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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some men who gain great pleasure from satisfying a woman to her limits. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

sadly not enough.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We love making our meets cum, sex is fun but obviously if you manage to make them orgasm then you do feel like you have done something right!

Its not something we obsess over, but we do ask if there's anything that might help to get them to it, its fun trying lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to make sure the woman has cum - hearing her moan turns me on so much. I'm happy not to cum at all until the woman has. I enjoying liking, fingering and rubbing her clit for hours if necessary. It usually isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im with a woman I get turned on buy satisfying her before my self x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore"

well said!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


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I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore"

I so love that attitude - but don't think I could ever do that myself. Would have loved to walk out of a recent meet because it was so damn boring but couldn't bring myself to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore"

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Its not just in the swing scene where men just want to get thewir nuts wet on a saturday night.

how many single young guys go down the town on a friday or saturday evening pick up a girl and shag her but she gets nothing out of it then he leaves never to be seen again.

The first guy we ever met came in the room shagged the mrs with very little foreplay then left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore "
u ladies havnt meet me

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

My playmate once told me that one of the things she liked on our first meet was the fact I made her orgasm twice before I even let her try to make me have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/02/13 15:47:59]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take my wand then there's no excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore

I so love that attitude - but don't think I could ever do that myself. Would have loved to walk out of a recent meet because it was so damn boring but couldn't bring myself to"

Took me a while to be able to do it, but now i think why should i just lay there for someone elses pleasure, why should i suck a guys cock knowing he dont care about what im getting out of it

I went to chams last night and was in a room with a guy and he was telling me all the things he wanted to do to me, i was playing with him for ages, down there then he picks up a condom and put it on, i just looked at him and said...oh thats it then your just putting a condom on and he replied, ermm sorry i dont do bare back, because he was to thick to understand what i was getting at so i just got off the bed and walked out

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire


"

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore

I so love that attitude - but don't think I could ever do that myself. Would have loved to walk out of a recent meet because it was so damn boring but couldn't bring myself to

Took me a while to be able to do it, but now i think why should i just lay there for someone elses pleasure, why should i suck a guys cock knowing he dont care about what im getting out of it

I went to chams last night and was in a room with a guy and he was telling me all the things he wanted to do to me, i was playing with him for ages, down there then he picks up a condom and put it on, i just looked at him and said...oh thats it then your just putting a condom on and he replied, ermm sorry i dont do bare back, because he was to thick to understand what i was getting at so i just got off the bed and walked out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/02/13 15:47:59]"

sheesh, total lack of awareness, just totally self centred.

mind there are females that are similar, tiger sometimes gets fed up with passive fems just lying back waiting to be fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop having quickies

I tend to have long meets...that gives me time to have a finger,tongue,shag and repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been quite lucky I suppose. Communication is a big factor for me and its not let me down yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saying all that ive met some guys who have been very giving to the point its made me feel quite selfish, but i dont have it in me to move while im enjoying it lol

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Well most of the woman ive met seem to have no trouble cumming.But I know the other half rarely orgasms with her meets.

But it doesn't bother her really, those that have made her cum tend too with there fingers mostly.

Where as with me its tongue fingers or cock.

We think its a state of mind thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore"

yea that's well said.

it's kinda how I'm starting to feel, I think the sub side in me just thinks to please the guy but I'm actually realising now what actual pleasure do I get out of a meet if I've not orgasmd,?? and you do kinda feel pressured to get them to climax.

well no more I'm afraid ha ha .. if I'm not pleasured no matter how long it takes .... neither will u be!!! hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get my share of fun, either with the gent or with the help of toys while he watches.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"stop having quickies

I tend to have long meets...that gives me time to have a finger,tongue,shag and repeat"

I never really have quickies, mainly sessions but regardless still find it hard to orgasm even with time on my hands don't know why...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please ! "

Never allow myself pleasure before a lady, never at all. You just need more discerning lovers xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please !

