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"What's MMMMF then?" A bi train? It was only because we saw mmf and mfm referenced in the same thread, commented that we thought it was the same thing so got researching. | |||
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who. As in mmf (bi) Mfm (only female being penetrated) We may have sent some misleading messages in the past. Is this common knowledge? " In theory…. Yes In practice….. it doesn’t matter… for most people mmf will always mean woman in middle | |||
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who. As in mmf (bi) Mfm (only female being penetrated) We may have sent some misleading messages in the past. Is this common knowledge? " I don’t think you will be surprised to know that quite a lot of people don’t know or understand this. I didn’t when I had my first rodeo on here lol | |||
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"I never knew this. " It’s useful to know when you’re in a couple telling people you have had multiple mmfs and he’s not bi when in Fact you have had mfms | |||
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"I would think that the majority of people on here understand the difference between an mmf meet and an mfm meet. It's discussed quite frequently. I've known for years " In all honesty- we are quite new to the forums so we are learning on the job so to speak. | |||
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"We are very careful and always state MFM " As will we now….we genuinely didn’t know. | |||
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"I've certainly seen it discussed and many people stick to it. Personally, I think it’s a bit of a flawed system because it's not universally used, real life is not summed up well by letter order, and it does not generalise well to other groups. So threesome letter order is not a thing I put great store in." Exactly, and it's just yet another Fab myth. If you've got as far as asking someone else to join you for sex and are relying on no more than the order of three letters to define your boundaries you're asking for trouble. Personally I enjoy (straight) MMMMFs with me as the F. Try writing that without two Ms together. | |||
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"I've certainly seen it discussed and many people stick to it. Personally, I think it’s a bit of a flawed system because it's not universally used, real life is not summed up well by letter order, and it does not generalise well to other groups. So threesome letter order is not a thing I put great store in. Exactly, and it's just yet another Fab myth. If you've got as far as asking someone else to join you for sex and are relying on no more than the order of three letters to define your boundaries you're asking for trouble. Personally I enjoy (straight) MMMMFs with me as the F. Try writing that without two Ms together." This was our thought- we just thought it indicated the ratio of male to female in a meet. We haven’t ever had a guy turn up assuming mr is bi - but we communicate well I feel about what we want from a meet. | |||
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"Sounds like yet another example of people wanting to create a solution for a problem that never existed. Or be seen to be doing it anyway. I've been swinging years and I've never heard of this until today." This makes me feel better for not knowing. Xx | |||
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"I have been on this site since for many years and even I didn't know this " So it isn’t just us then. X | |||
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"So with a MFF would the women only play with each other? I think people would normally discuss the dynamic a little before the event! " From what I understand- FFM would be females playing. MFF would be male playing with both. However I literally learnt this yesterday and may be wrong. Hence this post. | |||
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"What's MMMMF then?" A very upset female, unless she likes to watch | |||
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"What's MMMMF then?" a great deal of fun | |||
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"Nope. This ain't common knowledge. I've enjoyed quite a few "MMF's" over the years and I can assure you, as both males were straight, only the female got penetrated. There was no prior discussion. No confusion at all. No misunderstanding No need for it. And, most importantly: No one got "offended" haha! If it ain't broke don't fix it. PS - I like to host gangbangs. How do I tell people that at my MMMMMF or should I say my MFMMM or even FMMMM only the F gets penetrated??? " Gang bangs you say…..Will message you. X | |||
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"What's MMMMF then?" This is just a gangbang. It could be a Bi gangbang though… | |||
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who. As in mmf (bi) Mfm (only female being penetrated) We may have sent some misleading messages in the past. Is this common knowledge? In theory…. Yes In practice….. it doesn’t matter… for most people mmf will always mean woman in middle " This | |||
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"Nope. This ain't common knowledge. I've enjoyed quite a few "MMF's" over the years and I can assure you, as both males were straight, only the female got penetrated. There was no prior discussion. No confusion at all. No misunderstanding No need for it. And, most importantly: No one got "offended" haha! If it ain't broke don't fix it. PS - I like to host gangbangs. How do I tell people that at my MMMMMF or should I say my MFMMM or even FMMMM only the F gets penetrated??? " Nah, it’s common knowledge. You haven’t been having MMFs, you’ve been having MFMs… Interesting times for the dyslexic though… but as they say.. never stop exploring | |||
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"What's MMMMF then?" There’s no harm in stating MMFMM to indicate the female is the centre of attention….. | |||
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"What's MMMMF then? There’s no harm in stating MMFMM to indicate the female is the centre of attention….. " I think if you specify that the guys are straight there is absolutely no doubt she will be the centre of attention wherever the F is placed. | |||
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"What's MMMMF then? There’s no harm in stating MMFMM to indicate the female is the centre of attention….. I think if you specify that the guys are straight there is absolutely no doubt she will be the centre of attention wherever the F is placed. " My thoughts exactly - as someone who happens to be straight but loves teaming up with other "M"s to make an "F" the centre of attention. | |||
