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"Sex workers can have a life outside their line of work too! As long as they do not tout for business via FAB, then they have every right to be on here like everyone else. " Hi... sort of agree but if profile states safe sex on here then bareback on other sites for 80 quid or whatever seems a bit dubious and disconcerting to me !! | |||
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"Sex workers can have a life outside their line of work too! As long as they do not tout for business via FAB, then they have every right to be on here like everyone else. Hi... sort of agree but if profile states safe sex on here then bareback on other sites for 80 quid or whatever seems a bit dubious and disconcerting to me !! " Plenty of people on here say safe sex then have pics with different people all with no condom. Not just the escorts. | |||
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"Sex workers can have a life outside their line of work too! As long as they do not tout for business via FAB, then they have every right to be on here like everyone else. Hi... sort of agree but if profile states safe sex on here then bareback on other sites for 80 quid or whatever seems a bit dubious and disconcerting to me !! " As long as they're not asking you for money on here then it is'nt a problem as its not allowed on here,as for the safe sex side of things thats a whole different situation,if you're matching up profiles from here and an escort site then at least you're in the position to think no thanks and move on | |||
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"Misshottie !! Hi agreed and u can see that on profile and judge not to meet them but if they use rubbers on pics but not when escorting stds are at risk ! Fyi ( well everybodys) im just questioning the erhics if this as i would always play safe whether with a swinger an escort or if welsh a sheep lol !! Only joking please dont abuse me if west of swindon ! Lol " | |||
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"Misshottie !! Hi agreed and u can see that on profile and judge not to meet them but if they use rubbers on pics but not when escorting stds are at risk ! Fyi ( well everybodys) im just questioning the erhics if this as i would always play safe whether with a swinger an escort or if welsh a sheep lol !! Only joking please dont abuse me if west of swindon ! Lol " Of course. So you should assume no one plays safe and always play safe yourself, risk management x | |||
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"Bigjugs.. hi thanks for comment... i was just Questioning the honesty of profiles.!! Escorts have got many reasons for choosing their lifestyles and i for one would not comdemn them in any shape or form !!" Who are you saying is not being honest? As others have said, escorts are perfectly entitled to a sex life same as anyone. Just because you've spotted someone on an escort site doing bareback, doesn't mean Mr and Mrs Suburbs aren't doing bareback gangbangs every night of the week if it's not on their profile. | |||
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"As long as they are not asking for payment on here then there is no problem. " | |||
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" Im not part of the clic on here so am expecting some negative comments but honestly why use a swinging site to dupe people which im GUESSING is the aim ?? " That sounds so childish. | |||
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"I was going to answer until you said you weren't part of the clique... yawn " Oi don't mention the cl............. You know what happens ..... Queue SCAREY music ........ | |||
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"I was going to answer until you said you weren't part of the clique... yawn Oi don't mention the cl............. You know what happens ..... Queue SCAREY music ........" hang on... we're out of scary music, you'll have to make do with the theme to 'tales of the unexpected' instead Wolf | |||
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"I was going to answer until you said you weren't part of the clique... yawn Oi don't mention the cl............. You know what happens ..... Queue SCAREY music ........ hang on... we're out of scary music, you'll have to make do with the theme to 'tales of the unexpected' instead Wolf " Can't we use the drum roll ending on the EastEnders credits? | |||
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"Please make cheques payable to..... If your a escort and swinger, the best of both worlds in my eyes. Hell even I would consider it, comments welcome please. Your probably safer (and cheaper) playing with a escort than pulling a random after x pints on a saturday and catching something or giving something " Good point | |||
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" Questioning the honesty of profiles.!! " Not sure what you mean by this. Surely this would apply to ALL profiles. Or perhaps you mean escorts should announce what they do professionally outside of swinging? The rest of us don't, so why should they? Unless they choose to. You're a grown up. If you don't like it then simply keep away from them. | |||
