FabSwingers.com forum: Couples safe sex

By *ubandsub OP Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Is it just us who get turned down for wanting safe sex? Why do couples think that having sex with couples only will lesson the risk of std's. We are tested regularly but still are suprised by the amount of people who dont want to meet because we want protected sex?

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over a year ago

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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

I can't say safe sex turns me on but I wouldn't do it any other way unless it was with a long term partner.

Strangely enough there appears to be more and more unprotected pictures in the gallery and video section but hey ho, everyone has different preferences.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

"Is it just us who get turned down for wanting safe sex? Why do couples think that having sex with couples only will lesson the risk of std's. We are tested regularly but still are suprised by the amount of people who dont want to meet because we want protected sex? "

Has to be safe all the way, play safe is still super sexy but safety would always come first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do couples think that having sex with couples only will lesson the risk of std's. "

Who says that is what couples think?

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Nope we get turned down all the time because we only play safe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Never been turned down because for it but have been asked once we get to the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other side, I would turn down anyone who doesn't play safe all the time. Just not worth the risk, even if they say they'll use condoms with me. And even though I only play safe I still get tested regularly.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Never been turned down for playing safe (including for oral!).

Always turn down people looking for bareback sex. And straight delete for single male profiles with loads of bareback pics,

I’d rather be turned down and happy with my choices though so don’t feel pressured to change x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally happened tonight. Actually got ‘lol’ in reply when I said no to the bareback question. What happened to everyone having a choice? I’d rather be safe everytime.

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Just to ask

How many perform oral without a condom without question???

And if the guy or girl said oh I’ve been tested and I’ve got an std , would you say oh it’s ok for oral , but just bung a rubber on for sex ????

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Just to ask

How many perform oral without a condom without question???

And if the guy or girl said oh I’ve been tested and I’ve got an std , would you say oh it’s ok for oral , but just bung a rubber on for sex ????"

I only play safe for oral and sex.

Never had an issue on private meets or clubs x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Just to ask

How many perform oral without a condom without question???

And if the guy or girl said oh I’ve been tested and I’ve got an std , would you say oh it’s ok for oral , but just bung a rubber on for sex ????"

Most swingers do oral without condoms. At a guess everyone would say no to having fun if they knew someone had an std.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been blocked numerous times for only having safe sex.

Which is probably a blessing.

Mrs C

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Never been turned down because for it but have been asked once we get to the meet"

Same ,we met a couple in a club and they tried for bare sex

We didn't ,if they'd do it with us ,there's a good chance they'd do it with other meets too.

It was never mentioned in our chatting either.

Miss

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By *zBoy123Man
over a year ago

London.

Always, better to be Safe, than Sorry.

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