FabSwingers.com forum: Why do men stay here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all know the statistics of men vs women and couples. Meets are rare regardless of tailored messages and good profiles and pics. However there are men here, over a year or more without the holy grail of a meet veri. Often told dating sites being in more bacon.

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Took me a while

Bring home the bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is very hard for men to meet women on here but it's all about the way you interact with people respect gets you a long way

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I basically stay because the forums are great craic

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By *ntimatelytattooedMan
over a year ago

Thatcham

Good question. I can’t speak for all men but myself, I don’t want a relationship but would like to find someone who can become a FWB. Unfortunately that is still considered taboo with lots of people so here I am with like minded people hoping one day to find it. Plus I have a lot of kinks that I’m afraid will scare those on dating sites off.

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Follow the forums and perve the pics .. that's all I do now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the majority of men have no intention of meeting (the silhouette brigade). Perhaps many are on to collect wank material, or some silhouettes are married men who might feel slightly guilty about trying to get a sly shag?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It's the hope that kills you...

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

"We all know the statistics of men vs women and couples. Meets are rare regardless of tailored messages and good profiles and pics. However there are men here, over a year or more without the holy grail of a meet veri. Often told dating sites being in more bacon.

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Wish we knew. 99% of single guys who message us can’t read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free eye candy

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"I think the majority of men have no intention of meeting (the silhouette brigade). Perhaps many are on to collect wank material, or some silhouettes are married men who might feel slightly guilty about trying to get a sly shag?

Had a silhouette message me tonight, absolutely no pics on profile and when I told him it wasn't blind date he said he had only had 3 meets in 7 years and was married...... Bye bye

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I'm guessing it's because there's porn with an opportunity to pester the women who feature

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Wish we knew. 99% of single guys who message us can’t read.

Love the earrings of Blue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet someone who also hasn’t been verified then you can’t verify each other

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"I'm guessing it's because there's porn with an opportunity to pester the women who feature

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nice to know what you think about us

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I stay here because I meet some lovely people.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I'm guessing it's because there's porn with an opportunity to pester the women who feature

nice to know what you think about us

If the shoe fits I guess lol. Was referring to the blank profile brigade who appear to do nothing but lurk

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Because not all couples and solo female profiles are tyrekickers, some do actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Wank bank material

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"If you meet someone who also hasn’t been verified then you can’t verify each other "

I've had 3/4 meets with people who don't leave veris anyway , so you can't always tell .

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"I'm guessing it's because there's porn with an opportunity to pester the women who feature

nice to know what you think about us

If the shoe fits I guess lol. Was referring to the blank profile brigade who appear to do nothing but lurk "
well you should be more specific

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

Hope is the thing lol

But after a long time on fab I have learned couple of things

1-people are shallow not all but mostly

2-Money and power talks this is how the world works

3 - a 2 in outer world will have a illusion that are 10 because of attention on fab lol

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I'm guessing it's because there's porn with an opportunity to pester the women who feature

nice to know what you think about us

If the shoe fits I guess lol. Was referring to the blank profile brigade who appear to do nothing but lurk well you should be more specific "

Yessir!

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london

Good chats with people and the hope of meeting someone like minded with chemistry.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"I'm guessing it's because there's porn with an opportunity to pester the women who feature

nice to know what you think about us

If the shoe fits I guess lol. Was referring to the blank profile brigade who appear to do nothing but lurk well you should be more specific

Yessir!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm just here to be eye candy for the ladies.

I've tried to leave a few times, but they keep asking ne to come back.

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

You may be right in an element of this, who knows, however to say the majority is just guess work unless you've conducted thoroughly via research and interacting with the majority, which I very much doubt.

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By *skyouneverknowMan
over a year ago

Calne

I'm here because I meet and chat with lots of lovely people

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Ah, it's because we can!

We love being blocked

Told that what we have to do

The site needs dingle guys blank profiles with no verifications

Where else would fab straight guys go?