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"Nope. This ain't common knowledge. I've enjoyed quite a few "MMF's" over the years and I can assure you, as both males were straight, only the female got penetrated. There was no prior discussion. No confusion at all. No misunderstanding No need for it. And, most importantly: No one got "offended" haha! If it ain't broke don't fix it. PS - I like to host gangbangs. How do I tell people that at my MMMMMF or should I say my MFMMM or even FMMMM only the F gets penetrated??? Nah, it’s common knowledge. You haven’t been having MMFs, you’ve been having MFMs… Interesting times for the dyslexic though… but as they say.. never stop exploring " No. I have to respectfully disagree. Sorry, but you are wrong. Look at the comments in the thread! I've been doing this for decades. Been on Fab years and years and pop on here pretty much everyday. Like I say never heard until today. | |||
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"In all honesty. Does it really matter? " Reading through the thread it does matter to some people. | |||
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"In all honesty. Does it really matter? " It must be because before we knew the correct meaning to it we’ve had a few messages asking why we want a’mmf’ when my husband is straight. Personally we don’t think it’s a big deal as before any potential meets we always discuss boundaries ect before | |||
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"Whilst there is technically a difference between the two it shouldn't matter because the person should be reading peoples profiles for their preferences and yours very clearly says under him that he's straight. I know there are a lot of men and women on here that say they are straight but in reality are bi but then that comes down to discussing preferences and limits which should be repected before any meet occurs" The format of the letters being significant is a load of rubbish. Just speak to people ffs | |||
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"What's MMMMF then? There’s no harm in stating MMFMM to indicate the female is the centre of attention….. " Woman watching 2 lots of straight men fucking each other. | |||
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"Just speak to people ffs " This is basically the only correct answer, isn’t it? | |||
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"Its a known fact . . .lol " Or a known myth, as we sometimes say ?? | |||
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"What's MMMMF then?" Heaven. | |||
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"Never heard of that before. Surely when interested parties interact all that gets sorted out anyway! " Yeah. Put what you like and have a chat. | |||
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who. As in mmf (bi) Mfm (only female being penetrated) We may have sent some misleading messages in the past. Is this common knowledge? " This old chestnut again. It doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. It just doesn't work. Try describing a straight three males one female scenario without having two of the ms together. | |||
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"Its a known fact . . .lol Or a known myth, as we sometimes say ??" This | |||
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"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference. MFM two guys one female MMF bi guys one female FFM bi females one guy. FMF straight females one guy MFF bi females guy watching MMFF bi couples MFMF swapping couples or soft swing " And three straight males and a female or the other war around? It's really not difficult to say bi mmf or bi ffm, Then everyone knows where they stand instead of relying on some 'convention' that doesn't work for all cases. | |||
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"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference. MFM two guys one female MMF bi guys one female FFM bi females one guy. FMF straight females one guy MFF bi females guy watching MMFF bi couples MFMF swapping couples or soft swing " MFFM swapping couples or soft swing with straight male and some female play. | |||
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"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference. MFM two guys one female MMF bi guys one female FFM bi females one guy. FMF straight females one guy MFF bi females guy watching MMFF bi couples MFMF swapping couples or soft swing And three straight males and a female or the other war around? It's really not difficult to say bi mmf or bi ffm, Then everyone knows where they stand instead of relying on some 'convention' that doesn't work for all cases. " Talk to people? Like communicate? That will never catch on. Sex tick _oxes all the way. | |||
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"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference. MFM two guys one female MMF bi guys one female FFM bi females one guy. FMF straight females one guy MFF bi females guy watching MMFF bi couples MFMF swapping couples or soft swing And three straight males and a female or the other war around? It's really not difficult to say bi mmf or bi ffm, Then everyone knows where they stand instead of relying on some 'convention' that doesn't work for all cases. Talk to people? Like communicate? That will never catch on. Sex tick _oxes all the way." It's a sad state of affairs that that is probably the right answer | |||
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"Is this common knowledge? " It's only a recent thing, presumably derived from p0rn sites. | |||
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"This isn't a thing. Can we stop trying to make it a thing, and just communicate what we want? LvM" I’ve seen it that much and with being new to exploring that side of fun. I genuinely thought it was a thing lmao | |||
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"Is this common knowledge? It's only a recent thing, presumably derived from p0rn sites. " yep I think you are right. I've been calling an mmf an mmf and a bi-mmf a bi-mmf for 2p years so I'm not going to change now | |||
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"It isn't true. UAPs are real tho. " Underage pensioners? | |||
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who. As in mmf (bi) Mfm (only female being penetrated) We may have sent some misleading messages in the past. Is this common knowledge? " news to us!! so how do you display 3 guys and a woman where only she gets penetrated then or is that just termed a straight gangbang? | |||
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"What's MMMMF then?" The cast line up for The Human Centepied | |||
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"This isn't a thing. Can we stop trying to make it a thing, and just communicate what we want? LvM" | |||
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who. As in mmf (bi) Mfm (only female being penetrated) We may have sent some misleading messages in the past. Is this common knowledge? news to us!! so how do you display 3 guys and a woman where only she gets penetrated then or is that just termed a straight gangbang?" Oh that's easy, you have to write it like this: -----M---- M--F--M Simple LvM | |||
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