FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies how do you filter out men pretending to be women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

By the tone of their messages

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

From a filtering out couples that's just men as above it's the tone of the message, usually sex chat immediately

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no hard and fast way but some of the red flags are,

Look at the pictures are they any, if so are they the same person, are they selfies.

Next look at the language that is used on the profile and messages, is it graphical right from the start. Do they over ues words like Hun/Darling etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is no hard and fast way but some of the red flags are,

Look at the pictures are they any, if so are they the same person, are they selfies.

Next look at the language that is used on the profile and messages, is it graphical right from the start. Do they over ues words like Hun/Darling etc.

Thank you for letting me know. I don’t know if I’ve come across a couple of them.

I don’t get why they do it

But it’s also hard to work it out when they refuse to share a face picture on here and aren’t even photo verified.

My dms are for meets, so I’d think they should have a picture sent over if they want to meet me, I need to be attracted to them also right.

Last thing I want to do is travel

To meet a someone that isn’t even the right gender or someone I wouldn’t consider even if she was a woman.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I would suggest phone or video chat ideally very early into your interaction OP.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think if you're looking to meet women on here, be prepared to accept that a pretty high percentage of those making first contact will actually be men

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"I think if you're looking to meet women on here, be prepared to accept that a pretty high percentage of those making first contact will actually be men"

100% this ... i stopped looking to meet women via any online site fab included as there is a very high % of fake women profiles i woulds not mind betting its as least 50/50 and probably more ...

same with couples profiles..

think about the poor guys who already know there are far fewer women to then to realise acually there a lot less than they think....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think if you're looking to meet women on here, be prepared to accept that a pretty high percentage of those making first contact will actually be men

100% this ... i stopped looking to meet women via any online site fab included as there is a very high % of fake women profiles i woulds not mind betting its as least 50/50 and probably more ...

same with couples profiles..

think about the poor guys who already know there are far fewer women to then to realise acually there a lot less than they think....

Hopefully I can at least get to some bi or women only events so I can start to build up a network of women I know are actively playing.

I guess until I am fully verified most women will be cautious and rightly so.

It’s a shame men like to mess it up for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would suggest phone or video chat ideally very early into your interaction OP. "

So far I’ve only given my number to 2 women and I won’t meet them till I get confirmation via phone FaceTime or a voice note confirming they are women.

I have already confirmed to them I am who I say I am, just waiting on a response back.

Will see what happens

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Do a deep verification check, I find it helpful. As in, check if they're verified and then check to see if those who sent the veris are well verified themselves. There's usually a pattern associated with genuine profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me it’s a problem for single guys too … I genuinely do not understand what the point of it is ?? they are always going to get found out … its just mind blowing the trouble they go through to get the little kick out of it that they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do a deep verification check, I find it helpful. As in, check if they're verified and then check to see if those who sent the veris are well verified themselves. There's usually a pattern associated with genuine profiles. "

Thank you that’s helpful, it’s been a while since I’ve been on here and I used to just attend the clubs so it didn’t really matter but now I’m looking to find women to meet and play so this is very helpful.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You can instantly tell by the way they converse with you.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"You can instantly tell by the way they converse with you."

I really can't tell though, just don't pick up on it, it seems.

How can you tell it is me and not Mr talking now?

MrsAbz

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