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"Sex workers can have a life outside their line of work too! As long as they do not tout for business via FAB, then they have every right to be on here like everyone else. Hi... sort of agree but if profile states safe sex on here then bareback on other sites for 80 quid or whatever seems a bit dubious and disconcerting to me !! " Do you think some people who are not sex workers with "safe sex" ticked don't bare back?!! Grow up! | |||
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"treat everyone you meet as just having come from a 100 person bareback gang bang then your half of the way there to making sure your safe. just make sure you rubber up, simples" That's the attitude I've adopted from day one! I wrote that once and was told I was sad, as if I gave a fuck! All you can do is protect yourself the best you can: everything else is outwith your control. | |||
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"...do you check escort sites for people you may be interested in meeting,or if someone approaches you? .....how have these 'discoveries' come about? " Risk management assessments of course! | |||
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"Ids being an escort a bad thing? Most escorts are safe sex and clean and tbh your just as at much risk on here meeting a stranger for sex than you are with an escort.Only difference is its free on here and you pay an escort.Same thing to me just money is the difference.What if a woman has a gang bang on here and sleeps with 40 men.An escort might only sleep with half of that a month never mind in one night.Hope you get what im trying to say.So what if escorts are on here, they have a life and s long as there not touting for payment then so what. " You may see yourself as an escort, most of us won't! | |||
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"Sex workers can have a life outside their line of work too! As long as they do not tout for business via FAB, then they have every right to be on here like everyone else. Hi... sort of agree but if profile states safe sex on here then bareback on other sites for 80 quid or whatever seems a bit dubious and disconcerting to me !! Do you think some people who are not sex workers with "safe sex" ticked don't bare back?!! Grow up! " | |||
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"Opinions please!!" My opinion is you have too much time on your hands, if the exact same pictures are used there are two possibilities. 1, They like the picture so use it. 2, it's that single bloke from Cleethorpes with a fake female profile again. If anyone on here tries to charge you for sex then send the PM onto Admin, as that isn't allowed. Otherwise have fun like the rest of us. | |||
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"So free sex from an escort is different to free sex from a swinger? How ?!!" because he's a Yorkshire man:-they like to think they have made a saving in anything they do! | |||
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"I have worked as an escort in the past, bit kept this separate from my swinging at the time (mostly playing in clubs). Bit different for female escorts,as the girls I knew were not too concerned with where they met men, s long as they made money, hence the number of escorts working this site. Male escorts have a stronger baragaining position, as in my experience the clients tend to be 40-60, professional middle classes, divorced or bored, and looking for ultra discrete fun, and only usually sexual in nature half of the time xx" doubt they have a stronger bargaining power:-more men would pay for escorts(term loosely used) then women would,whether its for sex or just company! | |||
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"I have worked as an escort in the past, bit kept this separate from my swinging at the time (mostly playing in clubs). Bit different for female escorts,as the girls I knew were not too concerned with where they met men, s long as they made money, hence the number of escorts working this site. Male escorts have a stronger baragaining position, as in my experience the clients tend to be 40-60, professional middle classes, divorced or bored, and looking for ultra discrete fun, and only usually sexual in nature half of the time xx doubt they have a stronger bargaining power:-more men would pay for escorts(term loosely used) then women would,whether its for sex or just company!" You are wrong. Men won't pay for escorts as they tend to be quite expensive. Men may well pay for street girls, but that is another story. The women I met were usually far more attractive than the equivalent male using an escort, and did so simply for ease of use so to speak. I met one client once a week for 2 years, always same time, same place. She was an exotic dancer and dance teacher, gorgeous, but simply bored by the 'bull shit' from men as she termed it, so preferred to pay. | |||
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"I have worked as an escort in the past, bit kept this separate from my swinging at the time (mostly playing in clubs). Bit different for female escorts,as the girls I knew were not too concerned with where they met men, s long as they made money, hence the number of escorts working this site. Male escorts have a stronger baragaining position, as in my experience the clients tend to be 40-60, professional middle classes, divorced or bored, and looking for ultra discrete fun, and only usually sexual in nature half of the time xx doubt they have a stronger bargaining power:-more men would pay for escorts(term loosely used) then women would,whether its for sex or just company! You are wrong. Men won't pay for escorts as they tend to be quite expensive. Men may well pay for street girls, but that is another story. The women I met were usually far more attractive than the equivalent male using an escort, and did so simply for ease of use so to speak. I met one client once a week for 2 years, always same time, same place. She was an exotic dancer and dance teacher, gorgeous, but simply bored by the 'bull shit' from men as she termed it, so preferred to pay." bull shit from men:-now that's a thing! | |||
