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By *andACouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nrwcastle

Planning on a first club visit out of our area. What actually do you wear to go? Looking for MMF but there’s a few horror stories we have seen about nights allowing single men

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It terms of what to wear that really depends on the club you plan to visit (different clubs have different dress codes). If you don't wish to name the club you're visiting on here go check out the club website. Any good club website with have details on dress code (as well as lots of other useful information). Often it's found in the Q&A section.

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By *andACouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nrwcastle

Thank you, we haven’t fully decided yet, it will either be Afterdark in Edinburgh or CJs

At Townhouse Glasgow depending on where we end up for a weekend

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Check to see if the club has a theme night the night you’re going!

Other that that if the club isn’t immediately dress down try smart sexy to start with then something that you feel good in for dress down kitty likes to wear a sheer robe over the top of her dress down for more coverage!

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By *andACouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nrwcastle

Sorry to be anal about this, just first time queries……dress down is underwear ? May be a stupid question !

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"Sorry to be anal about this, just first time queries……dress down is underwear ? May be a stupid question ! "

Yep dress down is into underwear / lingerie.

Check out the club website to see what their particular take on dress down. Usual variations are dress down on arrival, at a certain time or when you go to the play areas but each club is slightly different.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Penthouse Playrooms is our favourite club. Smart and sexy wear is appreciated but the only dress code is don’t wear tatty clothing essentially. Be respectful, hygienic etc.

There’s no dress down time which we like because dress down rules force people who aren’t comfortable with that to show more than they might want.

If there’s a room full of models, sometimes you just want to stay the way you dressed to start with and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Don’t wear what you’re uncomfortable with, wear what you are but all clubs will have dress code listed on websites so I’m sure you’ll have a great time whatever happens.

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By *andACouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nrwcastle

Thanks all and is that for the man aswell……I might have to up my underwear game

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Dress down for men is mostly just underwear although at Townhouse the other night some guys were wearing some interesting attire

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"Thanks all and is that for the man aswell……I might have to up my underwear game "

Men usually just some boxers.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Wear something you feel confident in. I have issues with my stomach and try to wear something that covers it a bit but no issues with other parts of me being on show so pick lingerie that hides it and then I'm happy to strip off in a club. Also we tried a dress down club ourselves for the first time recently where it was towel/boxers for the men. R was nervous but in a way it was easier than when we went to a non dress down club as everyone was down to underwear rather than some who were and some who were fully dressed. As others have said, theme nights are good too as having a bit of a costume is a good ice breaker for chatting to people.

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By *andACouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nrwcastle

Cheers everyone appreciated

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Ignore the horror stories- over 8 years of clubbing monthly and only play with single men

Read the rules of the event you plan to go to and of the club you pick.

Some will be dress down on arrival and others won’t.

Dress down = lingerie, underwear

Some clubs dress down allows for dresses and boxers.

Contact the host of the event you’re going to and they will advise of the usual dress code.

Everyone’s super friendly, you’ll be hooked in no time!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Planning on a first club visit out of our area. What actually do you wear to go? Looking for MMF but there’s a few horror stories we have seen about nights allowing single men "

Don't worry too much about what you've read or heard. You could hear horror stories about many things and places in life. Unfortunately there are a small percentage of people (women as well as men) whose behaviour is inappropriate, including touching without permission, you'll find most people do behave well though. We would advise you stick together in the club, even wait outside the toilet for each other. The more you go the more experienced you'll get and hopefully have lots of great fun.

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By *andACouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nrwcastle

Thanks again all ??

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Go and enjoy your night, don’t go with expectations and you’ll be fine. Don’t be scared of saying no, if it’s not respected tell the club staff. They’ll deal with it quickly.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

You’ve got to be direct with the single men, don’t be shy, be firm and clear - NO, thank you. There’s a bit of an expectation in certain rooms - a newbie couple came out of the cinema room in AdFabs quite shocked, guys had followed them in swarming around them, cocks out and wanking closely without any invitation, I explained that is pretty much the type of thing that goes on - similarly an open orgy room or playing in a room with the door open, there will be a gathering of single men. Some women and couples like that attention and have experience in controlling the situation but I suggest just approaching men you like in the bar or social areas and just ask if they’d like to come and play and then head to a private room

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