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FAB- sex site or dating site

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By *arpus67 OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham burgh le Marsh

In your opinion is Fab a dating site or a sex site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its both and neither. The site is what ever the user wants it to be. Some on here have no plan to ever meet or date they just want to talk and indulged in fantasy, some meet for sex and if something develops then great. It is down to the site user. Whats your opinion OP?

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By *arpus67 OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham burgh le Marsh

I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site

Must be me being old fashioned

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd say it's a swingers site some people like dates, some like a quick fuck and go, some do look for long term partners and some have succeeded in that.

I guess it's whatever you want it to be to fit what your looking for.

Mrs

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Sex site but some people do hook up whilst living within the lifestyle.

Unfortunately most men just see fab as a chuck their muck site and that’s not what it’s about really.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I met my ex on fab, it is what you make of it. For half the men on here it isn’t even a hook up site

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By *arpus67 OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham burgh le Marsh

Interesting view point from the ladies side of FAB

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Its a swingers site and as such can be used how you want to use it and for singles looking for a partner it's the ideal place to find like minded people.

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By *ffortthatchickWoman
over a year ago

HEATHFIELD

It does exactly what you want it too, although I wouldn't call it a dating site. The honesty on Fab (in most cases) is quite refreshing

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Clues in the name!

It’s a swingers site. However I’ve never seen that term described successfully so there lies the problem.

Being how the sure rules work, it attracts a variety of people using it in whatever way they want.

Some people just wanna be exhibitionists with their pics, others just want to look at the pics. Some people wanna arrange quick one time meets. Others want to use it for dating.

There’s no one answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like Amazon, just without the next day Prime delivery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I am looking to date

Sometimes I am looking for sex

Sometimes I just want to talk to people

Sometimes I just want to show off pictures

See it’s a what ever you want it to be site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I am looking to date

Sometimes I am looking for sex

Sometimes I just want to talk to people

Sometimes I just want to show off pictures

See it’s a what ever you want it to be site "

Exactly this

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I am looking to date

Sometimes I am looking for sex

Sometimes I just want to talk to people

Sometimes I just want to show off pictures

See it’s a what ever you want it to be site "

100% nailed it

Having been on here 10 years tho I do feel what Fab was then is now a much watered down version of what it was

Not so much swinging but an extension more to Tinder for most

So many fake accounts too

That’s why we like clubs for meeting and fab for staying in touch

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site

Must be me being old fashioned "

Spent 23 years with an awful cruel man I met the ‘old fashioned’ way. Worst sex life ever

Met my best friend and life long partner through swinging 8 years ago. Best sex life ever

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By *omoxfordMan
over a year ago

leeds

I ve been on here quite a while now hoping to find a regular fwb but struggling to even arrange a social meet.

It's more a fantasy for me I like to read stories an fantasies section

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site

Must be me being old fashioned "

Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.

I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.

I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I am looking to date

Sometimes I am looking for sex

Sometimes I just want to talk to people

Sometimes I just want to show off pictures

See it’s a what ever you want it to be site

Exactly this "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I am looking to date

Sometimes I am looking for sex

Sometimes I just want to talk to people

Sometimes I just want to show off pictures

See it’s a what ever you want it to be site

100% nailed it

Having been on here 10 years tho I do feel what Fab was then is now a much watered down version of what it was

Not so much swinging but an extension more to Tinder for most

So many fake accounts too

That’s why we like clubs for meeting and fab for staying in touch

"

Thanks and yes the land scape is a little different now than it was back then 13 years on and off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I am looking to date

Sometimes I am looking for sex

Sometimes I just want to talk to people

Sometimes I just want to show off pictures

See it’s a what ever you want it to be site

Exactly this

Thanks "

Spot on

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"In your opinion is Fab a dating site or a sex site ?"

It is neither - it is a swinging site.

I respect those who want to date but they are missing the point. Those who think it is just about sex are also missing the point.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site

Must be me being old fashioned

Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.

I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.

I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards. "

This is very true

No set rules where or when you can fall in love

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

I’d presume from the title it’s a swinging site thats Fab……

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site

Must be me being old fashioned

Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.

I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.

I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards.

This is very true

No set rules where or when you can fall in love "

There’s several couples who’ve met on here isn’t there…..

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By *allguynowMan
over a year ago

durham

When I was single I had no luck at all from this site. People not turning up, people chatting then disappearing, dealing with idiots and time wasters. I can honestly say I had lots of good experiences and fun from a couple of vanilla dating sites. As a result now with a lady who shares my interests.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site

Must be me being old fashioned

Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.

I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.

I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards.

This is very true

No set rules where or when you can fall in love

There’s several couples who’ve met on here isn’t there….."

There is indeed , we know loads of couples that met on here or in the scene and their relationships rock solid

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

For me it’s a sex site.

But as long as people are clear their intentions with the people they talk too and meet then they are free to use it however they wish

Can’t help where you meet people if you fall for them.

I “vanilla” date as I don’t wish to swing in a relationship but have dated from here too.

As long as everyone’s honest

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Its both and neither. The site is what ever the user wants it to be. Some on here have no plan to ever meet or date they just want to talk and indulged in fantasy, some meet for sex and if something develops then great. It is down to the site user. Whats your opinion OP? "

This!

And it's supposed to be a swingers site - for people who enjoy non-monogamy. Not just a quick "any hole is a goal" hook up site or a "sex chat" site, but also not another Match. However, people use it in so many different ways, and if you find the right person/people, it can be a match made in heaven. I met my partner on here, at the time when I was at my lowest, and we are still together nearly 5 years on. We have an open relationship and that works well for both of us.

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It's a site where you can take what you need,say things you wouldn't say in the outside world and open up your sexual self if that makes any sense Xx

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Its both and neither. The site is what ever the user wants it to be. Some on here have no plan to ever meet or date they just want to talk and indulged in fantasy, some meet for sex and if something develops then great. It is down to the site user. Whats your opinion OP? "

Very reasoned and sensible comments!

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

It’s a site for both really however people seem to get annoyed when you say no and you get back “you shouldn’t be on a sex sore then” just because people are on here doesn’t mean they want to do anything with you

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Personal choice X

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site

Must be me being old fashioned "

Double standards on your part I expect.

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It’s a swingers site. What that means to different individuals or couples may be as many things as there are people. It’s whatever you want it to be really.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Its a swinging site ,but used by different people for different things.

Some see it as a sex site,others use it for socials and the forum and then you get people who use fab to meet partners

As long as people are upfront about their intentions,it can be whatever they want it to be.

Miss

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