FabSwingers.com forum: Are you bi or fab bi ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you feel that magnetic pull towards a woman when you play or even just chat with her ?

I know there are a lot of fab bi women, women who are only doing it for their men but I wonder how many women on here are here to play with women because they genuinely are attracted to women ?

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I’m actually bi and was in a long term relationship with a woman for many years.

Kink (fem)

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Could say same about men, I'm straight but would play with a couple

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

How about preferring to play with Women rather than Men? 100% Bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not actively looking for women on here but have played with a few women outside fab and enjoyed it.

Not sure what that would make me then so say bi curious

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're not actively looking for women as we're here mostly for MMF but I am bi, my preferences lay at 75/25% for women. Are people really just fab-bi? Damn... such a shame

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're not actively looking for women as we're here mostly for MMF but I am bi, my preferences lay at 75/25% for women. Are people really just fab-bi? Damn... such a shame

Mrs"

Yes something I experienced in the last decade of playing is there are quite a lot of fab bi women. I’ve been away for 3 years and now back but having realised I’m gay in that time.

Chemistry is everything when it comes down too it hence the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi, although I'm not attracted to men just sexually a big dick turns me on. I guess it makes me bi.

Women are my preference. God bless Vaginas

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I've always known I was bi, but I've never been someone to just sleep with people for the sake of it so passed up a few opportunities when I was younger. I only had my first fem experience a few months ago and it was every bit as incredible as I'd always imagined!

Xeno

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Ohhh no.

First thoughts of another girl was when I was only 10.

Have always been sexually interested in girls! X

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

My god. We’d wish if more guys were honest. Far too many ‘straight’ guys message us.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L is most definitely bi

Me… not a bi bone in my body.

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By *xfordrobbieMan
over a year ago

oxford

I used to be ‘fab bi’ but now I’m 50/50 guys & women & whilst mmf is my preference I do meet the occasional guy alone which I guess is ‘gay’ not ‘bi’ fun

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By *lirtyfuncplxCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I have always been attracted to other women and had thoughts for a very long time that I was bi. It was only when we joined fab and after a bit of a ‘coming out’ conversation that I began exploring and I realised just how bi I am. Fab has given me the opportunity to explore that side of myself. By no means had lots of experiences but not engaging in bi play just to please the guys -it’s based off attraction and connection.

Beth x

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Had this conversation a few times - For me there has to be chemistry, it is the chemistry that drives it.

I don't look at women like I guess a guy would and think - I want to get between her legs. I don't go out with the girlies and thinking I so want to get in her pants.

Something which develops, where I guess the chemistry come in or one of my favourite films 'Force of nature' Sandra Bullock - oh I digress. yes I would

Another thread talked about energy - think for me there has to be that connection and that shared energy feedback that determines the result the kind of requited energy - the more turned on by me the more I get turned on

Two pet hates in a 3some 4some scenario.

Direction - I fecking know what to do with another woman, I don't need instruction.

Desperate want for the guy to get in on the action - it's between me and her.

Apols for waffling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had this conversation a few times - For me there has to be chemistry, it is the chemistry that drives it.

I don't look at women like I guess a guy would and think - I want to get between her legs. I don't go out with the girlies and thinking I so want to get in her pants.

Something which develops, where I guess the chemistry come in or one of my favourite films 'Force of nature' Sandra Bullock - oh I digress. yes I would

Two pet hates in a 3some 4some scenario.

Direction - I fecking know what to do with another woman, I don't need instruction.

Desperate want for the guy to get in on the action - it's between me and her.

Apols for waffling

For me it’s a magnetic connection, when I’m attracted to a woman it’s like I’m being pulled towards her. As for men, absolutely nothing happens. Not even a twinge

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have always been attracted to other women and had thoughts for a very long time that I was bi. It was only when we joined fab and after a bit of a ‘coming out’ conversation that I began exploring and I realised just how bi I am. Fab has given me the opportunity to explore that side of myself. By no means had lots of experiences but not engaging in bi play just to please the guys -it’s based off attraction and connection.

Beth x"

This is what is so nice about the scene, it gives you the opportunity to explore and work it out with likeminded people so no one feels like they are being played. Where as other sites like the vanilla dating ones you always run the risk of someone feeling like they have been played.

