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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the more women I speak to on or about this website tell me that the levels of harassment as just beyond description. There is something of an argument where you can say ‘well, what did you expect’ but that isn’t their gripe; it’s the lack of decorum or decency. The ratio of men to women but be absolutely ludicrous on here, god forbid. A former FWB and I had a couples profile and that was absolutely insane in terms of the amount of dick first endeavour we encountered. The problem is, there are a lot of good dudes on here, men who are by their own admission a bit on the filthy side, open minded, etc etc but they can’t get a foot in the door because an intro is impossible the construct because it’ll be in the middle of COCKDICKWANKDICKWANKDICKCOCK: opinions please !

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston

Opinion?

Stop posting "look at me, I'm different" posts in forums to try and get noticed. It's cringeworthy. You're not going to get laid by going on a sex site and "not all men"ing it about the place.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"So the more women I speak to on or about this website tell me that the levels of harassment as just beyond description. There is something of an argument where you can say ‘well, what did you expect’ but that isn’t their gripe; it’s the lack of decorum or decency. The ratio of men to women but be absolutely ludicrous on here, god forbid. A former FWB and I had a couples profile and that was absolutely insane in terms of the amount of dick first endeavour we encountered. The problem is, there are a lot of good dudes on here, men who are by their own admission a bit on the filthy side, open minded, etc etc but they can’t get a foot in the door because an intro is impossible the construct because it’ll be in the middle of COCKDICKWANKDICKWANKDICKCOCK: opinions please !"

Couldn't agree more to be fair.. I've been on here a while I remember when I first joined it was all pretty genuine.. now it's just full of pests that don't get any action and don't have any decor and harass profiles until they are blocked .. and it tarnishes all male profiles as a result

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite"

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different? "

I’m not trying to convince people I’m different, I’m trying to let blokes know, their behaviour is crap.

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different?

I’m not trying to convince people I’m different, I’m trying to let blokes know, their behaviour is crap. "

Yeah... because those guys are going to be taking a break from that to come in here and read this and stop, look to the heavens and be cured of whatever disposition it is that makes them send whatever it is they send...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different?

I’m not trying to convince people I’m different, I’m trying to let blokes know, their behaviour is crap.

Yeah... because those guys are going to be taking a break from that to come in here and read this and stop, look to the heavens and be cured of whatever disposition it is that makes them send whatever it is they send...

"

Alright, you’re spot on, leave it unacknowledged. Don’t challenge other blokes when they’re out of order. That’s always been a healthy attitude

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different?

I’m not trying to convince people I’m different, I’m trying to let blokes know, their behaviour is crap.

Yeah... because those guys are going to be taking a break from that to come in here and read this and stop, look to the heavens and be cured of whatever disposition it is that makes them send whatever it is they send...

Alright, you’re spot on, leave it unacknowledged. Don’t challenge other blokes when they’re out of order. That’s always been a healthy attitude "

Ahhh that old chestnut. So because I don't agree with your game here you assume I agree with shitcunt behaviour?

Nope. Not one bit. But at least with a cock pick and the offer of a fuck you know where you stand, unlike the intentions of the man who plays white Knight to get a foot in the door. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different?

I’m not trying to convince people I’m different, I’m trying to let blokes know, their behaviour is crap.

Yeah... because those guys are going to be taking a break from that to come in here and read this and stop, look to the heavens and be cured of whatever disposition it is that makes them send whatever it is they send...

Alright, you’re spot on, leave it unacknowledged. Don’t challenge other blokes when they’re out of order. That’s always been a healthy attitude

Ahhh that old chestnut. So because I don't agree with your game here you assume I agree with shitcunt behaviour?

Nope. Not one bit. But at least with a cock pick and the offer of a fuck you know where you stand, unlike the intentions of the man who plays white Knight to get a foot in the door. Lol.

"

I’m not playing a game you big geek haha

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different?

I’m not trying to convince people I’m different, I’m trying to let blokes know, their behaviour is crap.

Yeah... because those guys are going to be taking a break from that to come in here and read this and stop, look to the heavens and be cured of whatever disposition it is that makes them send whatever it is they send...

Alright, you’re spot on, leave it unacknowledged. Don’t challenge other blokes when they’re out of order. That’s always been a healthy attitude

Ahhh that old chestnut. So because I don't agree with your game here you assume I agree with shitcunt behaviour?

Nope. Not one bit. But at least with a cock pick and the offer of a fuck you know where you stand, unlike the intentions of the man who plays white Knight to get a foot in the door. Lol.

I’m not playing a game you big geek haha "

Just trying to discredit me with name calling?

You're not very good at this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different?

I’m not trying to convince people I’m different, I’m trying to let blokes know, their behaviour is crap.

Yeah... because those guys are going to be taking a break from that to come in here and read this and stop, look to the heavens and be cured of whatever disposition it is that makes them send whatever it is they send...

