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"It goes both ways. Everyone has their reasons for the pictures they post" You have some very artistic pictures, very nice both of you are in them. | |||
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"(Mr) I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop. Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though?" We tried both. But recently put a picture up of the missus on her own and the amount of single males just addressing her was pretty hilarious. Us men are in the background are waving like hello there, I’m the cock block | |||
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"We have pictures of us both, but we tend to find that it’s pictures of Dee that perk most interest !" She is a very attractive lady ?? | |||
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"We have pictures of us both, but we tend to find that it’s pictures of Dee that perk most interest ! She is a very attractive lady ?? " Thank you for saying so ! | |||
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"We tested putting a single pic of me up (mr) very little response but then but a single of T and it went mental. I understand I'm punching and I'm happy living that life." You have some great pictures on your profile. | |||
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"If it is a couple you are looking to meet both so both should have pictures" That word "should" again. The only "should" is that you should show the photos that work best for you. That some people don't like your choice is immaterial. | |||
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"If it is a couple you are looking to meet both so both should have pictures That word "should" again. The only "should" is that you should show the photos that work best for you. That some people don't like your choice is immaterial. " Oh. & this | |||
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"We have a few of MrB , it’s a couples profile and we are looking for couples , only right to show both of us ." | |||
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"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway. " We discovered pretty quickly that if there's no pictures of the man but they said they wanted full swap, he wasn't interested and was either going along with it for his partners sake or just wanted to watch his partner with another man and or woman. After a couple of very depressing encounters where this quickly became obvious we use it as a clumsy filter. It might mean we miss some really great people but so be it. | |||
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"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway. " Lol. Men unless they are gym fit ripped are unglamorous , especially Asians. | |||
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"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway. Lol. Men unless they are gym fit ripped are unglamorous , especially Asians. " Respectfully what's the significance of glamour to the women you hope to meet? | |||
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules. Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? " I think nobody here go on blind dates. Before you could plan a social meet, I am sure you swap face pics and then decide. | |||
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules. Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? I think nobody here go on blind dates. Before you could plan a social meet, I am sure you swap face pics and then decide. " We do meet socially and swap face pictures but if I can't see the guy on the profile we don't even interact with them. As I said earlier we've had too many experiences where it turns out he's not interested | |||
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" We do meet socially and swap face pictures but if I can't the guy we don't even interact with the profile. As I said earlier we've had too many experiences where it turns out he's not interested " Lucky you , we hardly get any female half of a cpl chatting to us and planning meets. Most of the time is the male chatting, which is not an issue at all. | |||
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules. Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? " | |||
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"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway. Lol. Men unless they are gym fit ripped are unglamorous , especially Asians. " In your opinion. I'm not into gym fit ripped men at all, no matter who they are. | |||
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules. Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? " I'm totally with you on this, and trying to get a photo via message is usually useless too so we just pass any of those profiles. I'm not into blind date. Mrs | |||
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" We do meet socially and swap face pictures but if I can't the guy we don't even interact with the profile. As I said earlier we've had too many experiences where it turns out he's not interested Lucky you , we hardly get any female half of a cpl chatting to us and planning meets. Most of the time is the male chatting, which is not an issue at all. " It's most often me typing messages but Mr N reads them all and has equal input. We're looking for couple's whose dynamic matches ours i.e. they're both in it for the same reasons. If a couples dynamic is that the male doesn't want to show what he looks like on the profile we respect that and wish them well but we're not compatible. | |||
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"(Mr) I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop. Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though?" Against as I'm bi | |||
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules. Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? I'm totally with you on this, and trying to get a photo via message is usually useless too so we just pass any of those profiles. I'm not into blind date. Mrs " We did try asking for photos via message. Some outright refused, some sent a very blurry shot which could have been anybody and some sent a penis, which again could have been anybody | |||
