FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies do you ever lash out

By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

During sex / intense play , almost uncontrollably and hurt your man? Or feel like you want to, or even warn him you think you will ?

How do you like to be treated in those intense moments ? Restrained ? Allowed to be free and go for it ? Taken off the boil and calmed ?

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

I like you to succumb.

Stop worrying about what’s being done to you and surrender- enjoy exploring the pain/pleasure threshold

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I like you to succumb.

Stop worrying about what’s being done to you and surrender- enjoy exploring the pain/pleasure threshold "

That sounds more experienced and controlled though , it’s different , that’s what I do.

All Your senses are engaged and alert , you’re thinking ahead, intensifying carefully etc this is a different thing it’s like a volcano erupting.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I accidentally bit the Mr's shoulder during a very intense orgasm, it didn't go gown well

Woops.

Mrs

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I accidentally bit the Mr's shoulder during a very intense orgasm, it didn't go gown well

Woops.

Mrs "

Awww that’s forgivable. I quite like being covered in bites and bruises after a good session

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

No I never have done but when things do get intense I am careful of how hard I am with my nails

As for me more with intensity I definitely like restraint, even better if you’re looking into the other persons eyes

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"No I never have done but when things do get intense I am careful of how hard I am with my nails

As for me more with intensity I definitely like restraint, even better if you’re looking into the other persons eyes "

Yeah that’s hot locking eyes and giving that ‘you’re not going anywhere’ look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’d never want to hurt him and that definitely wouldn’t be a turn of for him. He’s more dominant than me in bed.

But moaning loudly and biting my lip that’s something else

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"During sex / intense play , almost uncontrollably and hurt your man? Or feel like you want to, or even warn him you think you will ?

How do you like to be treated in those intense moments ? Restrained ? Allowed to be free and go for it ? Taken off the boil and calmed ? "

Maybe this was a bad idea to post.

Anyone saying yes that’s me! feels like they are putting an ‘avoid me ‘ sign up ? Fuck no , a bit like squirting, crying, hypersensitivity, letting your body fully take over is good, it’s a privilege to have someone so liberated.

Probably best not to just surprise him , talk about what might happen when you get the intensity and how you like to treated in those moments , definitely no need to start apologising during sex when you feel it starting

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I wouldn't say lashed out but sometimes it's quite primal and animalistic and I enjoy sinking my teeth into someone as I come. My nails scratching them as they fuck me. That sort of thing.

Right now I'd probably say I'm a bit cautious about it? The penultimate time I did it I was told not to leave marks due to fairness on others... only to be sent bruise photos from them, from someone else a week later.

I like sex where I can be myself. Can talk about things and then relax and go with the flow. I don't always have that sort of primal sex because it depends on the dynamic I have with a person.

I also think I'm probably a bit wary and tend to hold back a bit because of the aforementioned experience but I think that in the coming months I'll rediscover that freedom to just be myself.

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By *acyCariadWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm the opposite, my partner has to encourage me to let loose! I am always scared I'll hurt him, but I haven't yet...

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Once had a lovely lady throw her head back enthusiastically during doggy and burst my nose quite impressively. Blood stopped play for a bit

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