Never allow myself pleasure before a lady, never at all. You just need more discerning lovers xx"

oh I sure do .... ha ha u offering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me its not about having a orgasum, when you meet men off here they dont know what you like and very few guys can make me cum first time we play, but its about them making the effort, if they try and fail thats fine, its when they just dont try i get peed off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me its not about having a orgasum, when you meet men off here they dont know what you like and very few guys can make me cum first time we play, but its about them making the effort, if they try and fail thats fine, its when they just dont try i get peed off"

yea that's it I enjoy the trying I do and again same if they don't I'm not pissed, but if they just expect a blow job then a fuck that really drives me mad ... so selfish!.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ha ha pissed... I sound all American .. I meant bothered x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore"
I get more turned on by pleasuring a woman than receiving myself.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refused a cpl one nite as they or he, wanted me to just arrive and fuck her then go...no oral etc of any sort..

I thought fuck off and didnt go...I can have a wank for less hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please !

Never allow myself pleasure before a lady, never at all. You just need more discerning lovers xx

oh I sure do .... ha ha u offering "

I certainly am sweetcheeks :p xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore

I get more turned on by pleasuring a woman than receiving myself.xxx"

offer accepted

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

...around two and a half hours for our standard quickie. That's usually the 'break for a drink point' on a longer meet, but usually all of us have cum by then.

Dev wouldn't shave her legs for less, and if they did put their pants on and fook off panda stylee after just they'd cum without playing for the team I very much doubt we'd have em back again.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please !

Never allow myself pleasure before a lady, never at all. You just need more discerning lovers xx

oh I sure do .... ha ha u offering

I certainly am sweetcheeks :p xx"

ooh gosh

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

I do love making women come on meets however I must admit once I have come I lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please !

Never allow myself pleasure before a lady, never at all. You just need more discerning lovers xx

oh I sure do .... ha ha u offering

I certainly am sweetcheeks :p xx

ooh gosh "

Gosh, hehe. Your pics are scrumptious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please ! "

it takes me ages to cum aswell!ive only had about 2 orgasm meeting on fab,its not tht the guys didnt try tho,they did,sum girls just take longer than others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I refused a cpl one nite as they or he, wanted me to just arrive and fuck her then go...no oral etc of any sort..

I thought fuck off and didnt go...I can have a wank for less hassle"

oh yea that's right Cheeky that .. don't think I could fuck without no foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as the male half my opinion is purely this. I take the greatest of pleasure making the female orgasm as many times as possible, purely because it turns me on so so much hearing her making noises of pleasure. I know that there are people on here who can be selfish in the bedroom whether aware of it or not. I would not just label it as men in general, suffice to say that is not negating some of our failings especially given the golden ticket of sheer ecstacy in our midst if only a little bit of effort was put in. That all said and done I have met a few women who shall we say don't really make much of an effort either so guess it is swings and roundabouts. I think as a guy we all perhaps want to believe that we are pretty hot in the sac but in reality we are all novices. I like to believe that to put lots of effort in really reaps it's own rewards for me as mentioned earlier I get a real buzz from it and I am not trying to big myself up to be the Adonis god in the bedroom, that I am certainly not but in my honest opinion the female form is the most erotic sexy sight and I relish in devouring every inch of it and the icing on the cake is seeing how much pleasure I can give a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never been with a woman in my life and not had her have an orgasm or 2 or more. Its not that i am a super stud or anything i just know how to pleas e a woman and i always put her needs first.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

Surely the whole purpose of meeting new people is the pleasure in exploring how their body and mind works. The fullfilment of making the other person achieve pleasure, that's the biggest and most empowering thing of all!It's not being selfless, it's about maximising the experience....or at least that's our theory. Ladies who take a little longer.....it just makes the whole fun last longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the whole purpose of meeting new people is the pleasure in exploring how their body and mind works. The fullfilment of making the other person achieve pleasure, that's the biggest and most empowering thing of all!It's not being selfless, it's about maximising the experience....or at least that's our theory. Ladies who take a little longer.....it just makes the whole fun last longer. "

A lot of men, especially younger men raised on hardcore porn, see sex as a way to simply cover a random women in cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the whole purpose of meeting new people is the pleasure in exploring how their body and mind works. The fullfilment of making the other person achieve pleasure, that's the biggest and most empowering thing of all!It's not being selfless, it's about maximising the experience....or at least that's our theory. Ladies who take a little longer.....it just makes the whole fun last longer.

