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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I accepted a party invite & now it's only a week away, I'm getting the fears!!

There's a group chat, with twice the number of people I was expecting & I haven't gelled with any of them.

My hope is that the mood will take over when we're all together & my lack of instant attraction won't matter.

Keep your fingers crossed for me!!

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By *ewsexycplCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We went to one on the weekend, our first and we were absolutely crapping ourselves and we were a late entree so last to turn up.

It was amazing though, an absolute blast! Really enjoyed it, let your nerves subside and relax in and you should find if it's a week organised one that is a breeze with great looking guests and great fun ensuing

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By *ewsexycplCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Ps you look amazing, so would fit right in I think if it's like the party we went to (check our recent veris)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll be totally fine, nerves are normal but like you said in the moment all that goes out of the window just have fun and make the most of it xx

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I suspect not all of those in the group chat will go. That may or may not help.

Up until recently I had a partner I would attend events and parties with, I now attend on my own. The private parties I have now got to know people and count them as friends. In fact I have one on Sunday I will be going to. Events I will go to on my own and sometimes don't know anyone but usually end up talking to someone or them talking to me. I suspect you will enjoy yourself and make some new friends.

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Ps you look amazing, so would fit right in I think if it's like the party we went to (check our recent veris)"

Thank you so much for the compliment & the reassurance! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you have fun, I'm attending a club next month. (First time) I'm nervous about it, but hopefully speak to others before I go so I'll see some familiar faces.

Enjoy yourself xx

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Hope you have fun, I'm attending a club next month. (First time) I'm nervous about it, but hopefully speak to others before I go so I'll see some familiar faces.

Enjoy yourself xx"

Thank you xx

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Is it wise to still go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure you’ll be amazing and have a great evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally understand your nerves and apprehensions, and it's totally normal. I'm sure you'll have a great time though and if you don't go you'll probably kick yourself.

I'm sure you'll look fantastic and you'll be very popular, and at the end of the day if you weren't enjoying it you could leave.

I hope you do go, for your own sake, it'll be a new experience if nothing else.

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Tonight's the night

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"Tonight's the night "

Relax and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's the night "

Have an amazing time. Hope you meet some lovely people and have an all round good time. Let us know how you get on x

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

It can be very nerve wracking for all involved before the party but that all disappears once you're in there. Have a ball!

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

Remember that you only do what you want to, stay calm and enjoy as much or as little as you want to

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I remember our first party, I was nervous as hell, but after a couple of drinks and chatting with the others there it turned into an amazing night, I met a few hot women who I still chat to and he had fun with two couples, go with no expectations and just enjoy the freedom and fun x

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