FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

REsponse from Jay & Em re their 1st thread

Jump to newest
 

By *rrantee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you need to have support from fellow members ? Surely if you have a opinion you should have the conviction to stand by it weather people agree or not, it's not about point scoring !! The good news is you have probably completely alienated yourselves from most open minded not judgemental folk on here and for that I congratulate you.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments..."

Where were the members agreeing with you? I think I missed them... As I read it there were 141 replies pretty much universally treating your narrowminded _iews with the contempt they rightly deserved

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I ask why you started another thread and didn't just comment on your other one ? Is it another attempt at trolling or are you just trying for a few more people on your " looked at me" page ?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

The OP like everyone is entitled to their opinions, its a free country (still - just about).

Like i said on the other thread, nothing suits everyone, and if age gaps are offputting avoid age gap couples.

That is very different to saying they shouldnt be on fab.

Happy swinging with the people that suit you and you suit them !

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think many would have minded ur OP if it had said,something more like we find it weird

but unfortunately it came more across as a dictating post that really isnt reflective of a modern outlook...especially when it comes to swinging

my only answer was to really ask U's what would ur vanilla friends etc think of u's being on a swinging site... therefore dont be so quick to judge others in my opinion...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Had you simply said it was "offputting" I think you may well have had a more mixed response, rather than everyone disagreeing with your _iews.

In fact you said thay couples with large age gaps should not be allowed on the site...

2 very differing opinions in your 2 posts

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just referring to your previous thread about not wanting to go to a party with couples where there was a age gap, if I went to a party and mid stroke looked over my shoulder only to see me nan and gramps in a mmf to coin a phrase I would find it horrendous !!!! But would just let them get on with it and not say anything as after all I don't have to play with them and they are having fun and not hurting anyone so why would I want to offend them or hurt their feelings ?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting for the third thread to start.......

What a waste of server space...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments...

Where were the members agreeing with you? I think I missed them... As I read it there were 141 replies pretty much universally treating your narrowminded _iews with the contempt they rightly deserved

"

Yes I never saw anyone agree that age gaps are an issue

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I ask why you started another thread and didn't just comment on your other one ? Is it another attempt at trolling or are you just trying for a few more people on your " looked at me" page ? "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Man old people suck at using the internet, it has to be said.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having just read the OP's original post have to say frankly im appalled at your judgement and closed mindedness especially considering your status clearly states OPEN minded !!!

For starters this site is for everyone of any creed ,age , sexuality and preference that have an interest in swinging or the lifestyle.

What makes this site brilliant is the abundance of acceptance for personal preference and lifestyle choice. No offence but couples like you and posts like yours not only scare people of but also create ignorance, personally i would of thought people of your age would have more acceptance and patience !!

If it is not to your taste then perhaps you should try other sites ??

Frankly a shocking post, the only saviour being that the majority if not all members agreed that your post was unacceptable and narrow minded.

Jamie.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Man old people suck at using the internet, it has to be said.

"

Seems some people think we suck at sex too....

Little do they know !!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

I've been away from the forums too long...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look out for another post tomorrow with feedback from this thread

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile does indeed say open minded but like I said on the other thread it says little else. If I were them id ditch the profile and start again but im not them and we are open minded and get lots of meets!

I love the forums

Nico

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I often wonder how self important and how little understanding of forums and how they work you have to have to start a thread like this.

just odd :/

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

2 threads with.. at moment 159 combined responses and no comments from the OP...and for that reason i'm out

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments..."

not many come back and acknowledge other people contributions.

either on the original thread or a new one.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people's *

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea why you couldn't have just posted on your first thread.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments..."

i think it is was interesting that if you had all this "support" that not one of them had the balls to actually post in the thread...

some people could say that a 7 yr gap is hypocritical.. and again as other pointed out, you have friends visable on your friends list that have large age gaps... so can you see where it came from...

do i think it was extremely narrow minded... absolutely.... I know people who are "30 going on 60".... and I know men who are "40 going on 14" (men never grow up...)

here is one thing I have learnt.... you can't help who you fall for, and if that relationship that is formed and is a loving one, and takes them in the direction of swinging, good for them!!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments...

i think it is was interesting that if you had all this "support" that not one of them had the balls to actually post in the thread...

"

Totally agree

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waiting for the third thread to start.......

What a waste of server space...

"
yawn. Why not just ignore the the prejudiced people and they may go away.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This and the previous op became SO monotonous, I decided to take me shoes n socks off and do the sums! The op collectively has 104 years age gap between all the 'friends' shown a the bottom of their profile.

My head hurts now! I think I may have to lie down for a moment with my legs in the air

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This and the previous op became SO monotonous, I decided to take me shoes n socks off and do the sums! The op collectively has 104 years age gap between all the 'friends' shown a the bottom of their profile.

My head hurts now! I think I may have to lie down for a moment with my legs in the air "

You have too much time on your hands!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just love the way they describe themselves as 'very open minded'! In which far-off galaxy is that..?????

Confused.com

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just love the way they describe themselves as 'very open minded'! In which far-off galaxy is that..?????

