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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton

What is it all of a sudden, we're getting friends requests and when we polity say no, talk to us at least firstly, we're getting abuse or just no reply.

Which is the whole point of saying no "politely" if they can't answer then why "SEND A FRIEND REQUEST"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never just send a request and always ask but not until have met, going to meet or at least been chatting for a while!

Lovely profile guys and local not too far...

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"What is it all of a sudden, we're getting friends requests and when we polity say no, talk to us at least firstly, we're getting abuse or just no reply.

Which is the whole point of saying no "politely" if they can't answer then why "SEND A FRIEND REQUEST" "

Don't engage. Delete, block repeat offenders and move on.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

knob heads,,

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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton

We're getting that way, we're just too bloody nice. lol

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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton


"Never just send a request and always ask but not until have met, going to meet or at least been chatting for a while!

Lovely profile guys and local not too far..."

Thanks for the compliment. Guess we're not too bad for auld farts ! Lol

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Nooo dont stop being nice just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a friend request not a friend demand so you can just delete it if you don't want it

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

It's annoys me, if I wanted just anyone to see my friends only pictures I would make them public. I never accept when people do that.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wait until they log off, accept the request, look through their friends only pictures and pick something you don't like.

Then send them a message saying something along the lines of

"Since you sent me a friend request I assumed you were really keen to meet. As you weren't around when I accepted the request, I also assumed you had lost interest and moved on. And sorry, I'm not a fan of (whatever you saw in the friends only pictures).

Send message.

Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never just send a request and always ask but not until have met, going to meet or at least been chatting for a while!

Lovely profile guys and local not too far...

Thanks for the compliment. Guess we're not too bad for auld farts ! Lol "

Far from old farts and love your profile, unfortunately can't message due to filters...

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

This is what gets us, when we engage and they don't even respond

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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton


"Wait until they log off, accept the request, look through their friends only pictures and pick something you don't like.

Then send them a message saying something along the lines of

"Since you sent me a friend request I assumed you were really keen to meet. As you weren't around when I accepted the request, I also assumed you had lost interest and moved on. And sorry, I'm not a fan of (whatever you saw in the friends only pictures).

Send message.

Block.

"

Lol... like your style !!

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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton


"This is what gets us, when we engage and they don't even respond "

We know ritee ! Wtf.. lol xx

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

I have it on my profile that friend requests are for people I've already spoken too... So if a randomer sends a request, they're not respecting what's on my profile. If they can't respect that, will the respect me in the bedroom...

I find it quite a useful filtering tool.

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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton


"It's annoys me, if I wanted just anyone to see my friends only pictures I would make them public. I never accept when people do that. "

People Ehhh ! Phew, lol x

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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton


"I have it on my profile that friend requests are for people I've already spoken too... So if a randomer sends a request, they're not respecting what's on my profile. If they can't respect that, will the respect me in the bedroom...

I find it quite a useful filtering tool. "

I've never seen that filter, think we'll apply it, xx

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The third line of our profile clearly states 'Do not send us unsolicited friends requests, we will not meet with you if you do'.

We figure that if people can't be bothererd to read the first three lines, then there's no point wasting our time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone sends a friend request without having the respect to message me first, I just instantly block them. It filters out all the picture-collectors and time-wasters. Hence, my block list is horrendously long lol.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I always wait for an invitation if we have been chatting for a while. I never ask. Although I did accidentally send one the other week when leaving a verification. Luckily I knew the couple involved

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"What is it all of a sudden, we're getting friends requests and when we polity say no, talk to us at least firstly, we're getting abuse or just no reply.

Which is the whole point of saying no "politely" if they can't answer then why "SEND A FRIEND REQUEST" "

Delete and block, then they can’t request you again.

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By *ust us 2ABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brampton


"If someone sends a friend request without having the respect to message me first, I just instantly block them. It filters out all the picture-collectors and time-wasters. Hence, my block list is horrendously long lol."

Whhaattttt !!

There's picture collectors on this site.. ! I never knew lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept random friend requests. If they can't have the decency to chat first then it's an instant delete from me.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Unsolicited friend request.. Simply wait until offline accept, if nothing of interest (generally not) and remove/block..

Mostly pic hunters/munters.

Harsh? yes!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I have it on my profile that friend requests are for people I've already spoken too... So if a randomer sends a request, they're not respecting what's on my profile. If they can't respect that, will the respect me in the bedroom...

I find it quite a useful filtering tool.

I've never seen that filter, think we'll apply it, xx"

Sadly not an available tool! Would be great though xx

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