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"Opinions please!! I have come across so many women on here who are also advertising escort services on other sites .. shouldnt this be just for swingers ?? Yep...how do i know etc etc !! Just after opinions !! Im not part of the clic on here so am expecting some negative comments but honestly why use a swinging site to dupe people which im GUESSING is the aim ?? " Funny I've been trying to arrange a meet with a guy if here was let down and two weeks later had text of him if I still want to meet I said no and he then asked me if I or if I know of any of my friends who would want to work for him on sex line! I mean really? He was here to recruit his employees? I guess I've passed the interview then if I got the job offer | |||
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"I have worked as an escort in the past, bit kept this separate from my swinging at the time (mostly playing in clubs). Bit different for female escorts,as the girls I knew were not too concerned with where they met men, s long as they made money, hence the number of escorts working this site. Male escorts have a stronger baragaining position, as in my experience the clients tend to be 40-60, professional middle classes, divorced or bored, and looking for ultra discrete fun, and only usually sexual in nature half of the time xx doubt they have a stronger bargaining power:-more men would pay for escorts(term loosely used) then women would,whether its for sex or just company! You are wrong. Men won't pay for escorts as they tend to be quite expensive. Men may well pay for street girls, but that is another story. The women I met were usually far more attractive than the equivalent male using an escort, and did so simply for ease of use so to speak. I met one client once a week for 2 years, always same time, same place. She was an exotic dancer and dance teacher, gorgeous, but simply bored by the 'bull shit' from men as she termed it, so preferred to pay." I used to work and its funny that my experience is the opposite of what you've described. Men do pay for escorts, maybe the girls you know we're targeting the wrong audience but the market is definitely still there and those I know that are still in the industry say its busier than ever. Back when I was working we were easily earning a grand a night plus tips x | |||
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" bull shit from men:-now that's a thing!" you have to be careful as it could be up to 60% horse shit as well nowadays Wolf | |||
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"I have worked as an escort in the past, bit kept this separate from my swinging at the time (mostly playing in clubs). Bit different for female escorts,as the girls I knew were not too concerned with where they met men, s long as they made money, hence the number of escorts working this site. Male escorts have a stronger baragaining position, as in my experience the clients tend to be 40-60, professional middle classes, divorced or bored, and looking for ultra discrete fun, and only usually sexual in nature half of the time xx doubt they have a stronger bargaining power:-more men would pay for escorts(term loosely used) then women would,whether its for sex or just company! You are wrong. Men won't pay for escorts as they tend to be quite expensive. Men may well pay for street girls, but that is another story. The women I met were usually far more attractive than the equivalent male using an escort, and did so simply for ease of use so to speak. I met one client once a week for 2 years, always same time, same place. She was an exotic dancer and dance teacher, gorgeous, but simply bored by the 'bull shit' from men as she termed it, so preferred to pay. I used to work and its funny that my experience is the opposite of what you've described. Men do pay for escorts, maybe the girls you know we're targeting the wrong audience but the market is definitely still there and those I know that are still in the industry say its busier than ever. Back when I was working we were easily earning a grand a night plus tips x " This was Manchester and the NW, 2003-7 period. Grand a night is epic money for what is a good and more often than not a fun job. I never made a grand a night tjough lol xx | |||
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" bull shit from men:-now that's a thing! you have to be careful as it could be up to 60% horse shit as well nowadays Wolf " | |||