A lot of men, especially younger men raised on hardcore porn, see sex as a way to simply cover a random women in cum."

yeah i agree with that, ive met a few men who i call part star shaggers

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley


"Surely the whole purpose of meeting new people is the pleasure in exploring how their body and mind works. The fullfilment of making the other person achieve pleasure, that's the biggest and most empowering thing of all!It's not being selfless, it's about maximising the experience....or at least that's our theory. Ladies who take a little longer.....it just makes the whole fun last longer.

A lot of men, especially younger men raised on hardcore porn, see sex as a way to simply cover a random women in cum."
True enough. Age, confidence and experience is a recipe for sexual fullfilment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please ! "

My nature is to be a generous lover. That means stimulating a woman mentally and exploring her physically and being attentive to what she likes. I get great pleasure from making a woman orgasm. It's a fantastic feeling. We are all different. If you're going to make the effort to meet then it should be quality from start to finish! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the whole purpose of meeting new people is the pleasure in exploring how their body and mind works. The fullfilment of making the other person achieve pleasure, that's the biggest and most empowering thing of all!It's not being selfless, it's about maximising the experience....or at least that's our theory. Ladies who take a little longer.....it just makes the whole fun last longer.

A lot of men, especially younger men raised on hardcore porn, see sex as a way to simply cover a random women in cum. True enough. Age, confidence and experience is a recipe for sexual fullfilment."

Ahh im buggered I do like younger ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the whole purpose of meeting new people is the pleasure in exploring how their body and mind works. The fullfilment of making the other person achieve pleasure, that's the biggest and most empowering thing of all!It's not being selfless, it's about maximising the experience....or at least that's our theory. Ladies who take a little longer.....it just makes the whole fun last longer.

A lot of men, especially younger men raised on hardcore porn, see sex as a way to simply cover a random women in cum. True enough. Age, confidence and experience is a recipe for sexual fullfilment.

Ahh im buggered I do like younger ones too "

i find the younger ones are easier to teach, cause most meet older women for their experience if they do things not to your liking they are more willing to take constructive criticism than older guys, so stick with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a personnel point of view I always regard a meet with the ladies needs in mind and spend more time teasing and mutual foreplay before I get down to the hardcore fun and to date have left all the ladies purrying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the whole purpose of meeting new people is the pleasure in exploring how their body and mind works. The fullfilment of making the other person achieve pleasure, that's the biggest and most empowering thing of all!It's not being selfless, it's about maximising the experience....or at least that's our theory. Ladies who take a little longer.....it just makes the whole fun last longer.

A lot of men, especially younger men raised on hardcore porn, see sex as a way to simply cover a random women in cum. True enough. Age, confidence and experience is a recipe for sexual fullfilment.

Ahh im buggered I do like younger ones too

i find the younger ones are easier to teach, cause most meet older women for their experience if they do things not to your liking they are more willing to take constructive criticism than older guys, so stick with them "

yea does kinda turn me on having younger ... and teaching them too and showing them he he even of it does take ages !

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

There's never any guarantee though is there? You can talk, meet, fancy them... but if something doesn't click then it just doesn't click.

I do agree though that respecting the other person is paramount. Trying to ensure they have the best time possible is the biggest thrill (well, almost lol) you can get from a meet. And that leads to more meets... yay!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's never any guarantee though is there? You can talk, meet, fancy them... but if something doesn't click then it just doesn't click.

I do agree though that respecting the other person is paramount. Trying to ensure they have the best time possible is the biggest thrill (well, almost lol) you can get from a meet. And that leads to more meets... yay! "

yea your right I've met some gorgeous men and really fancied them and they have licked and played with me for ages and I've just not had the "feeling" can't have it all, all the time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to start a meet with lots of kissing touching etc then go down on her and most of the time i manage to get her to orgasm ,only then will i let her start pleasuring me.I always put the lady first then me second because if she is happy then so am i.Call me old fashioned if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you meet a dom or he is into s and m

he is more likely to be selfish.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such"

This is my experience too unfortunately. Its so disappointing to read a profile where they wax lyrical about their oral prowess yet when you meet them they won't dip their head, and pretty much ram their cocks down your throat as soon as possible.

