FabSwingers.com forum: The way some people dress?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has the way someone dresses ever put you off meeting someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again."

sorry its so cruel but I just laughed out loud.. as one of my bestest friends in the world came out one day with me dressed like that and I actually brought him new clothes.. lol

I was worried about my image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again.

sorry its so cruel but I just laughed out loud.. as one of my bestest friends in the world came out one day with me dressed like that and I actually brought him new clothes.. lol

I was worried about my image

Your comment made me laugh too! Brilliant!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again."

Did he.....did he.....you know? Reveal himself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, horrendous black leather jacket on a guy I was seeing at uni...... deal breaker.

I think the way someone dresses is important, it's not about buying fancy clothes, just taking pride in your appearance.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Yep, horrendous black leather jacket on a guy I was seeing at uni...... deal breaker.

I think the way someone dresses is important, it's not about buying fancy clothes, just taking pride in your appearance."

Agree with you on this whole heartedly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again.

Did he.....did he.....you know? Reveal himself?"

Thankfully no. He was wearing clothes underneath.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again.

Did he.....did he.....you know? Reveal himself?

Thankfully no. He was wearing clothes underneath.

Was it Bussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again.

Did he.....did he.....you know? Reveal himself?

Thankfully no. He was wearing clothes underneath.

Was it Bussy

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Now that is just plain cruel!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short."
I am not fashion police but will agree with you on the tracksuit bottoms

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again.

Did he.....did he.....you know? Reveal himself?

Thankfully no. He was wearing clothes underneath.

Was it Bussy

Now that is just plain cruel!

I know he is partial to beige

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

...it's not so much the mac and the flat cap, it's the black fishnets underneath with socks and sandals...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a chap came to see me, he was clean dressed casual but he wore dirty old trainers.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would never judge someone by the way they dress....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am old fashioned i dont mind men who wear shorts and socks with sandals, just as long as they are clean and not old ones.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would just blank the fucker and they would never be allowed within 20 miles of me ever again...

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I would never judge someone by the way they dress....

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short."

Men over 40 should never ever wear trainers. The only exception to this is if you are excersing or participating in sport.

The same goes for replica football shirts and tracksuit bottoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a mac with just undies underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would just blank the fucker and they would never be allowed within 20 miles of me ever again..."

i would probably still meet them because beggars cant always be choosers.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I would just blank the fucker and they would never be allowed within 20 miles of me ever again...

i would probably still meet them because beggars cant always be choosers."

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short.

Men over 40 should never ever wear trainers. The only exception to this is if you are excersing or participating in sport.

The same goes for replica football shirts and tracksuit bottoms. "

I have a friend who's standard attire is football shirt, tracksuit bottoms, white flash dunlop trainers, a very old sweatshirt and I kid you not a black flashers mac. Despite our best efforts he refuses to wear anything else.

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By *jwanaMan
over a year ago

Birkenhead

Flip flops n trackie bottoms!! It was October just no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short.

Men over 40 should never ever wear trainers. The only exception to this is if you are excersing or participating in sport.

The same goes for replica football shirts and tracksuit bottoms. "

I disagree!! Husband regular wears tracksuit bottoms and trainers and he looks just fine at 41, they are nice tracksuit bottoms though and he doesnt look chavy,scruffy,odd in them. He does know when and where to wear them though and does scrub up even better. It maybe because we are regular gym goers so it looks ok to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once met a bloke for a coffee and he was wearing a beige flasher mac.

I didn't meet him again.

Did he.....did he.....you know? Reveal himself?

Thankfully no. He was wearing clothes underneath.

Was it Bussy

Now that is just plain cruel!

I know he is partial to beige

Oooh! No it wasn't Bussy. His mac is blue.

He loves beige. Especially taupe. And stone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would just blank the fucker and they would never be allowed within 20 miles of me ever again..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never judge by clothes alone - they may have circumstances where they cant afford anything else/new etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short."

is it the clothes, or the fat/short you don't like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short.

is it the clothes, or the fat/short you don't like?"

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

paisley and Hawaiian, thats just how i roll.

i wondered why i wern't having much luck i think my meets are turning up seeing me and leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short.

is it the clothes, or the fat/short you don't like?

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it has, I make the effort with meets and usually meet socially first, and if they have any resemblance to anyone that goes on Jeremy Kyle is a no no!!!. not a snob or anything but not into chavs!!.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"paisley and Hawaiian, thats just how i roll.

i wondered why i wern't having much luck i think my meets are turning up seeing me and leaving

Hey... long live diversity - I like people that a re a bit different, including those that are a bit short, a bit chunky, a bit loony... but above all genuinely comfortable in their own skin. Now that IS sexy

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"yes it has, I make the effort with meets and usually meet socially first, and if they have any resemblance to anyone that goes on Jeremy Kyle is a no no!!!. not a snob or anything but not into chavs!!.

