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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

So for your socials, where do you like to meet?

Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.

Mrs

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?

Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.

Mrs "

Same as really , lunch , coffee etc

Have fun bowling

Mrs W&W x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a pub be few drinks get to know each other a little break the ice etc

Our home kid free background music

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Coffee at first. If we all get along cocktails maybe at a later date.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A quiet bar suits me best although once had a great social at a Christmas Market.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

Our last meet that was supposed to be social turned into something else after a few cocktails and food. So I suppose what I'm saying is pub.

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Usually the pub for us

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Normally go for a coffee and see how we get on but sometimes a pub.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Always somewhere public as my 1st social is just that...a social with no play. Love having a coffee/drink whatever and a good natter..even played crazy golf a couple of times

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By *im ForbedMan
over a year ago

Winchester

Coffee if a morning session, lunch or later you can't beat a nice pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met in pubs, restaurants and coffee shops. Anywhere public.

Love the ideas on bowling or crazy golf - how did I never think? Would be great, though i don't like losing so would have to be on best behaviour and not throw a strop if I do!

x J

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’d want to win if bowling and so would be concentrating too much

Pub for us…can chat and share stories and see if there’s an attraction all round.

K

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?

Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.

Mrs

Same as really , lunch , coffee etc

Have fun bowling

Mrs W&W x"

Thanks I'm sure we will x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"A quiet bar suits me best although once had a great social at a Christmas Market."

A Christmas market sounds lush.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always somewhere public as my 1st social is just that...a social with no play. Love having a coffee/drink whatever and a good natter..even played crazy golf a couple of times "

Crazy golf sounds fun, not something I'd have thought of, I may have to steal this idea.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


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We've met in pubs, restaurants and coffee shops. Anywhere public.

Love the ideas on bowling or crazy golf - how did I never think? Would be great, though i don't like losing so would have to be on best behaviour and not throw a strop if I do!

x J"

Haha I'm very prepared to loose

I'll hope for no strops

Mrs

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always somewhere public as my 1st social is just that...a social with no play. Love having a coffee/drink whatever and a good natter..even played crazy golf a couple of times

Crazy golf sounds fun, not something I'd have thought of, I may have to steal this idea.

Mrs "

Good way to judge if they can get it in the hole (joking)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always somewhere public as my 1st social is just that...a social with no play. Love having a coffee/drink whatever and a good natter..even played crazy golf a couple of times

Crazy golf sounds fun, not something I'd have thought of, I may have to steal this idea.

Mrs

Good way to judge if they can get it in the hole (joking) "

good excuse to admire the bum too

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pubs.. Coffee for me £1.50 refils in spoons

Beach in good weather

Kissing in victorian shelter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dog walk.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Pubs are fine for us.

We don't specifically have a problem with play on a first date if everyone is into it, so happy to meet couples at ours or theirs for a drink, so long as everyone understands that play is absolutely not a guarantee.

Would be ok with a coffee if earlier in the day too.

Still early days in our swinging lives though so never been invited to anything more interesting than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?

Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.

Mrs "

Love different socials than just a boring coffee lol

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Sorry and hope I don’t sound rude but what’s this social thing your talking about…..

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By *adison12Woman
over a year ago

Nr Boston

Public place as safety first for a single lady so few drinks in the pub ,no expectations of anything physical on a first meet but it has happened on a few happy spontaneous occasions when all are willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Battersea Dogs Home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bars, pubs and restaurants mostly. I’d love more diverse ones a spa day or a walk or something different but then someone starts moaning it sounds ‘date like’

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?

Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.

Mrs

Love different socials than just a boring coffee lol"

We thought it would break the ice a little I'm looking forward to it.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Battersea Dogs Home"

Only if you adopt me a cute dog!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More a cat guy, sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine have been at a bar, either a bar in town or a hotel bar.

I would meet at a coffee shop too, not so sure about a restaurant though.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Had a lush social out walking my friends dog in a park, the fact I still got kisses after picking up a giant poo and being clothes lined by the lead was a good indication he was into me.

Equally enjoy coffee shops. Not so keen on alcohol being involved until later down the line.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Had a lush social out walking my friends dog in a park, the fact I still got kisses after picking up a giant poo and being clothes lined by the lead was a good indication he was into me.

Equally enjoy coffee shops. Not so keen on alcohol being involved until later down the line. "

Totally get where you are coming from re alcohol, things can sometimes take a wrong turn, but we don't tend to really drink (maybe 1) when socialising or playing anyway.

We'd meet anywhere for the right lady though - wink, wink

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

After all these years on the scene as a couple we've yet to have a social. We've both had them as singles but not yet as a couple. Our swinging revolves around clubs, parties and random encounters on nights out. So we can't speak from experience as such.

It's fair to say this mainly is because we have limited and random free time. But on top of that we know from experience you really can't tell if something is going to work and chemistry is right till you meet in the flesh. We fear both our time being wasted by no shows (we know this happens a lot) or just after all that ground work the chemistry just isn't there.

However we never say never and hope to experience this one day. So theoretically a good social for us would be meeting for some drinks or a nice pot of tea (like we did on our first social when we met each other as singles all that time ago). Daytime or evening. Not dinner, no food. Just refreshing drinks in a chilled environment where we can let ourselves go a bit and get comfortable in each others company. And although a social ideally with us or them having a hotel room around the corner (which doesn't need to be mentioned before hand). Thus just a no pressure social with the option for more in a neutral space if the chemistry and feeling is right. After all free time is precious and I think most people would also like that flexibility but without pressure to do anything more than a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone is crazy enough to invite me on one I’ll be sure to let you know where we went.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close


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We've met in pubs, restaurants and coffee shops. Anywhere public.

Love the ideas on bowling or crazy golf - how did I never think? Would be great, though i don't like losing so would have to be on best behaviour and not throw a strop if I do!

x J"

Ahhh. Well if you throw forfeits into the mix it can become very interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could use some fun ideas for socials

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