FabSwingers.com forum: Are NSA and FWB still a thing?

By *osh bloke OP Man
over a year ago

hereford

Hi all,

It seems there's a few of us of to chams this evening for beach party. Just recently I've noticed that most people I've met with both from fab, other sites and clubs have been great but there's always afters. Don't get me wrong I like it, little reminders sent via text, the odd enticing pic etc. However I've also found that NSA doesn't seem to be a thing anymore and is almost looked down upon.

I'm not someone who wants endless streams of women to fuck and never to speak again, I think building a connection is important and this done via trust built over time. However sometimes I just want to have raw sex. It's different and exciting. When I first joined fab about 5 years ago it was easier to find women who wanted the same. Nowadays it's almost looked down upon and i don't know why.

Has anyone else had similar experiences and surely there are still women on here that just want some raw sex without any relationship stuff that comes with it

By *heWanderer100Man
over a year ago

southend

Really agree, it seems so hard nowadays to find someone willing to make that connection. I’ve had a few FWB’s, and am still very friendly with most of them, just don’t get a chance to see them as they or I have moved away.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like from the OP its more of an ad hoc ons situation needed. Any concept of regular meeting is going to cause ‘connections’ where you are in contact a bit more. I always thought FWB was a friend with benefits - you had sex but there was also a friendship just no romantic strings attached, no feelings allowed but you can still be mates. If you want to just have sex and no connection maybe club meets are best? You don't have to swap contact details at all.