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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

So I have noticed recently on the site that some couples have receaved cum tributes.

But got be thinking what is the etiquette surrounding cum tributes obviously you cant just send one randomly out of the blue?

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Some prefer the surprise element…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ask. It may not be as welcome as you hope it is

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We prefer it if the tribute asks first, as otherwise it seems creepy. However, 90% of the time, the tribute is never sent. It seems that often its an attempt to get more pics, so we never hold our breath.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"We prefer it if the tribute asks first, as otherwise it seems creepy. However, 90% of the time, the tribute is never sent. It seems that often its an attempt to get more pics, so we never hold our breath."

I had a problem three other day where the video file was too large for fab and Tellegram. Fab would not meet me list screenshots so we just abandoned it.

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By *kpiercedCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We asked a while ago

And didn’t get any

Plenty of offers to do them but no-one actually did

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Some prefer the surprise element….."

But I always ask first unless someone has made it clear in one of these threads that they’re up for it.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne


"We asked a while ago

And didn’t get any

Plenty of offers to do them but no-one actually did "

Quite enjoy the element of surprise if it’s a tribute.

Don’t mind receiving dick pics with a message so long as a face pic is included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always like tributes

No prewarning needed

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby


"So I have noticed recently on the site that some couples have receaved cum tributes.

But got be thinking what is the etiquette surrounding cum tributes obviously you cant just send one randomly out of the blue?"

Love a random one. Trouble is they promise then want to call and harass you. Random one so sexy x

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve done three tribute videos couples. I’ve always asked me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer it if the tribute asks first, as otherwise it seems creepy. However, 90% of the time, the tribute is never sent. It seems that often its an attempt to get more pics, so we never hold our breath."

What is with that? We get asked every time we comment on a thread like this, but only a few actually send tribute pics.

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By *ohnSwingsSurreyMan
over a year ago

Horley


"We prefer it if the tribute asks first, as otherwise it seems creepy. However, 90% of the time, the tribute is never sent. It seems that often its an attempt to get more pics, so we never hold our breath.

What is with that? We get asked every time we comment on a thread like this, but only a few actually send tribute pics. "

I’ll do one

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By *ohnSwingsSurreyMan
over a year ago

Horley

Always love tributing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a problem to receive them without asking

In fact I quite like it

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By *adeandkaciCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We’re always happy to receive them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the whole being asked to do them. I never like to send them without asking, just to make sure they are welcome.

In general I believe people enjoy my tributes.

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By *elmar80Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Of course it's polite to ask, but not offended if not

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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Quite like receiving them but kind of prefer to know up front that you'd like to do one.

J x

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby


"We prefer it if the tribute asks first, as otherwise it seems creepy. However, 90% of the time, the tribute is never sent. It seems that often its an attempt to get more pics, so we never hold our breath.

What is with that? We get asked every time we comment on a thread like this, but only a few actually send tribute pics. "

N

More often than not they don't do it just want pics or phone calls lol. X

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd hate to receive one without asking 1st & then I'd say no.

It's only common decency to ask before sticking your cock in an inbox.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking just seems logical to be honest. But quite a few people get the hump with it.

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By *hunderhawkMan
over a year ago

Hull

The couple of video tributes I've done have been well received, been very fun to do. Id always ask first.

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We love receiving them

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

If our posts are for all to see can’t really stop someone enjoying themselves watching/looking at them.

If they want to send us the results that’s up to them.

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By *ixenFoxCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We have received a few lately and really like it.

Do get a lot of guys asking then not producing the goods!

No need to ask permission from us... fire away so to speak!

Vixen x

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By *amcpl4Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We've received a few and loved them and like others have been messaged offering a tribute but never received anything. Not fussed either way on being asked but get that some guys like to know which picture we want tributing, always happy to assist xx

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By *R.MandMRS.TCouple
over a year ago

lurgan

I dont mind ones on my pit pics (mrs.t)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get offered, but never receive for some reason.

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By *uriousBeanCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

More the merrier for us!

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Had one yesterday X

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By *aturedNicelyWoman
over a year ago

Chichester

It would be nice to receive one unexpectedly. I've been tribute in the past but I was asked beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice to receive one unexpectedly. I've been tribute in the past but I was asked beforehand "

I’d like to but I can’t message

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By *efined gentlemanMan
over a year ago

harrow

We don't mind receiving tributes out of the blue. It's a nice surprise.

Our issue is that fab keep taking them off, if we can get them up in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be very creeped out if someone did it without asking

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

Im a big cummer and love to tribute.

I will only tribute for single verified females or couples where the lady asks for it and by doing so holds up a faceless photo with my name written on it.

It doesn't do much for me if the women doesn't want it done and its just for hubby's pleasure which ive found to be the case quite often.