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I get you completely. I like people to be nice people in the first place and also to be clean. Other minor (perceived) imperfections do not bother me. (Except the track suit bottoms lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short."

I was thinking this was a shallow thread. But after reading this I take that thought back

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"paisley and Hawaiian, thats just how i roll.

i wondered why i wern't having much luck i think my meets are turning up seeing me and leaving

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awwww thankyou, im sexy yay

.... and a loon , ull

lol xxxxxxxxxx

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"paisley and Hawaiian, thats just how i roll.

i wondered why i wern't having much luck i think my meets are turning up seeing me and leaving

awwww thankyou, im sexy yay

.... and a loon , ull

lol xxxxxxxxxx"
You re great and you ahve a lovely torso

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"paisley and Hawaiian, thats just how i roll.

i wondered why i wern't having much luck i think my meets are turning up seeing me and leaving

awwww thankyou, im sexy yay

.... and a loon , ull

lol xxxxxxxxxxYou re great and you ahve a lovely torso

xx"
thanku, im a big fan of yours too, in a none stalky way love your threads.

u seem very nice... oh and v sexy to boot bonus

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"paisley and Hawaiian, thats just how i roll.

i wondered why i wern't having much luck i think my meets are turning up seeing me and leaving

awwww thankyou, im sexy yay

.... and a loon , ull

lol xxxxxxxxxxYou re great and you ahve a lovely torso

xx thanku, im a big fan of yours too, in a none stalky way love your threads.

u seem very nice... oh and v sexy to boot bonus

"
Aw thanks I am blushing the second time tonight xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as long as they were nice and clean it isn't that important, nothing wrong with expressing yourself with your clothes or not being able to afford new ones. It's all about the person not the wrappers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as they were nice and clean it isn't that important, nothing wrong with expressing yourself with your clothes or not being able to afford new ones. It's all about the person not the wrappers...

not everyones that fussy are they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in creativity and having individual style. I have never dressed to fit in with the crowd, I know what I like and I will wear what I like.

I've always had a quirky fashion sense and being looked at and sometimes sniggered at has never bothered me. I would rather have my own individual style than look like a clone.

I tend to accessorise and alter my clothes to make them how I want. I am always sewing sequins, studs, lace, feathers, gems etc on outfits to brighten them up as I love all things bright and glittery. I'm not one for understated.

Therefore I enjoy other peoples creativity too. I would say that I'm not a fan of sportswear or jeans or trainers but if others like wearing it then its up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told I was over dressed once

Just dressed in jeans, nice shoes, shirt, narrow tie and suit jacket

I thought I was "smart casual"

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"I was told I was over dressed once

Just dressed in jeans, nice shoes, shirt, narrow tie and suit jacket

I thought I was "smart casual""
u were in a sauna tho at a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the way someone dresses ever put you off meeting someone?"

Yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short.

Men over 40 should never ever wear trainers. The only exception to this is if you are excersing or participating in sport.

The same goes for replica football shirts and tracksuit bottoms. "

No man over 20 should wear a football shirt unless he's playing! And as for trainers, I disagree. I have 40 plus pairs none of which are of the white variety I hasten to add. Anyone in white trainers should be shot repeatedly with a potato gun

As for tracksuit bottoms, gym only. I shudder when I see fat old men walking round Morrisons in them.

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

My best mate is an old school friend and he's a Mod. There was talk of us going out together but apparently I'm not cool enough in what I wear! Fucking cheek! Just because I won't dress in an A line nylon dress, cut my hair in a certain way and wear crappy 60's style shoes.

That was the deal breaker for me. He's a lonely idiot, that has a need to feel accepted by 'the gang', yet 'the gang' never contacts he away from weekenders, and it's little uncool me that looks out for him.

Rant over! What a fuck wit!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"...... they are nice tracksuit bottoms though ......."

Those are words you seldom read in the same sentence.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"........And as for trainers, I disagree. I have 40 plus pairs none of which are of the white variety I hasten to add. .......... "

Why on earth do you have over 40 pairs of trainers?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I was told I was over dressed once

Just dressed in jeans, nice shoes, shirt, narrow tie and suit jacket

I thought I was "smart casual""

Jeans AND a tie????? The jury's out on that.