Luckily one of my FBs is a complete star at making me orgasm in various ways so when it all gets too frustrating I meet him.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I need to make sure the woman has cum - hearing her moan turns me on so much. I'm happy not to cum at all until the woman has. I enjoying liking, fingering and rubbing her clit for hours if necessary. It usually isn't "

Well spoken! You're a true knight & are true gentleman.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

too many qestions by the OP. But - every time and in multiples is what I aim for

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always try to make the lady orgasm and I think I have so far....I always do. I prefer to make sure the lady is fulfilled rather than me, what turns me on is seeing her enjoying herself. From extreme closeup preferably.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a man quite recently who was good at foreplay, he had very short fingernails and little fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the key is in the perpetration. I like to make sure I click mentally with a guy before agreeing to meet so that by the time we meet the anticipation is so great that they really don't need to do very much at all! Of course there is always the possibility that either I'm very good at picking the experts or I orgasm far too easily

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

when i meet its all about making sure the females are satisfied before i cum, i like to make sure the women have at least one orgasm, usually its done with my tongue

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By *i 42Man
over a year ago

tyldesley

You have to satisfy the woman all the time .way I look at you only get out what you put in . The more you satisfy a woman the she will do the same for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please ! "

Make sure u have ure orgasm b4 u let him get the goods lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah if women stopped faking it a man would have to try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not fair to leave a lady frustrated allways make sure she cums, but if u dont on a meet u could allways masturbate befor u leave the meet nothin sexier than watchin a lady masturbate to cum mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. Most of the time I tell them up front that I won't have an orgasm so that they don't keep trying as that really pisses me off.

I do however enjoy my meets VERY much!! I choose a certain type of people and I make sure I always have fun, and they do too.

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore"

My reason for no longer having solo meets. I find things go very differently if Steve is there

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Weather its Wifey or another woman on a meet i always try to please first then if i come too quickly or not at all at least the women have had some pleasure. We had a meet with a couple by the time we hit the bedroom and swapped partners the woman i was playing with was pissed but we did not know. While playing with her for good 15 minutes or so she just laid there like a sack of spuds not moving. Her hubby realised swapped back over she went to toilet and never came back. I never had a problem before pleasing a woman but it was 1 of our first meets and i.m a little paranoid of my self some times so it made me feel extremely crap but once they had left the room me feel and Wifey cracked on and went for it our selves and orgasm.s all round

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By *un4usCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Mrs h is very easy to make cum many times over and she gets very very wet

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"Mrs h is very easy to make cum many times over and she gets very very wet "
Wifey gets very yet especially if the toys are in play which is very often in deed

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"Mrs h is very easy to make cum many times over and she gets very very wet Wifey gets very yet especially if the toys are in play which is very often in deed "

wet ha ha predictive text lol

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By *un4usCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

mrs h only needs fingers and she is soaking.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"mrs h only needs fingers and she is soaking. "
same as when she plays with her self its a totally different kind of orgasm but so wet

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By *un4usCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

very true and she loves playing with her wet pussy in a club for all to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving pleasure to me is just as satisfying... and as always... Ladies first!

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"very true and she loves playing with her wet pussy in a club for all to see"

oh no Wifey is a little more shy with things like that. A little slow when in a meet to start with. A little push later and she.s at full speed lol

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By *un4usCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

if we meet a couple she is shy to start with.But if we are in a club she loves playing with herself and watch men wank over her.

She is a dirty cow sometimes.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"if we meet a couple she is shy to start with.But if we are in a club she loves playing with herself and watch men wank over her.

She is a dirty cow sometimes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single i have to say personally, i cant get off unless the woman does, didnt realise this was uncommon! :/ if a womans hard to make orgasm then its a long night and a good challenge ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've been very lucky. Mostly had good meets but then I am pretty specific about what I want. I also taste very good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest. As weird as this may sound (and you may believe me or not). But for me to be turned on, i need to know that im turning you on too.