Confused.com

"

Its a galaxy far far away

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This and the previous op became SO monotonous, I decided to take me shoes n socks off and do the sums! The op collectively has 104 years age gap between all the 'friends' shown a the bottom of their profile.

My head hurts now! I think I may have to lie down for a moment with my legs in the air

You have too much time on your hands!! "

But Miss, I dun it all in my 'ead without the use of a safety net or a calcilater

(The things you do when you're bored!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just love the way they describe themselves as 'very open minded'! In which far-off galaxy is that..?????

Confused.com

Its a galaxy far far away "

Quick - give Steve a shout!!

He loves a good Star Wars reference!!

Was out last night and seemed to have missed this thread and the other. And having just read the original - I'm glad I went out!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just love the way they describe themselves as 'very open minded'! In which far-off galaxy is that..?????

Confused.com

Its a galaxy far far away "

If Carrie Fisher's going to be there, I'm buyin' me a ticket....

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This and the previous op became SO monotonous, I decided to take me shoes n socks off and do the sums! The op collectively has 104 years age gap between all the 'friends' shown a the bottom of their profile.

My head hurts now! I think I may have to lie down for a moment with my legs in the air

You have too much time on your hands!!

But Miss, I dun it all in my 'ead without the use of a safety net or a calcilater

(The things you do when you're bored! "

You clever girl! Smiley face for you

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not sure why this couple seem to be getting such a hard time, they posted for the very first time a thread about age differences... now it most certainly could have been better positioned, they could have returned to the thread but may have been shocked at the level/tone of replies ( many other OP's have never returned to their threads ).

they came back and thanked people for their honest replies in the forum and also people who may have replied privately.

age difference has been discussed many times and there are usually a diverse range of replies. I personally have posted my own hypocrisy with this as I don't have the same opinion of an older lady and younger guy than I do with an older guy and younger girl. I don't know why I _iew them differently, but I do.

It was their first post in the forums

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Just love the way they describe themselves as 'very open minded'! In which far-off galaxy is that..?????

Confused.com

Its a galaxy far far away

If Carrie Fisher's going to be there, I'm buyin' me a ticket.... "

it might end up beig sigourney weaver and the guy with the bald head..

Wolf

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just love the way they describe themselves as 'very open minded'! In which far-off galaxy is that..?????

Confused.com

Its a galaxy far far away

If Carrie Fisher's going to be there, I'm buyin' me a ticket....

it might end up beig sigourney weaver and the guy with the bald head..

Wolf"

I'd settle for Sigourney Weaver any day!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"

I'd settle for Sigourney Weaver any day!!"

+1

Wolf

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why this couple seem to be getting such a hard time, they posted for the very first time a thread about age differences... now it most certainly could have been better positioned, they could have returned to the thread but may have been shocked at the level/tone of replies ( many other OP's have never returned to their threads ).

they came back and thanked people for their honest replies in the forum and also people who may have replied privately.

age difference has been discussed many times and there are usually a diverse range of replies. I personally have posted my own hypocrisy with this as I don't have the same opinion of an older lady and younger guy than I do with an older guy and younger girl. I don't know why I _iew them differently, but I do.

It was their first post in the forums

"

Agreed there the wording it the original post could have been better but they were just expressing their opinion (I commented on the original post). I do believe however that making a new post is only going to open them up to more criticism of the original post.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"not sure why this couple seem to be getting such a hard time, they posted for the very first time a thread about age differences... now it most certainly could have been better positioned, they could have returned to the thread but may have been shocked at the level/tone of replies ( many other OP's have never returned to their threads ).

they came back and thanked people for their honest replies in the forum and also people who may have replied privately.

age difference has been discussed many times and there are usually a diverse range of replies. I personally have posted my own hypocrisy with this as I don't have the same opinion of an older lady and younger guy than I do with an older guy and younger girl. I don't know why I _iew them differently, but I do.

It was their first post in the forums

Agreed there the wording it the original post could have been better but they were just expressing their opinion (I commented on the original post). I do believe however that making a new post is only going to open them up to more criticism of the original post. "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"

Agreed there the wording it the original post could have been better but they were just expressing their opinion (I commented on the original post). I do believe however that making a new post is only going to open them up to more criticism of the original post. "

yers, it does rather drag it out a bit.

Wolf

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd settle for Sigourney Weaver any day!!

+1

Wolf"

I baggsed her first! Join the queue! Btw, did you know she was lined up to do a big porn movie just before she got Alien..??? What a loss....

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"

I'd settle for Sigourney Weaver any day!!

+1

Wolf

I baggsed her first! Join the queue! Btw, did you know she was lined up to do a big porn movie just before she got Alien..??? What a loss.... "

just drop your pants and say...

' I am the key master '

Wolf

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Popcorn anyone? I have toffee and salted

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just surprised no ones used the hilarious and original 'popcorn' line yet

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why this couple seem to be getting such a hard time, they posted for the very first time a thread about age differences... now it most certainly could have been better positioned, they could have returned to the thread but may have been shocked at the level/tone of replies ( many other OP's have never returned to their threads ).

they came back and thanked people for their honest replies in the forum and also people who may have replied privately.

age difference has been discussed many times and there are usually a diverse range of replies. I personally have posted my own hypocrisy with this as I don't have the same opinion of an older lady and younger guy than I do with an older guy and younger girl. I don't know why I _iew them differently, but I do.