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By *ave0070Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

Me and the wife are both bi but I don't really find men attractive at all but I do enjoy sex with another guy but when I look at a woman that's a totally different story I can be attracted to a woman just by the way that she walks by me sorry if that sounded strange but there you go.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

You're either bi or you're straight. This fab bi is utter bollocks. Own your bi side, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Mrs M (100% straight)

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"You're either bi or you're straight. This fab bi is utter bollocks. Own your bi side, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Mrs M (100% straight)"

Eloquently put. Very true. X

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Oh.,, forgot to add. Me hubby 100% straight. Mrs 100% bi

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"You're either bi or you're straight. This fab bi is utter bollocks. Own your bi side, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Mrs M (100% straight)"

Totally agree with this.

Mrs

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

"Had this conversation a few times - For me there has to be chemistry, it is the chemistry that drives it.

I don't look at women like I guess a guy would and think - I want to get between her legs. I don't go out with the girlies and thinking I so want to get in her pants.

Something which develops, where I guess the chemistry come in or one of my favourite films 'Force of nature' Sandra Bullock - oh I digress. yes I would

Two pet hates in a 3some 4some scenario.

Direction - I fecking know what to do with another woman, I don't need instruction.

Desperate want for the guy to get in on the action - it's between me and her.

Apols for waffling

For me it’s a magnetic connection, when I’m attracted to a woman it’s like I’m being pulled towards her. As for men, absolutely nothing happens. Not even a twinge "

I a way probably say its the same - link or connection. Lets be honest its a wonderful feeling if its reciprocated

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm way mor attracted to women than I am men, however I've only had relationships with men it's just how things happened at the time tbh I'd say I was more pan, I rarely look at someone and think I want them in my bed, I need personality, connection and attraction one without the rest does nothing for me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very bi. I've come across a couple fab bi women, I find the whole situation of women having to do anything to satisfy their partners very sad.

xx Jess

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

"You're either bi or you're straight. This fab bi is utter bollocks. Own your bi side, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Mrs M (100% straight)"

Think women do more readily I think the FAB bi is is really male construct as they find it harder - no pun intended - well may be a little,

to admit a certain rising interest in other guys

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By *ungMarried2020Man
over a year ago

Halifax

If you’re bi, I’m not sure fab bi is a thing. So many “straight” guys message me - totally fine but if you want to suck my cock or to fuck then you’re bi.

Indeed the same applies to women.

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

Absolutely bisexual, I generally find more women attractive. One of my first sexual experiences was with a woman and even when I was married and monogamous I still found women more appealing. I play regularly with 4 women and 2 men. I also like playing in clubs with new women and find that very exciting

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Do you feel that magnetic pull towards a woman when you play or even just chat with her ?

I know there are a lot of fab bi women, women who are only doing it for their men but I wonder how many women on here are here to play with women because they genuinely are attracted to women ?

I’m bi , would rather play with a woman than a guy

My OH actually finds it hotter to see me with a guy but it’s the girl play that really does it for me

Pink

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By *heshladMan
over a year ago

cheshire

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Mrs Cherry doesn't play with women because it doesn't do anything for her, or me. She prefers cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh definitely bi here, that connection and pull could happen with any gender for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't 100% sure when I experimented with a secondary school friend which wasn't anything really, then when I was 16 maybe just turned 17 I had my first abit of proper fun with a bloke then I knew for sure that I was bi, but I didn't openly it until I was 19

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

S definitely eyes up the girls but is yet to go further.

J doesn't really fancy guys at all but gets kinked out at the thought of sharing with S!

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

100% bi. Fab helps me explore

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I'm certainly bi. No question. Also my partner would never expect me do something "to please him" that I wouldn't be happy doing. Sharing each others enjoyment is the main thing for us, and I certainly enjoy sex with other women.

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

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Definitely bi but find it incredibly difficult to explore on here. I think maybe the women I fancy aren't into me. I'm punching above my weight lol

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

For my I’m sexually attracted to women, breasts, pussy is what turns me on. I’m not sexually/emotionally attracted to males, but intrigued to explore and experience sexual aspect.

Yet to experience so in the unknown status where I’m technically straight due to 0 experience but bi-curious…

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