FabSwingers.com forum: Fab couples profile picture

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should it make sense to have both couple or just female preferred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely down to the couple to decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Completely down to the couple to decide

More asking what peaks others interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should it make sense to have both couple or just female preferred

It’s tough as a couple because the guys on the site don’t get to much attention so maybe a fear of rejection sets in and they hide behind the sexy female. Mr

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As long as there's some pics of the man I don't think it matters.

Drives me crazy when we get winks/messages and it's like the bloke doesn't exist.

Mrs

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We don't mind as long as the profile has some pics of the Mr too.

It's good to see a couple together on a profile also.

Miss

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By *lussizecouple22Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

As a couple we prefer to see both sides of a couple.

As a couple we don't take one for the team, so nice to know the attraction is there for both of us from the off. X N

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We change our profile picture regularly but we do have public pictures of both of us

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Just depends really, sometimes its just me or sometimes both of us.

I think if it was just Mr people would think it was a man posing as a couple?

9 times out of 10 its me replying to messages and always me on the forums. He only came on earlier cos I wanted him to see a pic I fabbed. So does tend to be me who chooses our profile pic.

MrsAbz

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

we look for both so like to see both

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

" we look for both so like to see both

It was the googly pics. Not even gonna lie

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few of us both but Alisha is the real USP lol x

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

We change ours but mostly it's my pic that ends up on the profile... hound usually changes it to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me assume they want all play to be focused on their female when it's just the female pictured.

~Tigger

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have couples pics and individual pics - there’s more of C as she gets more attention but there’s enough of me to see me clothed, unclothed and in between

We don’t bother with couples profiles that only show Mrs (if they are both playing) as it’s never been a good surprise waiting for Mr’s pics and it’s also like pulling teeth trying to get them at times

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Oh and a lot of couples profiles mainly will have Mrs in various different outfits showing off her whole body so everyone knows what they look like (minus the face) and guys will just put dick pics up - 3/4 dick pics…that’ll do

Makes no sense to not give women an indication of what the body attached to the cock actually looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We kinda roll through ours

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

We're both on show so people know what they're getting. We've also kept a few back. They're for when we're feeling brave.

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By *amegal2Woman
over a year ago

surprise

I prefer both as usually when it's just one of, it tends to be a FWB situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should it make sense to have both couple or just female preferred

It’s tough as a couple because the guys on the site don’t get to much attention so maybe a fear of rejection sets in and they hide behind the sexy female. Mr"

alot of couples dont have pictures of the guy other than a dick picture for the ladies to be interested in. i know my lady finds it difficult looking at couples profiles when theres nothing of the guy on show.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Should it make sense to have both couple or just female preferred

Makes no sense having just half a couple with pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as there's some pics of the man I don't think it matters.

Drives me crazy when we get winks/messages and it's like the bloke doesn't exist.

Mrs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we prefer to see both sides of a couple.

As a couple we don't take one for the team, so nice to know the attraction is there for both of us from the off. X N"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me assume they want all play to be focused on their female when it's just the female pictured.

~Tigger"

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

If both of you are both looking to be physically involved then a good range of pictures of the Gent is just as important as it is your the lady. It's not a game of blind date and no one wants to take one for the team. Also a lack of male photos from a couple can give an impression of a lack of self confidence from the male half. We don't like the feeling that the woman in the couple is used as bait or the impression that male half holds no value. The male half is just as important. Lack of photos of the guy is often something that puts us off a profile.

If the guy is not an active participants (if that's your dynamic) I would say a picture or two is still important or at least one of you together. It helps build a picture of genuineness. Also many people still get the ick about having sex in the presence of people they don't fancy or find wired even if that person won't be an active participant.

Also we can't be the only ones who love to see pictures of couples together.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We like to see photos of both the gent and lady unless it's a profile where just the lady was interested in meeting us on her own.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We like to have a mix of us both and prefer to see a mix when we are looking for a couple. We both want to be able to see who we might be playing with, plus if I can’t see the guy how do I know I’m going to be attracted to him.

