FabSwingers.com forum: NSA sex

By *agertoplease1993 OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

Never been successful on here but recently been talking to a woman. She came round. But this one is probably strange to most? Coming from a guys perspective anyway. She wanted sex like pretty much within 10 minute but I told her i can't do it, I need to get to know someone a little. Even if it's one meet and then the next time we fuck. Does anyone else feel this way? Like I don't know how you can fuck someone you've never met before. Like don't you have to build up some kind of chemistry? Not even for a relationship kind of thing. I've had one off sex experiences but it's always with people I've met at least once before. It's different if you meet them in a club then take them home you've somewhat been interacting with them before hand. But to go from messaging online, turn up then fuck I mean I dunno. Just wondering if my boundaries need bringing down a little

By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

"Never been successful on here but recently been talking to a woman. She came round. But this one is probably strange to most? Coming from a guys perspective anyway. She wanted sex like pretty much within 10 minute but I told her i can't do it, I need to get to know someone a little. Even if it's one meet and then the next time we fuck. Does anyone else feel this way? Like I don't know how you can fuck someone you've never met before. Like don't you have to build up some kind of chemistry? Not even for a relationship kind of thing. I've had one off sex experiences but it's always with people I've met at least once before. It's different if you meet them in a club then take them home you've somewhat been interacting with them before hand. But to go from messaging online, turn up then fuck I mean I dunno. Just wondering if my boundaries need bringing down a little "

Depends on wha5 you were chatting about before she turned up I guess? I mean if you were having some pretty explicit chats you presumably knew what was on offer? Didn’t yo7 even have the “ what will happen when I turn up” type conversations. You almost make it sound like a random meet, which it clearly wasn’t. I bet she wasn’t happy!