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"I have worked as an escort in the past, bit kept this separate from my swinging at the time (mostly playing in clubs). Bit different for female escorts,as the girls I knew were not too concerned with where they met men, s long as they made money, hence the number of escorts working this site. Male escorts have a stronger baragaining position, as in my experience the clients tend to be 40-60, professional middle classes, divorced or bored, and looking for ultra discrete fun, and only usually sexual in nature half of the time xx doubt they have a stronger bargaining power:-more men would pay for escorts(term loosely used) then women would,whether its for sex or just company! You are wrong. Men won't pay for escorts as they tend to be quite expensive. Men may well pay for street girls, but that is another story. The women I met were usually far more attractive than the equivalent male using an escort, and did so simply for ease of use so to speak. I met one client once a week for 2 years, always same time, same place. She was an exotic dancer and dance teacher, gorgeous, but simply bored by the 'bull shit' from men as she termed it, so preferred to pay. bull shit from men:-now that's a thing!" Yeah, I know, I did not know what she was talking about xx | |||
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"It takes all sorts, and the beauty of Fab is that we're all so varied and have differing interests: it would be dull otherwise. Escorting is probably a much more honest job than many others, such as politicians, bankers etc, and all the escorts I've known have been lovely people. Sometimes we just have to make our own minds up about what's right for us, and don't need to use the internet to ponder aloud. Person is wary of those who may have barebacked, person reviews escort service providers, person is responsible for own sexual health and protective measures, person meditates etc. Keep life simple - know what you want and only pursue things in that direction." been trying to think of any job less honest than either a politician or banker(with a "b")and haven't been able to think of one,having a job as Lance Armstrong would come pretty near though! | |||
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"Opinions please!! I have come across so many women on here who are also advertising escort services on other sites .. shouldnt this be just for swingers ?? Yep...how do i know etc etc !! Just after opinions !! Im not part of the clic on here so am expecting some negative comments but honestly why use a swinging site to dupe people which im GUESSING is the aim ?? " if this site should be just for swingers then you best delete your profile After all your not looking on escort sites to find your dads next birthday pressy are you? | |||
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"Sex workers can have a life outside their line of work too! As long as they do not tout for business via FAB, then they have every right to be on here like everyone else. " | |||
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"I work in sex clubs and i always play safe when working, infact im safer when working than on meets, i even use condoms for oral when im working i dont when i meet off here, there are very few escorts that advertise bare back, their muff is the income and to catch something would put them out of work till they are clear, i know people have a image that escorts are all dirty and spread everything going but a great deal of them really arnt like that and take their health seriously I would like to know what site the OP is looking on thats he's seen women advertising this As for sould i be allowed to use this site because i work clubs, why should'nt i? most of the guys i play with while working are just there for their own pleasure, they pay for a service that i provide, i meet guys on here for my own pleasure, i dont see anything wrong with that?? Always amazes me how many men ask this, i dont see why they think its ok for them to go on escort sites and come on here but they think the women should'nt " You work in sex clubs?in what role? | |||
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"I work in sex clubs and i always play safe when working, infact im safer when working than on meets, i even use condoms for oral when im working i dont when i meet off here, there are very few escorts that advertise bare back, their muff is the income and to catch something would put them out of work till they are clear, i know people have a image that escorts are all dirty and spread everything going but a great deal of them really arnt like that and take their health seriously I would like to know what site the OP is looking on thats he's seen women advertising this As for sould i be allowed to use this site because i work clubs, why should'nt i? most of the guys i play with while working are just there for their own pleasure, they pay for a service that i provide, i meet guys on here for my own pleasure, i dont see anything wrong with that?? Always amazes me how many men ask this, i dont see why they think its ok for them to go on escort sites and come on here but they think the women should'nt You work in sex clubs?in what role?" in the role where i get paid by clubs to shag their customers lol They are like swinging clubs but they lay on women for the guys so rather than going to a swinging club and it being hit and miss as to wether you will find someone to have sex with at these clubs its guaranteed, to a limit, i do have the right to say no if i really dont want to play with them for certain reasons, even tho im being paid im not expected to just fuck anyone Its not really what i class as a job, i do have a 'proper' full time job i just do a few nights a month doing this because if im honest its money for old rope, getting paid to be gang banged in a club seems daft to say no lol | |||
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