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By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

Seems I’m getting nowhere fast on here ?is it my age ?or just the site ? Constructive advice needed not just silly comments please

By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Too many cock pics not enough in bio.

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just the site, so many men compared to women and couples.

Mrs

By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a few quirky pics (black and white always looks good especially kinky ones) wee bit less willy, I much prefer seeing the outline through clothing or just seeing a tiny bit. A nice white shirt and open jeans showing some boxers is far more intriguing than the full William xx

By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

age my friend doesnt help..

By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

This is why I'm trying to write a catch all guide. Everyday a single male writes asking for advice and it has been like that since 2015.

They normally fall into a category

1l to many cock pics

2) poor understanding time taken to get a meet.

3) poorly written profile

4) not working too go to a club or a social to get a vari.

4) playing message roulette beliving messaging everyone will get them a meet. Note it doesn't.

5) poor attitude, a lack of respect. If you think you are garenteed a fuck for being on the site your not.

6) a lack of persistence (not as in constantly send the same person a massage, but) adapting and coding keeping one head in the game.

7) forgetting for that swinging is for some a social pass time not any sick did the trick

8) during our bit understand that for 1 women there are 74 men.

9) a lack of a mixture of up to date photos.

10) understanding that swinging is much about how one looks

11) a mix of any of an of the above

By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Seems I’m getting nowhere fast on here ?is it my age ?or just the site ? Constructive advice needed not just silly comments please"

Both. Search male profiles to check out your competition.. far too many guys chasing few women.. been this way forever .