FabSwingers.com forum: Wife doesn’t know

By *heBaldJoiner OP Man
over a year ago

stirling

So,needing some help here,been here a few year now with some fun,,a lot of fun. How do I try to get my mrs into the swinging life? How do I bring it up to her

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Ask her what she thinks about threesomes or moresomes ?

Find a programme about swinging and put in and see what her reaction is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was on one of the other forums asking about how she could get you into it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What's stopping you just talking to her about it? Do you think she'd be upset or angry?

There is honestly only one way to bring this up and that's by talking to her and then listening to what she has to say

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Honesty is right there in your headline OP. If she hasn't been inspired by tales of your exploits so far then its probably not her cup of tea

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The usual reply to these threads is 'show her your profile!'

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It seems like it could possibly be a sticky situation to be honest. If you've been married longer than you've been swinging and your partner hasn't been aware of it, that could lead to a very difficult conversation... Even at that, if you were non-monogamous before you were married but haven't disclosed this to your partner, it could also be challenging.

Alternatively, she might also be more than happy with the entire arrangement.

The only way to find out is open up about it and prepare yourself for whatever may come...

Good luck

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let her know you're asking during our next hook up

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

In my experience, you can't. She has too.

Happy to explain more in dm

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Swinging to me requires trust and communication, you have neither, I wouldn't introduce your wife.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about fantasies etc . Do you watch porn together . Talk about what it be like to go to a club watch what goes on etc. Tell her if you turned on hearing what loves she's had in past

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If you don't know your wife well enough to talk to her about swinging you don't know her well enough to go swinging with her.You don't "get" anyone into swinging. They come to it themselves because they like the idea, or with a partner because both like the idea.80

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve been swinging without her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her the truth. Karen

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just sit down and have an open conversation with her ,see if she'd be interested in going to a club maybe?or if she has any fantasies.

You know your wife better than we do op.

If she's not interested,you should drop it though,it's not for everyone .

Miss

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By *ivingthegoodlifeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Just leave your laptop logged on with your fab page open for her to peruse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve been swinging without her ?"

If he has would maybe leave that bit out

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