Its not about me when having sex, its about US. And i love seeing how a woman's body reacts to my gentle touches and kisses. I will not cum unless she cums first. Thats my golden rule - 'ladies first and let the good guys cum last'.

...however, im still awaiting my first meet off fab. (sighs)

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"ive met loads of guys who havnt cared about what im getting out of it, im suprised at the amount of men who dont give oral, it didnt bother me at first but the more of these men i met the more it started bugging me, i think there are a lot of guys on here who just see women as free escorts and treat them as such

I wont put up with it anymore, now if i meet a guy and he dont give he dont get and i have a few times got dressed and left a meet because the sex isnt going to my likings, i refused to just be used for a blow job and a fuck anymore"

Is right. Sex should be pleasurable for all people involved.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Definitely try to give orgasms . Not a wham bam thank you mam type of guy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know personally with K I won't even think about penetration until she's had atleast 2 orgasms from oral/masturbation/toys

Its just good manners haha

P xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please ! "

I have a rule of thumb to make the women orgasm before we even start penetration.. That way the women can orgasm more frueqently and enjoy themselfs..

I make my girlfriend squirt before we even have sex.. She loves it.. Says it makes her cum more during actual sex ..

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"There's never any guarantee though is there? You can talk, meet, fancy them... but if something doesn't click then it just doesn't click.

I do agree though that respecting the other person is paramount. Trying to ensure they have the best time possible is the biggest thrill (well, almost lol) you can get from a meet. And that leads to more meets... yay! "

We're not premier inns, there's no good fuck guarantee for everyone but there are some excellent thrill seekers who bother to make it worthwhile and you'd be happy to meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to make sure the woman has cum - hearing her moan turns me on so much. I'm happy not to cum at all until the woman has. I enjoying liking, fingering and rubbing her clit for hours if necessary. It usually isn't "

Yes, Yes, Yes, same for me. If I should cum before she does I have my tongue and fingers to pleasure her with until I am hard again. I try my best to make her cum orally before there is penetration. She is the one that directions me for her pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely try to give orgasms . Not a wham bam thank you mam type of guy . "

I love this comment, good for you. x

Possibly a LOT more honest than all the other blokes falling over themselves to declare they give 1000% guaranteed orgasms within 3 seconds and the most fantastic wonderful mind blowing gushing squirting sex ever ever ever!!

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

I had two meets at the weekend and did not cum, the important thing for me was making sure they had the best time possible. One of the joys of being bi, there is so much more to stimulation than a quick spurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved this post. Reminds me of a meet I had, very nice hotel, lots of build up to the meet. The guy lasted about 37 secs, then went to sleep!!!! I am laughing now but what a disappointment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loved this post. Reminds me of a meet I had, very nice hotel, lots of build up to the meet. The guy lasted about 37 secs, then went to sleep!!!! I am laughing now but what a disappointment! "

gosh 37 seconds ... how many thrusts was that ha h

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loved this post. Reminds me of a meet I had, very nice hotel, lots of build up to the meet. The guy lasted about 37 secs, then went to sleep!!!! I am laughing now but what a disappointment!

gosh 37 seconds ... how many thrusts was that ha h "
god dont think I could last that long what a stud lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would feel that I had failed if the other partner (or partners) in the session didn't cum first! This can lead to a delicious 'edging' competition!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some men who gain great pleasure from satisfying a woman to her limits. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

"

I make sure of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well I think next weekend I need to choose carefully ...because I will be cumming if it takes them all night ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I've had a few meets off here now and id probably say I've only had and orgasm on 30% of them, now this doesn't bother me as I like the sex just as much, but some meets have been selfish in that the fact once the man has cum it's game over, now I know I'm hard to make orgasm and don't orgasm easily.

But just Recently it's been bugging me the meets shouldn't just be all about the men and there climax but if I find it hard to orgasm and they don't or can't make orgasm what should I do ???

do you meet and always make sure you orgasm??

men do you meet and always try to make your ladies satisfied?

and I'm sure there are men that are out there who just meet and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not ...what's the reason for this ???

opinions please ! "

you can't really know till the end of the first meet but if they are self-centred there isn't a round 2.