Kink (female)

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By *ensualdesiresCouple
over a year ago

Benfleet

A bit of both never hurts in our opinion

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

We show both.

Photos of her alone, and especially of her with another guy, always get loads of fabs.

Photos of her with him very prominent in the photo get far fewer, despite his above average equipment.

Don't show many pics of him alone because he's the photographer and she's the model.

This distribution of the fabs tends to encourage us to serve up what the audience seem to like the most, which is her alone or her with another guy.

Should we swim against the tide and show more of him even though this doesn't seem so popular with you?

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Think our profile picture demonstrates our feelings on it..

Sorry the rest is hidden atm, but D is featured around 40/50%, he's hot after all! Haha

I do get a little annoyed if the profile solely focuses purely on the Mrs, as said, would he not be involved?.. But it's utterly their choice and we ask for pictures of both if we're going to continue exploring the possibility with them. Mrs x

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"We show both.

Photos of her alone, and especially of her with another guy, always get loads of fabs.

Photos of her with him very prominent in the photo get far fewer, despite his above average equipment.

Don't show many pics of him alone because he's the photographer and she's the model.

This distribution of the fabs tends to encourage us to serve up what the audience seem to like the most, which is her alone or her with another guy.

Should we swim against the tide and show more of him even though this doesn't seem so popular with you? "

D gets attention, but says he may as well be on fabguys, as it's mostly men fabbing..

So yes, and inline with the majority of members being guy's it's just numbers..

We are going to reduce our public pic's as we feel many are just pic hunting and potentially an alternative 'paid site' on return, think you get what you pay for.. x

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"A bit of both never hurts in our opinion

Agreed, oh did you mean that just regards pictures?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

The picture with both of us currently up as profile pic has had a high number of fabs, but not as many as when it’s just Becky alone..

we change around occasionally, just to see.

Plenty of pics of both of us though in our public pics.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

To be fair most of the pics are as me on ours as Mr is taking the pics, but we need a photographer to take more of us lol

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By *DandcurvykittenCouple
over a year ago

Northants and London

If both parties within a couple are looking to hookup/play/connect etc. then there should be pictures of both on the profile…

It can be difficult enough as it is to create a connection with all involved or find that chemistry so having pictures of just the female half only yet the male does all the communicating can be essentially luring folk into a false sense of security.

Saying that, people will always run their profiles as they see fit

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"If both parties within a couple are looking to hookup/play/connect etc. then there should be pictures of both on the profile…

Saying that, people will always run their profiles as they see fit "

Every couple of days we get these threads pontificating about what pictures "should" be on a couples profile. The only "should" is that the pictures should work for the couple themselves. What works for others is immaterial. If the pics don't work for the couple most are intelligent enough to change the balance to one that does work.

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By *inotGringoMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Having had a few both single and couples profiles, I believe it is important that there are pictures of both the male and female of the couple. Even as a single male (who is mostly straight, but flexible) I am interested to see both.

When meeting a couple all parties must be attracted to each other. If you don’t see one part of the couple, how on earth are you supposed to know?

I’ve had straight playing meets with beautiful women, but their partners have made the experience less enjoyable.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Completely down to the couple to decide

More asking what peaks others interest"

I prefer both in pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both in our pics, down to individual profiles of course but as we both meet as a couple and singularly it makes sense for us to show both, if we are speaking to a couple we would like to see both parties as would be playing with both, and is having both of us on our profile, you can see what we look like before messaging.

If you was shopping you would expect to see all you are buying before making a decision, so for us, if a couple approaches us and hasn't got a pic of both, we don't pursue it anymore.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have more pics of wife than hubby in our friends gallery but have tried to keep a good mix on our public profile. We tend to use a pic with both of us as our profile picture as well. Women do want to see at least the body type of what they might be having sex with just as much as the men.

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