Or committed guys go to have fun

They even might be swingers hevean forbid lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

The site in general has its benefits other than actual meeting. Their is the sociable access whether via messages or via the chat rooms

Not everyone is in a rush to meet, some like to build a really good connection/chemistry which can lead anywhere...

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Because some of us (aka myself) use the site to keep in touch with friends made with those we’ve met at events, connect with those going to the same places we intend on visiting, browse the forums and like to upload pics too…

The days of spending an eternity racking ones brains to send a message to complete stranger/s in the hope my words stand out amongst sea of garbage in someone’s inbox (only to no avail in most cases) are long gone

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

What dis you say? Haha

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By *hapLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s a maybe, maybe not, just try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get meets and I’ve made many friends, the dead times are shit but the good times are worth it!

Plus, where else can I find a partner into this lifestyle?

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By *elcome68Man
over a year ago

manchester

its always nice to chat with friendly down to earth ppl, men/fem. but alot of fems don't get it wen a guy messages them sincerely to chat and get to know them better. understandably cos most men lie about themselves. takes trust. best place is to visit a club, get to know ppl in person with no expectations from the off. i tried it 2 weeks ago. best decision ever guys

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

Not all about getting your winky wet.

It's a lifestyle too not just a sex site, I stay because of friends.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"its always nice to chat with friendly down to earth ppl, men/fem. but alot of fems don't get it wen a guy messages them sincerely to chat and get to know them better. understandably cos most men lie about themselves. takes trust. best place is to visit a club, get to know ppl in person with no expectations from the off. i tried it 2 weeks ago. best decision ever guys

Totally agree with you there mate, I find this the best way to meet people, clubs are great fun also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Free eye candy

And porn!

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Probably, we arw all socially inept and don't get out much, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They hope to get lucky.. If they stay up all night and all day.

In their dreams.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

We stay on here as won't wish to interrupt the daily routine at home, an you imagine having to iron ypur own shirts haha

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

why is the sky blue and grass green....

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Because, we are told it is

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By *yan226Man
over a year ago

everywhere

Imagine trying iron half the faces on here that thinks there a 10, when in the real world you wouldnt give them a second look.

, site does too much for women's egos.

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I stay as I have met some amazing people on here,

Yes I'm out numbered,

Doesn't bother me,

I'm here to enjoy myself,

As they say you only live once,

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By *ave0070Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

I stay on here to chat with like minded people and if it does lead into a meeting then fantastic but meeting is not the b all and end all for me I know what kind of site this is but you can meet some really nice people on here.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I'm currently asking myself that very question.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I stay one here ,even after over a year with zero meets ,because living on my own , and only having my dogs as company is a very lonely existence, and I still hold out hope of making some friends .

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

One day it could be me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the male species are more sexually active than their female counterpart. Hence the reason they will keep looking for a mate no matter how long it takes. It applies to all male creatures in the whole world.

On fab is evident.... they'll stay in with the hope that they'll find a mate to release that sexual tension. Again, no matter how long it takes...

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I would not have stayed on here for long if I was not bi.

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By *ornyltlfkrMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It gives me a glimmer of hope whilst I cry myself to sleep every night.

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I just hope one day it goes back to the good old days when you could actually get to chat and meet fun people more frequently on fab.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

How is a meet veri a holy grail ? You know anyone can just leave a fake meet veri if the other person approves it .. find Better ways

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

We have met some decent men on here so there is definitely quality out there - it's just a case of getting through the chaffe to find that small clump of wheat.

One thing i/we find really annoying though - single guys please take note - is men writing and asking questions where the answer is in our profile. To us that just shows plain laziness and a lack of effort and if you're lazy in this part fellas then there's a bloody good chance you're lazy in the bedroom too.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"We have met some decent men on here so there is definitely quality out there - it's just a case of getting through the chaffe to find that small clump of wheat.

I'd love to know what they are messaging asking you

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By *trueceltMan
over a year ago

Brynamman

The verification thing...I've met two men and a couple since March (it is two couples really but I can't count one of them, if they're reading they know why!