Alright, you’re spot on, leave it unacknowledged. Don’t challenge other blokes when they’re out of order. That’s always been a healthy attitude

Ahhh that old chestnut. So because I don't agree with your game here you assume I agree with shitcunt behaviour?

Nope. Not one bit. But at least with a cock pick and the offer of a fuck you know where you stand, unlike the intentions of the man who plays white Knight to get a foot in the door. Lol.

I’m not playing a game you big geek haha

Just trying to discredit me with name calling?

You're not very good at this. "

Your argument is absolutely atrocious! You’re backing my point up with every response!

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston


"Mate

Ahhh that old chestnut. So because I don't agree with your game here you assume I agree with shitcunt behaviour?

Nope. Not one bit. But at least with a cock pick and the offer of a fuck you know where you stand, unlike the intentions of the man who plays white Knight to get a foot in the door. Lol.

I’m not playing a game you big geek haha

Just trying to discredit me with name calling?

You're not very good at this.

Your argument is absolutely atrocious! You’re backing my point up with every response! "

I haven't made an argument, I've made an observation. "I can meet women just by leaving the house", yet here you are, simping on a forum with a profile that basically reads "anything I can get will do, and if it helps get me across the line I've got a FWB to sweeten the deal".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mate

Ahhh that old chestnut. So because I don't agree with your game here you assume I agree with shitcunt behaviour?

Nope. Not one bit. But at least with a cock pick and the offer of a fuck you know where you stand, unlike the intentions of the man who plays white Knight to get a foot in the door. Lol.

I’m not playing a game you big geek haha

Just trying to discredit me with name calling?

You're not very good at this.

Your argument is absolutely atrocious! You’re backing my point up with every response!

I haven't made an argument, I've made an observation. "I can meet women just by leaving the house", yet here you are, simping on a forum with a profile that basically reads "anything I can get will do, and if it helps get me across the line I've got a FWB to sweeten the deal".

"

I haven’t even looked at your profile. I’m not trying to sell myself. I’m basing it on my interactions and anecdotal observations. Enjoying online interaction isn't a bad thing. Apologists for crap blokes are crap blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate, I can leave the house and meet women, I’m not a nerd. I dread to think of being at a point where I’m on here being that guy. It doesn’t mean I can’t point out the fact it’s shit not being able to speak to people with any depth because you’re swimming in a pool of shite

But by creating this thread you have become "that guy". It's common knowledge that the majority of blokes on here have no respect for anybody at all, so it there really a need for a single man to clog up more forum space in a bid to convince people that they're different? "

What subjects are people allowed to post about then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"**So the more women I speak to on or about this website tell me that the levels of harassment as just beyond description. There is something of an argument where you can say ‘well, what did you expect’ but that isn’t their gripe; it’s the lack of decorum or decency. The ratio of men to women but be absolutely ludicrous on here, god forbid. A former FWB and I had a couples profile and that was absolutely insane in terms of the amount of dick first endeavour we encountered. The problem is, there are a lot of good dudes on here, men who are by their own admission a bit on the filthy side, open minded, etc etc but they can’t get a foot in the door because an intro is impossible the construct because it’ll be in the middle of COCKDICKWANKDICKWANKDICKCOCK: opinions please !**

Couldn't agree more to be fair.. I've been on here a while I remember when I first joined it was all pretty genuine.. now it's just full of pests that don't get any action and don't have any decor and harass profiles until they are blocked .. and it tarnishes all male profiles as a result "

Also OP**

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I think both the guys having a discussion on here are making good points. I’d almost say they were violently agreeing with each other! I enjoy chatting on here without being an arse, I do have a dick pic on my profile but I’m not using it to other than to indicate a certain degree of willingness! This is a sex site after all.

My one mantra is to never insult anyone on here, why bother?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think the guys being in the majority makes the poor behaviour much more noticeable, it's rife among women and couples too.

I've found more women don't take a no thank you well than men they generally accept it, although the 1st messages are much worse from the men.

(In our experience)

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DM for dick pics

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

OP .. you seem to be saying dont treat women like garbage.. treat them like sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a genuine couple looking to meet a single "Long Term" local buddy, we are appalled at the responses by 99% of the males.

Most do not bother to read a profile, most want a shag and they want it NOW! Most do not care what they shag and do not have any standards!

Worst of all, they do not seem to expect us to have any standards either!

We stay here in the hope of finding that one person who might be what we are looking for!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Opinion?

Stop posting "look at me, I'm different" posts in forums to try and get noticed. It's cringeworthy. You're not going to get laid by going on a sex site and "not all men"ing it about the place. "

Bloody hell who stole your biscuit?? I believe the op was merely trying to make a point about a few cockwombles spoiling it for most decent guys

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never found it difficult to have a conversation on here. I don't worry about how others behave and I stand out from the crowd by not trying to stand out from the crowd.

Virtue signalling isn't an attractive feature either.

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