FabSwingers.com forum: Attached men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are women interested in attached men even if they have full permission to play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most of them

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

Not really for us. How do you know they have permission, do they bring a note with them? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No from us ...

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't believe a single guy who said he had permission to play.

And I'd have no desire for him to prove it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really for us. How do you know they have permission, do they bring a note with them? Lol

HW"

Same goes for the many women they claim they have. I am sure they car a Laminated Certificate in the Handbag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As you are a couple, with a couples account we would prefer to play as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Be prepared to prove it with a phone call though.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Verifying my partner’s approval is always something I try to do however the other person wants it done. Then again if I was doing it behind my partners back I would just say I’m single. I don’t think there is any need to lie in this lifestyle but understand some do and ruin it for the genuine ones.

As for playing with couples I do prefer to play as a couple but some only want a man to satisfy hot wife demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For purposes of hotwife, attached men meeting other couples makes sense or where there has been a specific ask for an attached man. As a single lady, i wouldn't meet an attached man, there are enough actual single guys on here. I do think honesty is key.

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

From a couples perspective attached/married guys are usually easier. They dont usually get clingy in fact its usually the exact opposite which suits us perfectly. We usually presume most 'single' guys have a partner anyway.

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By *ubyMoonWoman
over a year ago

Newport, Isle of Wight

If he says he's got permission I'm okay with it, it's not my fault if he's lying. I've seen guys on here who fully admit to not having permission though and that's a no from me, its a red flag that makes me worry he wouldn't be respectful in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because he and his partner would discuss our meet and I'm not into that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because he and his partner would discuss our meet and I'm not into that. "

This!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"From a couples perspective attached/married guys are usually easier. They dont usually get clingy in fact its usually the exact opposite which suits us perfectly. We usually presume most 'single' guys have a partner anyway."

I think often attached guys who play with permissions especially see this as a disadvantage. As you point out above to many couples and attached singles within a relationship with permission this is actually an attractive feature. Simply because from the attached singles perspective they understand the dynamic and nuances of how it is for couples and other attached singles. Likewise I would say it's also a preference for other attached single ladies or FAB couples who are playing without permission from their respective partner/s (of which we've bumped into a fair few over the years in clubs).

As for true Single females I think being attached with or without permission is a harder sell. I think many single ladies want a true single male. Even if attached with permission I think for many single females they just don't want to borrow another woman's toy. Often (although no strings) they like the feeling that for that moment you are exclusively theirs, not something borrowed.

However I think for a lot of attached with permission guys the main cause of their frustration is just not understanding the realities of being a single male on the scene. Unlike myself many have not done this game as a single. I would suggest most of their woes are more related to how difficult it is in general as a single male and how they sell themselves than it is to do with if or if not people want attached single males. To some extent I'd say the same for those males on here playing away but I think the cheating does act more as a barrier than it does opening doors.

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By *aughtyPuppyMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

I think honesty is quite a big thing in this scenario. I genuinely have permission to play solo as my wife and I both have single profiles as well as a couples profile. But I'm also happy to share our profiles with people after chatting for a bit and happy to let playmates confirm with my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because he and his partner would discuss our meet and I'm not into that. "

That's what totally turns me off to the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer attached men

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Yes, most of them "

Whilst some are happy to, I dont think "most" of them are

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

If they have a couples account and respective singles accounts we might be inclined to go for it x

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman
over a year ago

fun town

I prefer meeting attached guys far less complicated X

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

As long as it can be confirmed she's happy for him to meet.

We both have individual profiles and I've happily spoken to women and couples in the past,so they know it's all above board.

I don't just take a word for it though ,sadly seen many claim their partner is aware when she's clearly not.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer meeting attached guys far less complicated X"

Until their wife finds out or feelings start to get involved

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Some are, some aren’t. I’m an aren’t as a general rule unless I actually know both people well.

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