). I will leave a verification for anyone I've met who wants one but there is a growing culture here of those who find the verification system as it is a tiny bit tacky. I don't like the site or strangers knowing what I've been up to. I've nothing to hide...I'm not meeting for freaky Dalek sex or anything, it's just a question of privacy. My 'no veri' policy hasn't been the barrier to getting meets I thought it would be, hence why I say a growing number of people turning against the verification thing.

bit off topic there. I stay for the occasional bohemian

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

I don’t know what the problem is. I’ve never struggled to meet people.

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Mostly the forum chats etc. Beyond that if something happens then great but just because men without Veri stay on Fab it doesn’t mean they are missing out on what you describe as the “holy grail” lol

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

We do meet guys and will be doing. Sadly though there is a lot of them that have no manners. My wife isn't H##ker she isn't a gaurentee. But some guys are rude pushy and some bloody worry us!!

We dont meet the black face gang, One line profiles, text talk, pushy, disrespectful, rude until we have at least said more than hi. Always social first.

Some guys think one message and we will jump in our car and drive 2 hours for the fuck of her life with a black outline lol. We not playing fucking guess who!!

But have met and chat to some great guys too. And some my have a night with us... Mnj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all guys aren't getting meets.

To many veris can actually be off-putting to some ladies!

Some use multiple sites like a lottery system if your not in you can't win...

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

We were searching for the “right” single guy for ages. We have to keep turning messages off for single guys because of the amount of messages.

But we have found a couple of gems that we’ve found, also without previous meets or verifications

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Why do women like you stay here or even join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine trying iron half the faces on here that thinks there a 10, when in the real world you wouldnt give them a second look.

, site does too much for women's egos."

It's great. I look like a mouldy sack of spuds yet still get loads of offers from men with just cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get meets and I’ve made many friends, the dead times are shit but the good times are worth it!

Plus, where else can I find a partner into this lifestyle? "

Best place to look for a swinging partner. Loads of relationships start on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine trying iron half the faces on here that thinks there a 10, when in the real world you wouldnt give them a second look.

, site does too much for women's egos."

Why wouldn’t they be given a second look? Everyone has different tastes

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Same reason men will pay for certain content sites and hang out on media platforms too.

Sexual/graphic content with the added thrill of potential interaction.

It’s just way more exciting and hotter talking to someone real, even if it’s not as graphic/gratuitous. That’s why so many fantasists target swingers.

*that’s straight out of my Hubby’s mouth

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I dunno but I’m glad they do

there are some decent guys who understand the scene and do very well out of it.

I think there are people, as others have said, who are enjoying the fact they can message and see pics without the intention of actually taking that step. They’re fairly easy to spot and avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get a verification was the easiest thing for myself.

I just spoke with a local lady and got to the nearest swinging club.

After some time a friend of mine and I decided to team up and then the party started.

It was much easier to approach ladies and couples.

And we had some good meets but mostly some great meets.

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By *ussy loverABCMan
over a year ago

Congleton

I suppose we can all hope to find that special someone I'm not here to sleep my way through the site. I've written and rewriten my profile more times than I can say. Not a nibble, hey-ho lol

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By *ussy loverABCMan
over a year ago

Congleton

Ouch

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I enjoy it here. If I wasn’t enjoying my time here i would leave

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Been here so long I have no expectations any more, in fact if someone offered a meet I’d probably run a mile.

I find fabs thoroughly entertaining on so many different levels, forums, chatting etc.

Don’t forget there are many women here posting photos who have no intention of meeting. You could ask “why are they here?”

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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago

Manchester

One simple reason for a single guy to stay on fab and log in from time to time to show they’re active: pure randomness. Even before I got verified, I had received a few messages from people potentially interested in meeting with me. These messages were totally free to receive!

As a single guy - even if we know the probabilities of meeting remain extremely low - I’d still keep a profile, craft a nice bio that shows manners and respect and let chance do its job! There’s next to nothing to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an optimist I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it’s near impossible to not get even a social meet on fab if you have decent levels of manners and social skills.

