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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s your preference ?

Has the swinging consensus changed over the years, it used to be a given you’d shave or wax your pumpum or dickywicky but I’m starting to see more and more women preferring some hair down below.

I used to always shave before a meet or going to a club or party, it was what was expected. But otherwise I’d just leave it until I can be bothered or the hairs would get long enough to start considering if I needed get or moose to style it then I’d bring it back down and so on.

Im not about to become your latest flossing device but I just wondered what women had a preference too these days

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't shave or wax. I used to occasionally but mostly I didn't

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

Shave.

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By *eethoven99Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Shave

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Some hair on a woman can be very sexy.

I don't like hair on men though.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

I am retro - clean and trimmed but still hairy where it counts xx Anne

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

I shave. I hate not being shaved and I enjoy the process of shaving. I shave down there every three or four days now.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I trim nice and neat. Each to their own but I find it feels like trying to imitate a child and puts me off massively

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"What’s your preference ?

Has the swinging consensus changed over the years, it used to be a given you’d shave or wax your pumpum or dickywicky but I’m starting to see more and more women preferring some hair down below.

I used to always shave before a meet or going to a club or party, it was what was expected. But otherwise I’d just leave it until I can be bothered or the hairs would get long enough to start considering if I needed get or moose to style it then I’d bring it back down and so on.

Im not about to become your latest flossing device but I just wondered what women had a preference too these days

"

I much prefer smooth but a little bit of garnish isn't so bad

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By *ellysexy123Woman
over a year ago

Fantasyland

I’m more of shaved smooth lips but with a little hair cushion

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By *eachrunner1Man
over a year ago

Farnham

There is definitely a trend back toward having some hair - certainly for women.

From visits to naturist resorts and beaches it's changed slowly over the past few years. even five years ago EVERYONE was shaved bare. Now, many more women are choosing to keep a neat landing strip or similar.

I think it was partly lockdown that has made the difference. If you didnt go anywhere and no one was going to see you naked many people let things go back to their natural state. Perhaps many women have just decided to follow their own preference on this now rather than just do what's expected.

Personally I dont mind either way. A little neat patch can be very sexy indeed but then a silky smooth pussy is always a delight.

Personally I vary my own style from neat trim to fully bare. Generally smooth if I am going on a naturist holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both shaved in fact Mr shaves Mrs mmm then he does the tongue test.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Trimmed fur on top, shaved underneath... I really dislike looking like a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With that lovely looking body no way do you look like a child...

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

Shaved or trimmed please.

That "like a garden gnome hiding in a bush" experience does nothing for me thanks.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

Regularly waxed for me. Once a month, it's not expensive and doesn't take long.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"With that lovely looking body no way do you look like a child..."

Ha ha fair... I just don't like how it looks when I stand. Also I don't know what you ladies do but the grow back itch / lumping on the front compared to the under is horrific... no no no

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Shave

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By *randMrsJones69Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Mr is always trimmed and shaved balls, Mrs only shaves for a meet / club or the occasional filthy night in. Albeit Mr prefers a woman with hair and Mrs prefers to have hair, we don't feel it would be deemed as attractive to others in a club unfortunately so we conform.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My sense of the ridiculous always makes me smile when people tell me they're shaved in all the 'important places'. Did they get the shaving brush out in the houses of parliament, whip their drawers down and have a tidy up with a cut throat in the cloakrooms of Buckingham Palace?

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I trim nice and neat. Each to their own but I find it feels like trying to imitate a child and puts me off massively"

Yes! I totally get this! In my twenties this is why I hated shaven s, didn't want to be reminded of young girls when I went down on a woman. Going down on a shaven woman from 40s and upwards doesn't though

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With that lovely looking body no way do you look like a child...

Ha ha fair... I just don't like how it looks when I stand. Also I don't know what you ladies do but the grow back itch / lumping on the front compared to the under is horrific... no no no "

I shave again as soon as it start grow to itch because I do this don't tend to get the lumping as you suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wax for me, much prefer it smooth, but shaving irritates me.

Men, I prefer them to be trimmed at least x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Talking about shaving. I epilate my legs. The other day I thought why not give it a go on my chin (I have a full Brian Blessed beard if I don't pluck ).

