuppyMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

It just happened for us naturally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only kind advice please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if its poly your after then maybe find a site that is for poly ?

its a very small scene on its own so it would be even smaller on a swinger site ..

and i would guess and its only a guess that most poly people dont swing"

Not right at all

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"if its poly your after then maybe find a site that is for poly ?

its a very small scene on its own so it would be even smaller on a swinger site ..

and i would guess and its only a guess that most poly people dont swing

Not right at all"

what bit ?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

Open Relationship

Partners who are in an established relationship with each other and openly agree to see other people. They may do this together, separately, or a combination of both. The connections they make outside of their relationship may or may not be romantic, sexual or emotionally involved. It is common for couples to establish agreements on what they can and cannot do with other people. These agreements will vary from couple to couple and may change over time, depending on the needs and desires of all parties involved.

Polyamory

I’ve heard polyamory defined as the practice of loving more than one person and the practice of loving in many ways. What I love about polyamory is that it allows for everyone involved to be who they are and find healthy ways of being in a relationship with others. Like open relationships, polyamory will take on the form of the people who choose this lifestyle. Polyamory stands out from other forms of ethical non-monogamy in that polyamorous people are drawn to relationships that are emotionally involved (think “in love”). People in poly relationships tend to view their relationships equally rather than assign labels like “primary” and “secondary”.

Swinging

Swinging is a form of social sex. Singles and couples, called swingers, engage in different kinds of sexual sharing or swapping with each other. The degree of intimacy and sexual involvement differs with every encounter and is determined by clear boundaries and agreements with all parties. Swinging can be a great way to enhance sexual energy and connection in any relationship. As with any form of ethical non-monogamy, open honest communication is essential.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

also do your research on Why are so many poly people anti swinging?...

i know of a poly group is that the right word ? 3 women 5 men who all live as one they all love one another bar one guy who only loves one but accept all ... they are anti swinger they belive sex is between people in relationships ... and this is belived by many when you look into it via the net ... im not saying you cant be a swinger if poly what im saying is its a very very small group..

if you think swinging is hard then poly is gonna be a hell of alot harder tho that will change in years to come ... i do hope you find what your looking for tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"also do your research on Why are so many poly people anti swinging?...

i know of a poly group is that the right word ? 3 women 5 men who all live as one they all love one another bar one guy who only loves one but accept all ... they are anti swinger they belive sex is between people in relationships ... and this is belived by many when you look into it via the net ... im not saying you cant be a swinger if poly what im saying is its a very very small group..

if you think swinging is hard then poly is gonna be a hell of alot harder tho that will change in years to come ... i do hope you find what your looking for tho"

Thanks

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