The ones that float about for over a year without a verification are here to masterbate, to fantasies and to be fucking horrible to women in messages.

That’s my 2p, until next time my friends…

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

It's not always about meeting with us sometimes just a chat and some banter so we chat to single guys

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By *ecret_Passion777Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Just wank material really, innit.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I imagine like the rest of us, hope. Fab can be fun, exciting, frustrating and annoying but there is always that little voice saying you can't leave because the next meet or email might be the perfect one

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Some of us actually have fun with this site! It's not as terrible as some guys make it out to be, it all depends how you use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say it’s near impossible to not get even a social meet on fab if you have decent levels of manners and social skills.

The ones that float about for over a year without a verification are here to masterbate, to fantasies and to be fucking horrible to women in messages.

That’s my 2p, until next time my friends…"
This

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

They probably fair even worse in the real world.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I stay because I have alot of friends on here I met in the clubs...however I don't go to the clubs anymore anyway x

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

"One simple reason for a single guy to stay on fab and log in from time to time to show they’re active: pure randomness. Even before I got verified, I had received a few messages from people potentially interested in meeting with me. These messages were totally free to receive!

Manners and respect nailed it right there. We will always give anyone with manners a chat if read profile and are not pushy. Good for you!! Xx

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I meet quite a lot on here, and tinder ... and in pubs ...the divorce rate is circa 50 percent , the country is full of single woman ...fab is hard work, go dancing in Brum and you will meet lots of attractive women...it helps keep fab in perspective...

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Cos they want to

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

As a single guy I stay with fabs because in the meet & events page there maybe a event that I meet the criteria so I can send a message asking if there are any places available.In the past I have received messages from guys looking for guys to take part in a gang bang some are genuine others aren’t.Also can stay in contact with friends.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"I don’t know what the problem is. I’ve never struggled to meet people. "

Meeting people on socials and racking up the numbers and meeting at the business end are different kettles of fish.

It's good that you have a large number of 'nice guy' verifications as I am sure you are a nice guy but if you are genuinely on here for sex, there is some work in the end zone that needs to be done.

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By *urious_CB22Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

There is a large fantasy element to this site, as there is with any regular dating site. We want to believe it could happen, even if it is likely it won't.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"I meet quite a lot on here, and tinder ... and in pubs ...the divorce rate is circa 50 percent , the country is full of single woman ...fab is hard work, go dancing in Brum and you will meet lots of attractive women...it helps keep fab in perspective..."

Agree 100 percent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t speak for men as im not one but as a gay woman who has no Interest in relationships being on here is much better. At least I know as and when I meet women I won’t have to worry that they are catching feelings.

We all signed up for this site for a reason and it wasn’t to find a lifelong partner though some have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's always that chance you'll get a meet

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

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torture

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

It’s not only men, couples do get let down or find it difficult to arrange meets. Sometimes I guess nerves get the better of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

To give more choice for women, couples and other swingers lol

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Maybe we're all secretly massive emotional masochists??

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By *eductiveEncountersWoman
over a year ago

South West

I am really surprised anyone who has not had a meet before is still here if they are looking.

I understand why the ones who message Me aren't getting meets though.The quality of their messages they send are truly awful.

Rude and embarrassing.Most are blocked.

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By *otYourKind666Man
over a year ago

Horsham

Main reason I stay is because this is such a great site. Admittedly there are a lot of people who think their shit doesnt stink on here as well but I've only met very nice folk so far...also I like to put myself in the catergory of not being desperate for pussy so the quiet times are what they are. But as a single guy on here theres just as many fake, blank profiles from women and couples to.....especially couples.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I've never had a meet but I enjoy chatting with people from time to time who have the same interest in sex as me. There are some deeply unpleasant people on here but also some very nice ones. Just be thick skinned about it. If something happens then great, if not then no worries.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Let me know where to go dancing in Brum to meet single women please? Fab is only full of bi/gay men whenever I’m down there….

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Foolish hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where else would you get your cake recommendations?