All I will say to anyone considering this is, do NOT try this at home kids. I epilated a lot of skin off while leaving hair behind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My sense of the ridiculous always makes me smile when people tell me they're shaved in all the 'important places'. Did they get the shaving brush out in the houses of parliament, whip their drawers down and have a tidy up with a cut throat in the cloakrooms of Buckingham Palace? "

This comment is hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Talking about shaving. I epilate my legs. The other day I thought why not give it a go on my chin (I have a full Brian Blessed beard if I don't pluck ).

All I will say to anyone considering this is, do NOT try this at home kids. I epilated a lot of skin off while leaving hair behind "

Ouch thanks for letting us all know lol

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Shave

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Shaved or trimmed preferred.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"My sense of the ridiculous always makes me smile when people tell me they're shaved in all the 'important places'. Did they get the shaving brush out in the houses of parliament, whip their drawers down and have a tidy up with a cut throat in the cloakrooms of Buckingham Palace?

This comment is hilarious "

I'm here all week

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Shaved.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Never tried a shaven muff but it’s on my list to do….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get what they’re given on the day, sometimes trimmed, sometimes shaved, other times not so much

I can honestly say no one has ever walked away complaining too much hair

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

As long as its not overgrown I don't mind a bit of hair, prefer shaven but some trimmed shrubbery isn't to bad

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Becky always waxes for a meet or a club visit.

For me, I always used to be trimmed neat but for a recent meet request I shaved totally and really liked it.

Since then, I’ve shaved everything and it’s been well received.

Takes moments to grow back as I’m naturally hairy so no big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always clean shaven, I don't mind a lady well trimmed, but I'm not into burrowing through a forest, I'd spend more time coughing and choking instead of enjoying the feast before me

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By *ilverandblonde 123Couple
over a year ago

tonbridge

I tend to do a little trimmed landing strip thing as I don’t like being hairless completely myself.

Doesn’t bother me though whether a woman shaves/waxes/trims/goes natural whatever they are the most comfortable with

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By *kpineappleCouple
over a year ago

Wimborne

Personally I get regular waxes. Feel much more comfortable smooth.

When playing with ladies I prefer as smooth as possible. With men, I liked a trimmed look/feel.

E x

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By *SensualXMan
over a year ago

Sandhurst

I like both. So not bothered

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

I used to trim and shave balls.... now i just shave all off.... once or twice a week... keep the re-gro to a minimo

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

Bald is best. Possibly a narrow runway but all shaven is the way to go.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Shave but wax is better, shaving doesn’t last long for the shag o clock shadow the appear

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By *ave05Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford Essex

I’ve had laser hair removal intimate areas no regrowth

Means Im in trouble if 70s style pubic bushes come back in style !

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I remember in the 70 s

They unzip their jerkin

And there was a merkin .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I get regular waxes. Feel much more comfortable smooth.

When playing with ladies I prefer as smooth as possible. With men, I liked a trimmed look/feel.

E x"

I’ve never had a was done before… wondering if it hurts … I’m very sensitive

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Talking about shaving. I epilate my legs. The other day I thought why not give it a go on my chin (I have a full Brian Blessed beard if I don't pluck ).

All I will say to anyone considering this is, do NOT try this at home kids. I epilated a lot of skin off while leaving hair behind "

Sorry can't help it

GORDON 'S. ALiVE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m completely shaved and I love a shaved pussy to, Mr is shaved

You are right OP seeing more hair lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer it shaved, nothing beats it lovely smooth and soft against your tongue

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I shave weekly gotta keep it looking good

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

ive had a few months away from waxing due to no time mainly so i shave but ill be going back to my waxing routine very soon as nothing beats that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both shave

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

Waxed. Usually every 4 weeks. If you catch me at week 3 it's a tiny bit fluffy!

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By *kpineappleCouple
over a year ago

Wimborne


"Personally I get regular waxes. Feel much more comfortable smooth.

When playing with ladies I prefer as smooth as possible. With men, I liked a trimmed look/feel.

E x

I’ve never had a was done before… wondering if it hurts … I’m very sensitive "

The more frequently you go, the less it hurts. First few times I’d take an ibuprofen beforehand but now I don’t bother, and I pretty much get waxed from the eyebrows down! And for me, it feels much nicer than shaving and lasts so much longer. Only downside is waiting until the hair is long enough to wax again!

