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“Wank Material” Compliment or not?

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Seen a lot of threads about women (mainly) being “wank material” is this actually a compliment?

I can understand why it might be but there are two sides to every coin……

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"? If so, why?

As a woman of course I'm flattered if guys find me sexy enough to wank over, but I guess there are plenty of women who don't, perhaps because they want to be considered as more than just a body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very flattered

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"I'd be very flattered"

I can't comment as all your pics are private. But looking at your profile pic I'd say you definitely are. Although why waste a wank when you're absolutely fuckable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be very flattered"

all friends only pics sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be very flattered"

Sent you a messsge would love to see more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care what people do but when they feel it's ok to message me telling me gory details? Nahhh

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

If it's on a photo that is meant to elicit a sexual response, such as posted on fab, it's a compliment, especially in such an over-saturated environment.

But on Facebook or LinkedIn, not so much.

Though it could be phrased better

'You excite me so much, I lose self-control'.

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Love tributes x

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definite compliment

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By *iniskirtCouple
over a year ago

Paisley

For me, I find it quite a compliment that guys find me attractive that they would do that thinking of me.

As a couple we have found that we both get turned on when we have spoken to guys who have did that x

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By *ak4u OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"? If so, why?

As a woman of course I'm flattered if guys find me sexy enough to wank over, but I guess there are plenty of women who don't, perhaps because they want to be considered as more than just a body."

“Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"?”

I should be so lucky……

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,


"Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"? If so, why?

As a woman of course I'm flattered if guys find me sexy enough to wank over, but I guess there are plenty of women who don't, perhaps because they want to be considered as more than just a body."

Certain dynamics don't exist or are not in vogue here....not sure any care to admit to flicking the bean over pics

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. Mainly because I love watching men wank and it delightfully scratches a part of my brain. So if someone I was attracted to said I was wank material, even if it's a bit crude, I'd be flattered.

And sure, some men could wank over a lemon sliced in half. It's more about the sentiment behind it. And thinking about them wanking over me is never a bad thing.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


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And sure, some men could wank over a lemon sliced in half. "

That tickled me

I wouldn't describe anyone as "wank material" in those terms unless it was part of a sarcastic conversation where everyone was being crude

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope I dislike the term 'wank material ' very much, I find it dehumanising. The same goes for 'marriage/girl/boyfriend material '. Material to me suggests that the basics are there but you're going to need to change it to make it useful.

The same goes for this trend for describing past sexual partners as a 'body count'.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I would find it complimentary, and depending on who it wraps that thought that, then I would definitely like to be given the option of watching while they did so!

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I personally take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d take it as a compliment to be told by a woman that she’s looking at pics of, or thinking of me while she plays for sure

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Love the fact that we can elicit that response and happy for people to tell us, it won't necessarily translate to "ok then come on over and you can fuck me" though. Usual rules apply, we post meets, if you happen to see us say hi. We may very well have already been approached by people that rubbed one out to us the day before. So yeah, to us it's a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Mainly because I love watching men wank and it delightfully scratches a part of my brain. So if someone I was attracted to said I was wank material, even if it's a bit crude, I'd be flattered.

And sure, some men could wank over a lemon sliced in half. It's more about the sentiment behind it. And thinking about them wanking over me is never a bad thing."

Half a lemon... Probably true. But funny!

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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes I would say a compliment. We post pictures of us as a bit of sexy fun so if a guy (or girl, I guess) thinks they're hot enough to do that over then that's great and part of that fun.

J x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Whatever floats their boat but I'd rather not know..I'd get no pleasure from it

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

It’s a swinging site!

Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?

But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.

It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It doesn't bother me, I neither feel complimented nor put off by it as long as they don't send me pics I don't care.

Mrs

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"It doesn't bother me, I neither feel complimented nor put off by it as long as they don't send me pics I don't care.

Mrs"

God damn it, had a tribute video all lined up ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t bother me. I don’t get turned on by it or offended. As long as I don’t messages with details I don’t mind

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By *ambsfunMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"It’s a swinging site!

Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?

But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.

It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life."

I kind of agree with this, people might not use the best vocabulary to basically say I think you're sexy...

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Yes it’s flattering to be considered sexy enough to be wanked over.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It’s a swinging site!

Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?

But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.

It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life."

I'm not insulted or offended and I don't see anyone on this thread who's said they are. Not being complimented by being referred to as 'material ' is a very long way from being offended by it. I'm indifferent to the term.

I don't think any of us can tell other people what they can take offence to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a swinging site!

Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?

But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.

It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life.

I'm not insulted or offended and I don't see anyone on this thread who's said they are. Not being complimented by being referred to as 'material ' is a very long way from being offended by it. I'm indifferent to the term.

I don't think any of us can tell other people what they can take offence to."

This

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