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"Imagine trying iron half the faces on here that thinks there a 10, when in the real world you wouldnt give them a second look.

, site does too much for women's egos."

Wow, bet your meets are queuing up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is sometimes interesting, sometimes horny, often a good chat. If you don't come in with the expectation of anything in particular it is good fun. I am also around in plenty of other places and out there in the real world..

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By *i in BedfordMan
over a year ago

South east

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Some of us have enjoyed swinging with a partner and are now single but want to still be active in the swinging community. I don't meet but enjoy the forums and chat. When I do find another partner I hope to start meeting again

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By *enis ColadaMan
over a year ago

Totnes

Since I joined,I've had 4 meets(3 played and 1 just met up in a club).2 haven't verified me 2 have,I haven't chased it,maybe I should of.is it a big deal to get verified?

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By *nobMan
over a year ago

newport

So how does a man on here gain success and actually meet someone?

What's the magic formula?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how does a man on here gain success and actually meet someone?

What's the magic formula?"

For the majority have a p

e pic not a lot of close up dick pics and a interesting profile

that just me personally though what we look for

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"So how does a man on here gain success and actually meet someone?

What's the magic formula?"

Patience, patience, patience

And not being a dick.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Just be genuine. Honest, accept rejection and blocks, have a conversation before asking for a fuck right now. Have humour and a brain. Going to clubs to meet people always works, oh and be lean. Can get filthy later haha

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By *ingerbeardman-Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

Cos there's no where else to go

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm here for the boobs

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm here for the boobs

Wait??? What did you say???

There's BOOBS???

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if 90% of men left there would still be too many and it would still be hard to find some one who sexually attracts...

i think most are here for the pics and the site exploded when video were allowed that tells you all you need to know most men are here to wank

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"So how does a man on here gain success and actually meet someone?

What's the magic formula?"

theres no magic formula someone either likes you or they dont sexual attraction and all the stuff after matters after all its a lifestyle not a free shag

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Speaking For myself..

1) A potential to be able have sex with people, strangers, something that is harder in the actual world.

2) sexual liberation

3) interaction with like minded people.

4) I enjoy swinging

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By *un beforeMan
over a year ago

london colney

For that golden chance when you taken seriously , and believed by either a couple or single lady , a bit like life .

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By *un beforeMan
over a year ago

london colney

There isn’t one , once you got passed the fake couples ,. Just be polite and not a pain

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

For the forums

To stay in touch with friends.

To make contact with people I have met at socials and clubs .

To learn about upcoming parties and socials.

To enjoy new photos posted by friends .

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Optimism

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Wish we knew. 99% of single guys who message us can’t read.

Do you explain that they should go to a library?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should question be, why do women stay here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure a lot of women are happy having the comments etc from these "unwanted" men?!

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

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I will still stay on Fab,although it is frustrating when you don't get a meet. I don't give up easily,I am a lot stronger mentally that I have taken myself of to nudist spas and I going to a club so I am not completely relying on Fab.I love women in every way so I don't give up.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Speaking For myself..

1) A potential to be able have sex with people, strangers, something that is harder in the actual world.

2) sexual liberation

3) interaction with like minded people.

4) I enjoy swinging"

I should really add, that swinging also gives me an excuse for a night out

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

Couples meet aha

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Should question be, why do women stay here

The same as single men. Because we want to

If they want to be here for whatever reason they choose then they can be. It’s the joy of Fab.

It’s a bit like The Joy or Painting but with tits and ass

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Well, to be fair.. I'm living my best life now... I've meet some amazing friends, learn new things and seen my confidence grown from what it was year ago.. as the saying goes, live today like there is no tomorrow, because you never know if there will be a tomorrow

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I would say it’s near impossible to not get even a social meet on fab if you have decent levels of manners and social skills.

The ones that float about for over a year without a verification are here to masterbate, to fantasies and to be fucking horrible to women in messages.