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"If im with a woman I get turned on buy satisfying her before my self x "

A huge part of the pleasure of meeting someone new is finding the right buttons to push to give them pleasure...i've spent SO much time ensuring that my partner is FULLY satisfied, and it gives me IMMENSE pleasure to see them in extasy...Karma... Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually a given that I make them orgasm on 1st times...well all time really

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have also had many meets where I havent had a knock my socks off orgasm.

I have two types. The ones I have at some meets and can wash over me lovely and the mind blowing ones.

I can every so often give myself the shattering ones and have met some people that can bring me to them but not many. I am a person that needs an intense sexual atmosphere and be so turned on before to take me to that level.

Few men make me hit the heavons by penetration. A few times hit it hard through anal sex but that was with a previous partner I trusted.

A few made me gush and thats been great.

But its only a few so I know what you mean.

I know how to do it to me and without it beinga regular partner and me twaching him with my toys I dont think its gonna happen more often.

I have often gotten asked for a repeat meet but very few people I am desperate to meet again.

I just accept it but keep searching xx

Fruit x

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"My playmate once told me that one of the things she liked on our first meet was the fact I made her orgasm twice before I even let her try to make me have one."

I have always made the lady cum at least once extremely hard before letting her play with me....even one young lady who had never orgasmed before..........because I do not rush the intense foreplay and tune myself into the way the lady reacts to my touch ...this gives me satisfaction in itself ....it's not a race

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

How far is Derby from Lynn....? Lol x

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I never orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. Most of the time I tell them up front that I won't have an orgasm so that they don't keep trying as that really pisses me off.

"

I'm the same. Apart from Craig, only one guy has ever managed it and that was fairly recently. In all honesty, if a guy spends ages and ages doing oral trying to make me orgasm then I get bored. After a while I'll lose sensitivity and it does nothing for me.

Not that I don't enjoy my meets, we've got some great friends and always have loads of fun! I think it's just as guys like making girls orgasm, I like making guys cum. As long as they give me a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far is Derby from Lynn....? Lol x"

2 hours on train from Peterborough.. ..

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"I never orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. Most of the time I tell them up front that I won't have an orgasm so that they don't keep trying as that really pisses me off.

I'm the same. Apart from Craig, only one guy has ever managed it and that was fairly recently. In all honesty, if a guy spends ages and ages doing oral trying to make me orgasm then I get bored. After a while I'll lose sensitivity and it does nothing for me.

Not that I don't enjoy my meets, we've got some great friends and always have loads of fun! I think it's just as guys like making girls orgasm, I like making guys cum. As long as they give me a good time "

Its all about the fun you're all having along the way... Rich

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"How far is Derby from Lynn....? Lol x"

About a two hour drive to Derby my lady

and whilst i bow to your beauty which beguiles me so, I fear I am further away towards Wales working this day and in need of rest after such a weekend with my Welsh Gold Damsel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only had a couple of orgasms with meets. I find tgat because I gush/squirt they presume that means I've cum. Unfortunately this isn't the case

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"stop having quickies

I tend to have long meets...that gives me time to have a finger,tongue,shag and repeat

I never really have quickies, mainly sessions but regardless still find it hard to orgasm even with time on my hands don't know why... "

I'm the same I can count on one hand the number of guys that have made me orgasm despite most of them trying but as long as they put in the effort I still enjoy it regardless!!

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I never orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. Most of the time I tell them up front that I won't have an orgasm so that they don't keep trying as that really pisses me off.

I'm the same. Apart from Craig, only one guy has ever managed it and that was fairly recently. In all honesty, if a guy spends ages and ages doing oral trying to make me orgasm then I get bored. After a while I'll lose sensitivity and it does nothing for me.

Not that I don't enjoy my meets, we've got some great friends and always have loads of fun! I think it's just as guys like making girls orgasm, I like making guys cum. As long as they give me a good time

Its all about the fun you're all having along the way... Rich "

Sure is! I think it's because I hate just lying around doing nothing - I like being in charge! Absolutely no streak of sub in me whatsoever

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