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

At a place i worked this guy was wandering round the workshop trying to catch someones eye, I approached him and asked if he wanted help, he asked to see Manager X, I escorted him to his office and went away, later chatting to X I asked who the guy was as he looked down on his luck, I was told he was the owner of the entire group of 23 companies I was working for and he was worth about £35M. He was dressed in a tatty polo shirt, tracky bottoms and wore a pair of old shoes which looked well past their best, on top of this he wore an old mack with buttons and a belt missing,and a flat cap older than I was. I saw him as he left the building rolling a cigarette before jumping into a rattly old mercedes estate. I suppose you should never judge anyone by first appearances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm very funny about what people wear, can't stand trainers for every day wear and if I meet someone in trainers it puts me off, also track suits for me it's just not acceptable to turn up to meet me in a flipping trackie when I've gone tho all the trouble of looking nice for them and they turn up looking like they have just come from signing on

I'm sure not everyone likes the way I dress but that's upto them if it bothers them or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"........And as for trainers, I disagree. I have 40 plus pairs none of which are of the white variety I hasten to add. ..........

Why on earth do you have over 40 pairs of trainers?"

Why on earth do you go train spotting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol"

Red

for danger

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

for danger

Can't really say without a closer look

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

for danger

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oooo dont i have that image now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

for danger

Can't really say without a closer look

There are enough pics

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

for danger

Can't really say without a closer look

There are enough pics

That was just a trick to get me to look

there's not a single mac pic there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

for danger

Can't really say without a closer look

There are enough pics

That was just a trick to get me to look

there's not a single mac pic there

It so wasn't

and i meant undies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago when I was single, I turned up for a meet and the woman was dressed like Miss Marple!

Quick drink and I was off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many years ago when I was single, I turned up for a meet and the woman was dressed like Miss Marple!

Quick drink and I was off....

so funny .....sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many years ago when I was single, I turned up for a meet and the woman was dressed like Miss Marple!

Quick drink and I was off....

wow, i liked miss marple she looked good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At a place i worked this guy was wandering round the workshop trying to catch someones eye, I approached him and asked if he wanted help, he asked to see Manager X, I escorted him to his office and went away, later chatting to X I asked who the guy was as he looked down on his luck, I was told he was the owner of the entire group of 23 companies I was working for and he was worth about £35M. He was dressed in a tatty polo shirt, tracky bottoms and wore a pair of old shoes which looked well past their best, on top of this he wore an old mack with buttons and a belt missing,and a flat cap older than I was. I saw him as he left the building rolling a cigarette before jumping into a rattly old mercedes estate. I suppose you should never judge anyone by first appearances"

I love that!!

I was going to clarify my earlier comment on this thread.... But decided I'm not going to.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

for danger

Can't really say without a closer look

There are enough pics

That was just a trick to get me to look

there's not a single mac pic there

It so wasn't

and i meant undies lol "

Well I'm not looking again until you get a proper flashing mac pic

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Well I'm not looking again until you get a proper flashing mac pic

Oops I lied

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I feel overdressed in this metal suit now

At least I don't go to the shops in my dressing gown and PJ's what's that all about

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

I think someone can look better dressed smart n sexy, than naked mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told I was over dressed once

Just dressed in jeans, nice shoes, shirt, narrow tie and suit jacket

I thought I was "smart casual""

bit much for a pool party though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

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Can't really say without a closer look

There are enough pics

That was just a trick to get me to look

there's not a single mac pic there

It so wasn't

and i meant undies lol

Well I'm not looking again until you get a proper flashing mac pic

Will see if I can get someone to help me out. Open or closed Mac ?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What about a mac with just undies underneath

As long as its not beige. They are reserved for flashers lol

Red

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Can't really say without a closer look

There are enough pics

That was just a trick to get me to look

there's not a single mac pic there

It so wasn't

and i meant undies lol

Well I'm not looking again until you get a proper flashing mac pic

Will see if I can get someone to help me out. Open or closed Mac ?

All the successful flashers have theirs open (apparently)

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Not at all. The FFM I had with the two ladies in a pantomine horse outfit remains as one of my swinging highlights even now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all. The FFM I had with the two ladies in a pantomine horse outfit remains as one of my swinging highlights even now

Really

you have to give us more details of that one lol

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By *eisty1Woman
over a year ago

BBW LAND

I remember a meet years ago where I met someone but wasn't sure we would click but thought why not met him and he turned up in very high shorts sandals and socks and think the photo he showed me was from a good few years ago needless to say we didn't meet after that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"middle aged men who wear old t shirts, cropped trousers or tracksuit bottoms especialy if they are overweight and short.

Men over 40 should never ever wear trainers. The only exception to this is if you are excersing or participating in sport.

The same goes for replica football shirts and tracksuit bottoms.

Bring him to the social on Wednesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember a meet years ago where I met someone but wasn't sure we would click but thought why not met him and he turned up in very high shorts sandals and socks and think the photo he showed me was from a good few years ago needless to say we didn't meet after that lol"

Oh my god!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes a few times... if people can't make an effort when they meet people then why should we bother to meet them again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the way someone dresses ever put you off meeting someone?"

Yes on more than one occasion but its usually down to a less than pristine presentation on a social meet.

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