It was their first post in the forums

"

Personally speaking, the reason I took offence was not the subject but the simple reason that they said people with age gaps "should not be permitted on the site". I don't think anyone has the right to say that.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd settle for Sigourney Weaver any day!!

+1

Wolf

I baggsed her first! Join the queue! Btw, did you know she was lined up to do a big porn movie just before she got Alien..??? What a loss....

just drop your pants and say...

' I am the key master '

Wolf"

Makes you wonder what else could have 'popped out' of John Hurts stomach really....

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just surprised no ones used the hilarious and original 'popcorn' line yet "

Great timing

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just surprised no ones used the hilarious and original 'popcorn' line yet

Great timing "

Haha I just noticed!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Popcorn anyone? I have toffee and salted "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"not sure why this couple seem to be getting such a hard time, they posted for the very first time a thread about age differences... now it most certainly could have been better positioned, they could have returned to the thread but may have been shocked at the level/tone of replies ( many other OP's have never returned to their threads ).

they came back and thanked people for their honest replies in the forum and also people who may have replied privately.

age difference has been discussed many times and there are usually a diverse range of replies. I personally have posted my own hypocrisy with this as I don't have the same opinion of an older lady and younger guy than I do with an older guy and younger girl. I don't know why I _iew them differently, but I do.

It was their first post in the forums

Personally speaking, the reason I took offence was not the subject but the simple reason that they said people with age gaps "should not be permitted on the site". I don't think anyone has the right to say that."

Totally agree with this. Fair enough if you don't like big age gaps but no one shouldn't be told they aren't allowed on the site if they are being decent and just looking for fun x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So large age gaps offend some people do they?

I like men a lot older than me, and I'm not alone in it. I've never had any negative comments at munches, play parties, clubs, dogging, even in the pub.

And as for young old couples not being allowed on the site... No one but the people who run this site have the right to make those judgement calls.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet another thread full of people digusted with ur actions and _iews

So god knows where these members are who agree???

OP are u sure u should be using a site like this?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"not sure why this couple seem to be getting such a hard time

It was their first post in the forums

"

Yes it was their first post and yes we all open mouth or hit send without engaging the grey matter etc..

but such a statement that they had in the initial post smacks of anything but whom they infer they are, eg. open minded..

and no one has the right to say this or that should not be allowed..

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"not sure why this couple seem to be getting such a hard time

It was their first post in the forums

Yes it was their first post and yes we all open mouth or hit send without engaging the grey matter etc..

but such a statement that they had in the initial post smacks of anything but whom they infer they are, eg. open minded..

and no one has the right to say this or that should not be allowed..

"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments...

Where were the members agreeing with you? I think I missed them... As I read it there were 141 replies pretty much universally treating your narrowminded _iews with the contempt they rightly deserved

"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you just post this kind of thread to get attention. Well I guess it worked, but not in your favour PMSL!!!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you just post this kind of thread to get attention. Well I guess it worked, but not in your favour PMSL!!!!"

I was thinking that all along - from the OP's lack of replies throughout the threads.

I've met a lot of swingers with a lot of wide ranging _iews before but mostly swinging to me is about acceptance and being open minded. Otherwise where would we all be?

I didnt reply on the first thread - I thought it was an effort to troll tbh.

If I am wrong, I apologise, but those were my thoughts based on what I read.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother starting another thread and then not even replying , sounds like the OP is trying to prove a point to themselves.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Nobody's Angel - smacks of trolling, this thread and the previous one.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I'm just surprised no ones used the hilarious and original 'popcorn' line yet "

I had to read the post right through to check as well pmsl!!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woe is me...although i totally agree with everyones comments..i just can't help feeling sorry for them..am i too nice?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Just love the way they describe themselves as 'very open minded'! In which far-off galaxy is that..?????

Confused.com

"

.

They enjoy watersports with consenting breaststrokers.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Well folks my thread certainly created a stir amongst fellow members...and can say we appreciated what was being said and all your commnets...you may be right when some of you felt that we were being a bit narrow minded..but was very happy with the support that came through from members who agreed that large age gaps between some couples is offputting..but thanks again for your honest comments..."

We would like to say " we cant be arsed "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm maybe admin should keep up with the times and start banning them pesky trolls

* CReEpS rOunD cRyPt * -|-

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

They are getting loads of attention loads of replies, that's why they do it, sitting back and laughing their heads off I reckon.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are getting loads of attention loads of replies, that's why they do it, sitting back and laughing their heads off I reckon. "

Horseburgers for sale at tescoes got loads of attention and got us all talkin, didn't mean to say any of us wanted to go there and have a munch on one of em though, did it?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 
 

By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"woe is me...although i totally agree with everyones comments..i just can't help feeling sorry for them..am i too nice? "

Im with you on that one.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
back to top