That’s my 2p, until next time my friends…"

With respect ,that's insulting to us who havnt been lucky enough to have even a social meet after a year on here ,although we constantly put the effort in . Your view of us who havnt been as fortunate as yourself is horrendous .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should question be, why do women stay here

Very glib but I'll bite, basically the same reason men keep posting....hope, it's very powerful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how does a man on here gain success and actually meet someone?

What's the magic formula?

theres no magic formula someone either likes you or they dont sexual attraction and all the stuff after matters after all its a lifestyle not a free shag"

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I stay here because I like it and I'm the cherry on the top.

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

I get meets but never from FAB.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Wish we knew. 99% of single guys who message us can’t read.

99% do not even take a peak at the profile and rather just send an off the cuff message in the hope it lands a meet.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

Hot pics, forum chat, general perjing and the undying potential of some hot sex.

i am sure those are reason enough

also it took me almost a year before i had a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

I’m here like most looking some fun but as you have stated. Meets are rare. Most sites I have been on are exactly the same tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are all here for different reasons. if you are here to look at pictures and masturbate then crack on.

if you want to meet i have found clubs and socials the most successful strategy.

private mf or mfm meets are more rare but do happen

keep the faith!!

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I stay on here because I've met two lovely couples. It may not seem a lot, but I'm not desperate to meet, and very picky, and those opportunities arose at a time when communicating was clear, we were all free, and eager. If it takes another year to meet another, that's fine.

Judging by the last minute messages I receive on here at midnight it's clear many men have an unrealistic expectation of how people operate, especially couples.

Many who are impatient should try Gr*r.

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By *nobMan
over a year ago

newport

Quite a number of women don't stay on here.

Some are like "yo-yo's" or "boomerangs", keep leaving and coming back when their bored?

As for myself I was hoping for the sympathy vote, nobody likes me.

No, it doesn't work!

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By *orthern BeardMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Been here maybe 8 years and had a good ratio of meets. Some who became regular.

I dip in and out. Often takes it’s toll when you put in the work to get zero responses.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Why am I on here?

Because I have been very successful in the past.

Because I'm looking for someone specific and when it happens, it will happen.

I have no expectations.

I'm not that bothered if I never have another meet. I've done everything previously anyway.

It's a good way to pass the time when I have some to spare.

If and when I meet someone and we really click, I know how good it can be.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Ive met lots of people on here, and gets lots of requests, many I have to turn down, as I don't have time to meet too many people.

I like the forum, and also hoping to meet people who share some of my kinks.

Its just right for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So with everything above, why do men stay here?"

I treat it as porn site really.

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By *ilkyslut4uWoman
over a year ago

" So with everything above, why do men stay here?

I treat it as porn site really. "

As most do now so it's lost its purpose

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't met anyone new in 3 years by choice rather than circumstance.

I have an amazing fwb who is also on here so I'm not missing out on anything.

I stay because it has always been just a hobby for me and I dip in and out when it suits me.

A small part of me also knows that there are certain individuals who don't like what I have to say on here and would be happy to see me leave and I take great satisfaction every time I post.

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By *ensualplay69Man
over a year ago

slough

I find most female's have probably been fucked around so they want people who are verified. Its funny because ive had sex with someone on here but not through this just out one night with a friend and recognised her but my friend already knew her but he knows nothing about this site, i had a few to drink so i started being cheeky saying mmf without my friend knowing what that even means and by the end of the night she took us home with her.

I could easily ask her to verify me but i like the pace im going at, im learning things and im not desperate so when im ready to put more effort in i will

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

" So with everything above, why do men stay here?

I treat it as porn site really.

As most do now so it's lost its purpose

I certainly don't treat it as a porn site. Yes, of course I like the pics and videos and will often fab them but surely that's the reason they are posted. I stay on here in the hope of chatting to like minded individuals and couples. If I want to watch porn the internet is awash with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So with everything above, why do men stay here?

I still get meets but harder than it used to be and less single women reply

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By *aptain19725Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I am hear to be constantly ignored and rejected and being told how to change my profile it does wonders for my ego

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By *ornyltlfkrMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

My therapist suggested that i join to help boost my confidence

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