FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting the unverified

By *iniskirtcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

What’s your personal take on meeting verification virgins?

Nobody comes here with verifications. We all have to break our duck somehow.

For couples, and single women, that’s always relatively easy.

But for single guys, it’s a big struggle. Especially with so many couples and ladies stating ‘will not meet unverified people’ on their profiles.

So we like to be charitable.

If an unverified person or couple can show us a ‘proof pic’, and we like what we see and read, then we’ll always give them a try.

However, people on here for a year without verifications are either very unlucky, undesirable or not serious about meeting, so they’ll struggle to convince us to meet them.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have been an unverified virgin 4 times because each time I left and returned I didn't ask to be reverified by those I met on a previous profile.

There have been numerous help a fabber threads in the Irish forums over the last couple of years which seemed to be fairly successful.

I rarely chat on here and meet even less but the last time I was feeling generous enough to chat to an unverified profile I regretted it.

She contacted one of my fab friends and told her to back off and resorted to body shaming when I challenged her on it.

As a result I won't be chatting to any unverified profiles again regardless of what sob stories they have.

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By *tuvyMan
over a year ago

bedford

A club is a great way to get verified

I’m not keen on any meets with out a face time of both of them before I commit to travelling

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll happily meet unverified if they can prove they are real prior to meeting.

We all have to start somewhere.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unverified and undesirable. Rinse and repeat.

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By *iniskirtcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"A club is a great way to get verified

I’m not keen on any meets with out a face time of both of them before I commit to travelling "

We have met several people at clubs, only to find they’re not on fabs!

But yes, it can be a good strategy for getting off the nmark.

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By *iniskirtcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"I'll happily meet unverified if they can prove they are real prior to meeting.

We all have to start somewhere.

Mrs "

Yep, exactly our methodology. A proof pic and maybe a phone call. Then a social to test the waters, leading to a full meet if it all feels right.

Otherwise aren’t we all going to end up fucking the same very small group of ‘super-verified’ users?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I have and would again - as long as I know someone is real and they tick the boxes that make them attractive to me, I don’t care if they’ve met before or not.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"A club is a great way to get verified

I’m not keen on any meets with out a face time of both of them before I commit to travelling

We have met several people at clubs, only to find they’re not on fabs!

But yes, it can be a good strategy for getting off the nmark."

You have a very good point and as Fab is a small corner of the swinging world we meet with lots of people at clubs who aren't on here and are therefore not verified by anyone. As an afterthought we do sometimes ask people if they are fabbers, after we've had sex and if they are we will verify them and for some it's their first verification.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I did arrive with a verification as it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting the unverified is that akin to meeting the undead?

Asking for a friend!

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Sometimes you gotta trust your instincts

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"What’s your personal take on meeting verification virgins?

Nobody comes here with verifications. We all have to break our duck somehow.

For couples, and single women, that’s always relatively easy.

But for single guys, it’s a big struggle. Especially with so many couples and ladies stating ‘will not meet unverified people’ on their profiles.

So we like to be charitable.

If an unverified person or couple can show us a ‘proof pic’, and we like what we see and read, then we’ll always give them a try.

However, people on here for a year without verifications are either very unlucky, undesirable or not serious about meeting, so they’ll struggle to convince us to meet them.

Won’t entertain anyone that’s not photo verified

Meet / cam verified can’t always be trusted when only one or two as they can be fake too

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am quite happy to message and meet unverified men if I find them appealing.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I have been on Fab for many years. My last veris is five years ago. Yes being male, age and no veris for over a year. Difficult to get meet. There is a very good reason for no new veris. On my profile have said will inform if asked. So finding now very hard work . But I will keep trying.

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

We stopped posting and giving veris a few years ago when some weirdo started messaging the people on them about us...

It's pretty easy to prove you are a real legit person without them!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Everyone is unverified at some point. Some met me first time as an unverified single male back when I was single.

For use verifications are only partly useful. No one ever displays a negative verification and just because they are someone's cup of tea doesn't mean they are ours. We manly go off the profile bio, pictures and most importantly how they come across in conversation. Verifications are helpful to build a warm fuzzy feeling about someone but not essential as long as the conversation is going right.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Everyone deserves a 1st shot, took us nearly a year to get our 1st chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your personal take on meeting verification virgins?

Nobody comes here with verifications. We all have to break our duck somehow.

For couples, and single women, that’s always relatively easy.

But for single guys, it’s a big struggle. Especially with so many couples and ladies stating ‘will not meet unverified people’ on their profiles.

So we like to be charitable.

If an unverified person or couple can show us a ‘proof pic’, and we like what we see and read, then we’ll always give them a try.

However, people on here for a year without verifications are either very unlucky, undesirable or not serious about meeting, so they’ll struggle to convince us to meet them.

It's good thinking. You could have a good guy and a maniac couple, there is no real way of telling. Same as std's, who has them and who doesn't.

Maybe you should pick a really y little guy then at least you can throw him out horizontally if you don't like him

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’ve met numerous unverified single guys.

For me, verifications don’t = safety.

As long as they are happy to use social media and stuff to verify and live Snapchat calls I’m happy.

I’d expect an unverified guy to give me his legit Facebook and real name as opposite to fab alter ego lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve met unverified fabbers before although we do tend to be more cautious and "vet"a little more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone deserves a 1st shot, took us nearly a year to get our 1st chance "

still waiting for our first meet with a couple, finding the 4 way attraction is really difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone deserves a 1st shot, took us nearly a year to get our 1st chance "

That’s a euphemism, right?

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Been verified but when people leave the site you lose verifications given

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

When I was single I met unverified men ,I usually chatted a good while and went with my gut instinct.

It was someone well verified who messed me about.

Miss

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

When I joined Fab 20 years ago, I didn’t get a verification and meet for 3 years, so I came off. Then died, got reincarnated back as a hot black guy and then boy the messages and interest was crazy.

From that, I have had 2 meets! The first veri paid off big time. Significant, I know!!

Don’t underestimate verifications. You need that for survival. And if it doesn’t happen, remember you can always be reincarnated and then you will get it.

Anyway, tripping off ayahuasca at the moment as I write this, so it’s all in jest!

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