E x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to keep myself smooth down below

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By *iorgio79Man
over a year ago

Wallington

I shave as a man, but absolutely love when a woman is hairy down there.

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By *ietsenmakerMan
over a year ago

Hartford

I am trimmed to no:1 on the body, shaved shaft and balls...weekly or as required... been like that since I had the snip... as for play partners... trimmed is nice but not a deal breaker

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We are the smoothest couple on the planet x

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By *tarting2exploreCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Z (f) shaves

R (m) waxes all but chest

Nice and smooth is also our play partner preference..

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Honest question for you fellas how do you get ya ball sacks totally shaved I struggle in that area

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

Shave

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Honest question for you fellas how do you get ya ball sacks totally shaved I struggle in that area "

With a whole lot of time and patience... or hair removal cream

C x

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham


"Honest question for you fellas how do you get ya ball sacks totally shaved I struggle in that area

With a whole lot of time and patience... or hair removal cream

C x"

any pain with the hair cream and does it genuinely get smooth

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I started shaving over a decade ago for a man who said I should.

I stopped when a man said I should leave it hairy, for a change-so I did, and have only shaved bare a couple of times in the last 8 or 9 years, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I detest pubic hair

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By *lowryderMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Back sac and crack wax for me... everything else trimmed neatly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to shave when younger and before I had kids however as I'm older I don't have much down there and tbh Im very sensitive and shaving/using creams irritates.

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By *ndy man 200Man
over a year ago

hereford


"Trimmed fur on top, shaved underneath... I really dislike looking like a child"
this how I like them to be

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Shaved for me, vixen, and a nice neat trim for hound x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I get regular waxes. Feel much more comfortable smooth.

When playing with ladies I prefer as smooth as possible. With men, I liked a trimmed look/feel.

E x

I’ve never had a was done before… wondering if it hurts … I’m very sensitive

The more frequently you go, the less it hurts. First few times I’d take an ibuprofen beforehand but now I don’t bother, and I pretty much get waxed from the eyebrows down! And for me, it feels much nicer than shaving and lasts so much longer. Only downside is waiting until the hair is long enough to wax again!

E x

"

Perhaps I’ll get the courage to go one day and give it a try, thank you for getting back to me

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Wax for me every 4-6 weeks, inbetween I don’t touch it and I’m not willing to for no one landing strip is my personal fave.

I like a bit of hair on a woman and a man. Not a fan of fully smooth just my preference x

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We both shave the night before a meet

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I’m always smooth … and smooth all over, I love the look and feel of it.

Gillette Venus makes a fortune from me

R xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smooth, shaved and lasered

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Smooth or shaved works best for us

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

Literally just shaved in the shower a few minutes ago. Feels so good.

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By *lotjockeyMan
over a year ago

Wellington


"I shave as a man, but absolutely love when a woman is hairy down there. "

fully agree, I keep my balls nice n smooth, but Teresa has a lovely bush

I trim it into various shapes, to suit her swimwear style

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Smooth all the time not just when I'm meeting. Like the look and the feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself & him fully shaved

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Always smooth and shaven here

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By *inojCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Mr prefers me to have manicured hair on my mound but shaved lips. I'm happy to oblige

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sc has a laser but keeps a neat little bush. I’m just neat as sc prefers a bit of hair on a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest question for you fellas how do you get ya ball sacks totally shaved I struggle in that area "

You get a knack foe it.... hold the skin tight and off ya go.

I can do it so quick it would make most guys sweat!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I trim nice and neat. Each to their own but I find it feels like trying to imitate a child and puts me off massively"

Imitate a child? Anyone who confuses a grown woman who has a shaved pussy with a child has serious problems. Do you consider men who shave off their beards as imitating a child?.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Shaved just feels so much nicer, the feeling when someone goes deep.

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By *orthlands85Man
over a year ago

Highlands

Prefer trimmed or shaved. Mines always kept mostly shaved if not, at least trimmed

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

Shaved smooth all over

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

I’m sorry….pumpum? I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a big hairy muff so don’t shave. I don’t mind a guy who doesn’t shave it’s all good.

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By *im494Man
over a year ago

Westhill

I shave every couple of weeks, with a lady I'd prefer natural but am happy with whatever the lady is comfortable with - it seems to have been driven from pornos around 20 years ago hopefully the 70s retro will come back in fashion!!

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