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Are throuples a real thing?

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By *exmadcouple40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Is being part of a throuple a common thing that single women want to join?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Never had a live in throuple but a regular arrangement yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they’re real, just extremely hard to find and maintain, I’ve had two, it takes a lot of openness and honesty, something beyond difficult to find

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

They are real there is a few on here, not something I could do personally though.

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I know a lovely mmf trio that have been together for years.

They're more common and sustainable in swinging than poly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they always made up of 2 women, 1 man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a lovely mmf trio that have been together for years.

They're more common and sustainable in swinging than poly."

Just answered my question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a genuine throuple. Two bi guys and a woman. They're all in a long term relationship. Works for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they always made up of 2 women, 1 man?"

No they can be any mix of gender, the personalities tend to make a difference longer term more than what’s in their pants

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I had a profile with a lovely couple from here for a while. I’m not sure if we classed as a throuple but it was very nice nonetheless.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I know one, or is that 3, who are about to celebrate a year together

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By *exmadcouple40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

I’ve heard of the odd one but don’t tend to see it often. Or is it something people tend to keep quiet? Just wondering

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By *reudian_slipsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

My friend was part of a throuple for a while, they all enjoyed. I’d be up for it (along with most of the male human race!)

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Some friends of ours are a throuple. Two women and a guy. The two women are married to each other and one of the women is engaged to the guy. They can't get legally married but they can have a symbolic 'wedding'. They all live together very happily.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Yes, my closest friend is. Husband, partner and her. I had no idea till their daughter explained 'this is where daddy sleeps' (points) 'this is where mummy sleeps' (points), 'and this is where Aunty Emily sleeps'

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

I think they’re always going to be very rare, as essentially they need a six-way mutual attraction (without any significant imbalance), unlike a couple where it’s only two-ways.

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

yes we have enjoyed being 2 parts of a throuple for the past 11 yrs

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"yes we have enjoyed being 2 parts of a throuple for the past 11 yrs"

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being part of a throuple a common thing that single women want to join? "

It’s been something I’ve actually sought out before. But I think couples like the idea more than the reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also super hard to find

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By *reudian_slipsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Is a throuple always ffm? Isn’t a mmf throuple also a thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a throuple always ffm? Isn’t a mmf throuple also a thing? "

Yes I’m sure it is both

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Is being part of a throuple a common thing that single women want to join? "

Being Poly I've seen a few throuples. Can't say how common they are.

Seen one that is 20+ years and going strong.

Have seen others fall apart and things can get complicated as only 2 of the throuple tend to be on the paperwork for homeownership etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being part of a throuple a common thing that single women want to join?

Being Poly I've seen a few throuples. Can't say how common they are.

Seen one that is 20+ years and going strong.

Have seen others fall apart and things can get complicated as only 2 of the throuple tend to be on the paperwork for homeownership etc.

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In theory it seems like the ideal scenario is 3 single people that start dating together at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is poly and wanted this, but to alpha Males in one house just didn't work. Boundaries were not respected and always felt like a power struggle.

It wasn't for us in the end but am sure with the right people it's possble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is poly and wanted this, but to alpha Males in one house just didn't work. Boundaries were not respected and always felt like a power struggle.

It wasn't for us in the end but am sure with the right people it's possble"

So maybe there is like a power thing that goes on inside it. Like only room for one alpha?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is poly and wanted this, but to alpha Males in one house just didn't work. Boundaries were not respected and always felt like a power struggle.

It wasn't for us in the end but am sure with the right people it's possble

So maybe there is like a power thing that goes on inside it. Like only room for one alpha? "

Potentially, it was the case for us and we tried to keep it stable but and maybe because children where involved it just became to difficult

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We have had, and it was stunning fun.

Kids were in the way at the time . September will be a whole new kettle of pollock.

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By *rsandMrJCouple
over a year ago

ALDERSHOT


"I know one, or is that 3, who are about to celebrate a year together "

Someone I know?

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By *rsandMrJCouple
over a year ago

ALDERSHOT

We are a throuple.

MMF all live together. It's tough at times but honestly so rewarding.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are after a long term buddy, but a thorouple would probably work really well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I found a nice bi guy I’d defo be up for it

Sounds like a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I were ready to be in a thruple twice during our marriage . We would do it again if the right person came along .

This is what has led us to this lifestyle

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