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Sex appeal. Is it quantifiable?

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By *houtycat OP   Couple
over a year ago

Henley

How can we explain someone or a couple that society implies is sexy but in real terms is a bit meh!?

When there are those who may not turn heads but have a twinkle in their eye that make us go weak at the knees x

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

I'd rather the twinkle if I'm honest.

If someone is hot and they know it it's kind of a turn off.

Sense of humour over look anyday

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's all subjective. You could quantify via beauty standards and popular recognition, but it doesn't really mean anything when everyone perceives differently.

The people I see and immediately want don't have that effect on everyone. And the people famously hot don't necessarily inspire any lust in me.

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By *roublemakers!Couple
over a year ago

Folkestone, Kent UK

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

There is a basic level of attraction from ones appearance.

What's much harder to quantify is that tinkle you get when you chat to folks in a club... Where the conversation just works and you respond to the connection. That's much more complex and deep

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd rather the twinkle if I'm honest.

If someone is hot and they know it it's kind of a turn off.

Sense of humour over look anyday "

Exactly this.

Give me great personality and humor any day, that generally makes someone attractive to me.

I can't get attracted to people without getting to know them a bit 1st.

Mrs

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No it can’t be as it would need to be an absolute to be quantifiable. As others have said, sex appeal is subjective, and as the saying goes, “there’s someone out there for everyone”. It’s finding them that is the difficult part.

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