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By *lowDriverMan
over a year ago

Constant Bewilderment

I always tend to ask unless replying to a forum post requesting them unannounced...seems only polite

Done a couple for people posting in this thread in the past

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By *arallumCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I always tend to ask unless replying to a forum post requesting them unannounced...seems only polite

Done a couple for people posting in this thread in the past "

Feel free to indulge with her pics if the mood takes you…

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I prefer to know first. I don’t think I’d like to randomly be sent one. If I wasn’t attracted to the man performing it it wouldn’t be sexy for me

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By *unseekers24Couple
over a year ago

stockport

We love getting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard enough getting a planned one nevermind a random one.

Like everyone else, we love tributes but 90% don’t deliver.

Who’d of thought itd be so hard to film yourself jerking off?

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker


"Its hard enough getting a planned one nevermind a random one.

Like everyone else, we love tributes but 90% don’t deliver.

Who’d of thought itd be so hard to film yourself jerking off?"

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask first. I reckon it would be rude to just send one out of the blue. Plus 90% of the turn on for me when I am sending cock/cum tributes is knowing the other person/people are turned on by it.

It can be annoying though when someone requests a tribute, then after I send one over the response is along the lines of "Hot."

I like a bit of conversation to go with the pics/videos but that's just my preference

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By *o_boxersMan
over a year ago

solihull

Would like to do one now

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

St Ives

Most we’ve received have asked us first, and that seems reasonable. We’ve received some lovely ones and always interested to see which pics they have chosen to wank over.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We are open to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think that you should ask before you send. Feel free to make it, our pics are there for people to enjoy, but just be polite and say hey I made this for you would you like to see it.

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Our inbox is always open

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By *inanewgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Id love to receive one.

Id find it rather hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think that you should ask before you send. Feel free to make it, our pics are there for people to enjoy, but just be polite and say hey I made this for you would you like to see it. "

Pretty much this. I always ask before doing one though. It's a turn on knowing that someone wants one.

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Our inbox is always open "

Stunning……

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I always ask our have been asked to do them

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By *YX72Couple
over a year ago

newcatle upon tyne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to receive a surprise tribute it makes me very hot x

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By *ristolBS3Man
over a year ago

bristol

Ask or be asked for me. More personal approach preferred.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

We're open for business when it comes to tributes.

Preferably video with sound, and a happy ending of course. Lol

HW

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By *emon gsyMan
over a year ago

st sampsons


"We're open for business when it comes to tributes.

Preferably video with sound, and a happy ending of course. Lol

HW"

im in

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

I have done a few but tend to send via kik as the 59 second restriction here tends to split it

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love a random tribute whether asked first or not. About 1 in 10 actually send one though. As previously mentioned in the thread a lot use it as an excuse to get more pics The genuine ones are amazing though

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By *iniskirtCouple
over a year ago

Paisley

We love to get them but prefer there has been a bit of chat first, the surprise element is what picture the guys chooses x

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester


"We're open for business when it comes to tributes.

Preferably video with sound, and a happy ending of course. Lol

HWim in "

Knock yourself out then.

HW

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I’ve done a few myself for couples on here

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By *ixie-and-himCouple
over a year ago

st helens

never been sent one nor asked

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By *irthking17Man
over a year ago

Ayrshrie/Edinburgh/London

Anyone want one?

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Been asked and never received the photo of said tribute.

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By *ntense40Man
over a year ago

Rotherhithe

I always ask first )

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By *amesandthegiantpeach69Couple
over a year ago

bs

Send away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for one from a couple where the fem is wanking off her huuby to our pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some prefer the surprise element….."

Some definitely don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been sent one nor asked"

That's insane. Your pictures are incredible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same. We often get told that we will receive but hardly ever do. We do have one guy who regularly does them for us (which perhaps one day we might end up meeting him as it’s good relationship building and shows that he is reliable and non pushy etc). Having said that we are always welcoming to random ones.

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By *kpiercedCouple
over a year ago

walsall

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Some prefer the surprise element…..

Some definitely don’t "

I know, we’ve spoken previously…..

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By *race_cpl6665Couple
over a year ago

Solihull

Love a random tribute especially a cum shot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still waiting for one from a couple where the fem is wanking off her huuby to our pics..."

Hot idea maybe we could help you out

We also love receiving them. No need to ask just wank away.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

Some might say they cum quick and fast x

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Still waiting for one from a couple where the fem is wanking off her huuby to our pics..."

Isnt that some form of joi?

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By *exySenseiCouple
over a year ago


"So I have noticed recently on the site that some couples have receaved cum tributes.

But got be thinking what is the etiquette surrounding cum tributes obviously you cant just send one randomly out of the blue?"

Guys ask us first before sending. We’re fine with that.

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Any guys can use our pics for cum tributes. However, most guys ask or we ask them for one.

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