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"I like to see both if they are both meeting, I generally won't reply to ones I can't see the man. Mrs " Same for us too! We want to see what both look like. J x | |||
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"(Mr) I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop. Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though? Your profile says that Mr is bisexual and Miss is bicurious so why do you need pictures of both for both of you to be able to perv? Mr is bi sexual so will be happy perving at pictures of men or women and Miss is bicurious so will be happy perving at pictures of men and at the very least curious about pictures of women. So therefore either the sexual orientations stated on your profile aren’t accurate or the comment about pictures of both being best isn’t accurate " It's not about us, we wonder why some people only post pics of the missus when it's as likely a couple (regardless of orientation) might like to see both of you. | |||
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"It goes both ways. Everyone has their reasons for the pictures they post" Just this x | |||
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"Just to clarify, I'm not saying people *must* post pics of both, but trying to gauge the respective motivations for doing or not doing so. We're not blind, if we post a picture of him only it gets a couple of Fabs, if we post a picture of just her it gets 10 times more minimum. But our motivation is to be transparent, those who take an instant dislike to either of us makes things a lot easier." Men Fab pics a lot more than women do, hence the difference. If I Fab a pic I'll often get a message saying some shite like "you fancy me? Let's fuck!" But I just liked the pic.. | |||
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"Just to clarify, I'm not saying people *must* post pics of both, but trying to gauge the respective motivations for doing or not doing so. We're not blind, if we post a picture of him only it gets a couple of Fabs, if we post a picture of just her it gets 10 times more minimum. But our motivation is to be transparent, those who take an instant dislike to either of us makes things a lot easier. Men Fab pics a lot more than women do, hence the difference. If I Fab a pic I'll often get a message saying some shite like "you fancy me? Let's fuck!" But I just liked the pic.. " It's *almost* like they haven't read your profile and haven't picked up on the subtle hint of your orientation | |||
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"Just to clarify, I'm not saying people *must* post pics of both, but trying to gauge the respective motivations for doing or not doing so. We're not blind, if we post a picture of him only it gets a couple of Fabs, if we post a picture of just her it gets 10 times more minimum. But our motivation is to be transparent, those who take an instant dislike to either of us makes things a lot easier. Men Fab pics a lot more than women do, hence the difference. If I Fab a pic I'll often get a message saying some shite like "you fancy me? Let's fuck!" But I just liked the pic.. It's *almost* like they haven't read your profile and haven't picked up on the subtle hint of your orientation " They can't wank over my profile pic and read at the same time. | |||
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"Which is great because you are so good to look at " Perv lol | |||
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"Which is great because you are so good to look at Perv lol" Speaks the truth though, it's a real pleasure x | |||
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"I'd say we taste better than we look " You can't just out and say stuff like that, have to prove it now | |||
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"I'd say we taste better than we look You can't just out and say stuff like that, have to prove it now " Unfortunately we are like those little bits of naughty food they give away to try.... can only have a taster but leaves you wanting more :p haha | |||
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"Both of us are on there as we come as a pair. Yeah we know most just want to see her but at least he gets a few token loves! " They aren't token, he's really nice x | |||
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"Both of us are on there as we come as a pair. Yeah we know most just want to see her but at least he gets a few token loves! They aren't token, he's really nice x" Awwwww thank you! I think so too but most, even couples, just seem to want to check the girls out but he's a big boy and isn't going to worry lol | |||
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"I think it's because we all realize there's a lot of picture thieves on this site so that's quite understandable" That’s why we watermark our pics | |||
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"Especially low life guys post another man's photos on gay & bi sites because they're cowards about the way they truly look" They'll never meet anyone or if they do realise it's fake. It's a zero sum game. | |||
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"(Mr) I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop. Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though?" personally we wouldnt meet a couple where we can see both partners, there has to be an attraction | |||
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"We decided upon joining up that we'd have a fairly nice balance of us both in our gallery, some solo, some together, plus faces on display....it stands to reason that if we're trying to attract guys and girls then it's only fair that we display what's on offer " You have some truly beautiful pictures of you both together, the one of you climbing up him in b&w should be a big box-canvas wall art piece x | |||
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"Remember tho' that someone has to take the photos. Ours try to include all involved and some may have been taken by a third/fourth party." In the absence of a 3rd party, a good posable tripod is your best friend | |||
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