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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're only looking for straight men they likely won't care what he looks like. So don't worry about what people say.

If you were looking for couples then it would be more fair to have pics of both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're only looking for straight men they likely won't care what he looks like. So don't worry about what people say.

If you were looking for couples then it would be more fair to have pics of both. "

Thanks. Yeah can understand if we were looking for another couple but you’re right never had a single man moan about the lack of hubby pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People still want to see the husband to verify that you’re both for real and both normal looking.

They may not be interested in the hubby sexually, but people still want reassurance that whoever’s watching isn’t odd.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Having looked at a fair few couples' profiles in my time, I can tell you that it's actually pretty normal for most of the pics to be of only the female half. Actually I think that's why some people become especially concerned that there be pictures of the male half.

There are legitimate concerns there, particularly when both parties will be joining in. But with your particular dynamic it makes perfect sense that the pictures be of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People still want to see the husband to verify that you’re both for real and both normal looking.

They may not be interested in the hubby sexually, but people still want reassurance that whoever’s watching isn’t odd."

we have private pics of us both and are both pic and meet verified and always speak before a meet.

But mainly use clubs now for meets.

It’s more from a couples perspective as we have never had any single men asking this.

We are not going to change our profile we are happy with it just asking out of a curiosity if any other couples get this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having looked at a fair few couples' profiles in my time, I can tell you that it's actually pretty normal for most of the pics to be of only the female half. Actually I think that's why some people become especially concerned that there be pictures of the male half.

There are legitimate concerns there, particularly when both parties will be joining in. But with your particular dynamic it makes perfect sense that the pictures be of you."

Thank you for you’re input

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious "

If anybody messages you questioning your profile, ignore them and run your profile how you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious

If anybody messages you questioning your profile, ignore them and run your profile how you want."

thanks we generally do and don’t get offended by it.

Have had much worse messages on here than about our profile as can imagine a lot of people probably have too

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious

If anybody messages you questioning your profile, ignore them and run your profile how you want.

thanks we generally do and don’t get offended by it.

Have had much worse messages on here than about our profile as can imagine a lot of people probably have too "

We've never had such a message, we must be lucky

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As your only looking for men then you don't need pics of the man so totally get it.

It does bug me when couples looking for couples/women don't show the man though.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you have it, with what you're looking for makes perfect sense. And at the end of the day, it's your profile so who cares what they think On our couples profile there's plenty of both of us as we're both looking to get involved together or separately (hence also single profiles). You do you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As your only looking for men then you don't need pics of the man so totally get it.

It does bug me when couples looking for couples/women don't show the man though.

Mrs "

Thanks and can completely understand that. We’d be exactly the same if that was what we were looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The way you have it, with what you're looking for makes perfect sense. And at the end of the day, it's your profile so who cares what they think On our couples profile there's plenty of both of us as we're both looking to get involved together or separately (hence also single profiles). You do you "

Thank you..that makes a lot of sense

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If only you (Mrs) plays ,then I totally get whey there's just pics of you.

It's clear in your profile too.

Mise

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By *inojCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We are exactly the same, in terms of what we are looking for, and express it clearly in our profile but still people questioned if we were a couple.

We've stuck a few token pics of me on there and one of the two of us just to stop it...and it's all quiet now.

I didnt mind as I'm an exhibitionist but it was a bit wierd based on what we were trying to attract.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious "

We get that all the time

So much so that we put some up

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious

We get that all the time

So much so that we put some up

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An attractive couple! x

Frankly OP you do you, so to speak..

You've have put what you are looking for, so their issue!

Only ambiguity is you've stated Mrs is bicurious, not a judgement but it may be confusing some.. x

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious "

As a single man your profile looks and sounds good to me, it's obvious there's a male half to the couple but that the profile is aimed towards your pleasure. Ignore the haters as you'll never please everyone and at the end of the day I can't see you being sort on offers. Stay true to yourself and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious

We get that all the time

So much so that we put some up

An attractive couple! x

Frankly OP you do you, so to speak..

You've have put what you are looking for, so their issue!

Only ambiguity is you've stated Mrs is bicurious, not a judgement but it may be confusing some.. x"

Thank you yeah I have put that into my sexual preference but because that’s how I feel about my sexuality but we aren’t looking for anything more than single guys just now so don’t see why that would be confusing? but again thank you for you’re input appreciated it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey this is a question for other couples who are looking for single males only.

We have had quite a few messages from other couples asking why we don’t have more pics of my husband? and that as a couple it’s only fare we have same amount of both pics up, even though we are not even looking for couples.

We really don’t understand this as it’s clearly put in our profile what we are looking for and my husband only likes to watch/play with me.

Hence the reason why we don’t feel the need to out more pics of him.

Does any other couples that are similar to us get this as-well?

Just looking for thoughts on this as genuinely curious

As a single man your profile looks and sounds good to me, it's obvious there's a male half to the couple but that the profile is aimed towards your pleasure. Ignore the haters as you'll never please everyone and at the end of the day I can't see you being sort on offers. Stay true to yourself and have fun. "
thank you we always do was not out of curiosity than anything

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