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Am I gay? Not sure what to call it lol

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

So recently I have found myself drawn to sissy porn, and by that I mean sissy h*pno with po*pers etc....If you know, you know!! I find it a real turn on thinking/fantasising about playing with the real thing, but never go through with anything!

When in the moment, I would love nothing more than having a nice, hard cock pound me,,although, when the moment's past, the last thing I want is a bloke around me lol, I even feel weird writing this...

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By *ecretSilverlinkMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Nah don’t put labels on things. you’re just being yourself and having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PM’d you

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I was watching some chicks with dicks porn last night, got me so hard I went straight upstairs and fucked the misses senseless, though gotta say, it was the best sex I've had in a long time! I kept fantasising about what I was just watching, longing for a cock, deep inside me, thrusting me at the same time as me fucking my girl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypn*tube has a lot to answer for!

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By *uangshanMan
over a year ago

jarrow

You like what you like, and a change in perspective is horny fun

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

You only need labels for filling in surveys. Do what you enjoy.

Also, fantasies are very different from reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching some chicks with dicks porn last night, got me so hard I went straight upstairs and fucked the misses senseless, though gotta say, it was the best sex I've had in a long time! I kept fantasising about what I was just watching, longing for a cock, deep inside me, thrusting me at the same time as me fucking my girl lol"

Ask her to peg you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching some chicks with dicks porn last night, got me so hard I went straight upstairs and fucked the misses senseless, though gotta say, it was the best sex I've had in a long time! I kept fantasising about what I was just watching, longing for a cock, deep inside me, thrusting me at the same time as me fucking my girl lol

Ask her to peg you."

He'll then want a cock in his mouth... I reckon.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"I was watching some chicks with dicks porn last night, got me so hard I went straight upstairs and fucked the misses senseless, though gotta say, it was the best sex I've had in a long time! I kept fantasising about what I was just watching, longing for a cock, deep inside me, thrusting me at the same time as me fucking my girl lol

Ask her to peg you."

Great idea.

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By *r X46Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nothing wrong with it. Loads of gorgeous girls out there with huge thick cocks. Just enjoy it and try not to worry

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

If only it were that easy....believe me, I have tried...she's just not into it unfortunately.

In the meantime, what am I supposed to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you don't go wanking in the garden spying at the neighbours

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

just enjoy what it is you like,, no need to give it a name,, life is about enjoyment no matter what as long as you dont hurt others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only it were that easy....believe me, I have tried...she's just not into it unfortunately.

In the meantime, what am I supposed to do"

Find a man to pound your arsehole and then leave.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe you're gynosexual mate! Attracted to feminine features as opposed to strictly the female sex.

I identify as gynosexual as, I'm not attracted to men or masculinity but there are some very attractive trans people out there! Straight doesn't apply but bisexual doesn't necessarily either

C x

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Still in the same predicament...

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honesty I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Nah don’t put labels on things. you’re just being yourself and having fun! "

Totally this.

Indulge yourself in the porn and activities that make you feel happy.

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk

Mate, just 100% Bi Curious, I have the same kind of feelings but I’m a Top xx

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Look, all I want is a chick with a dick. I want to be fucked by girl who knows how to give! I want to experience a cock in my mouth and not be repulsed by it...I want to feel the real thing inside me, getting tired of my toys lol

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honesty I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs "

Have you told her you are looking for a TV on here? If you cheat on her without discussing it with her you are starting down a certain path…

HW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honesty I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs "

Your sexual needs are much more important than her feelings, sexual health, mental health etc etc. Your kids will be proud and happy that your needs to suck and be fucked by cock are more important than their mum or them.

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honesty I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs

Your sexual needs are much more important than her feelings, sexual health, mental health etc etc. Your kids will be proud and happy that your needs to suck and be fucked by cock are more important than their mum or them. "

Erm....yeah,.. cheers for that!....they're the reason I haven't acted on anything!, they're only my thoughts...Family first before anything!

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"So recently I have found myself drawn to sissy porn, and by that I mean sissy h*pno with po*pers etc....If you know, you know!! I find it a real turn on thinking/fantasising about playing with the real thing, but never go through with anything!

When in the moment, I would love nothing more than having a nice, hard cock pound me,,although, when the moment's past, the last thing I want is a bloke around me lol, I even feel weird writing this..."

1. Get a woman to peg you.

2. If the guy is behind you, there's no eye contact. So it's not gay.

3. If you watch sissy porn, while the guy is fucking you from behind, then that is gay.

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honestly

I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs

Have you told her you are looking for a TV on here? If you cheat on her without discussing it with her you are starting down a certain path…

HW "

She knows what I really want, she has to, we've floated around the subject many times, I just don't know how to come right out and say it to her! She's the reason I started down this path...funny story....I wanted us to try anal,,so we tried it a couple of times with no success, she said i was just too big! I was obviously disappointed,,so she said,, 'if u can handle a huge dildo in ur ass and enjoy it, then we can reconsider lol so I thought, challenge accepted lol.

I started training using small dildos, progressing on to larger and larger!, all the while sniffing po*pers to ease the pain!! I had some of the best, most intense orgasms I've ever had!

We returned to the scenario again, and she was having none of it, saying 'I didn't think u would actually go through with it'

I didn't want to pressure her into doing something she's not comfortable with so left it at that, or so I thought....

Playing with my ass awakened something inside me, an itch that needs scratching, a want, a longing for the real thing.

Since having kids, our sex life has taken a dive, im lucky if i get it once a month lol,she knows I have a high sex drive, and knows I get a lot of gratification when playing with my ass, she even buys me dildos, but will play no part in it, as she thinks its too disgusting!

I'm really just looking for someone who understands the situation I'm in, and who can guide me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honestly

I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs

Have you told her you are looking for a TV on here? If you cheat on her without discussing it with her you are starting down a certain path…

HW

She knows what I really want, she has to, we've floated around the subject many times, I just don't know how to come right out and say it to her! She's the reason I started down this path...funny story....I wanted us to try anal,,so we tried it a couple of times with no success, she said i was just too big! I was obviously disappointed,,so she said,, 'if u can handle a huge dildo in ur ass and enjoy it, then we can reconsider lol so I thought, challenge accepted lol.

I started training using small dildos, progressing on to larger and larger!, all the while sniffing po*pers to ease the pain!! I had some of the best, most intense orgasms I've ever had!

We returned to the scenario again, and she was having none of it, saying 'I didn't think u would actually go through with it'

I didn't want to pressure her into doing something she's not comfortable with so left it at that, or so I thought....

Playing with my ass awakened something inside me, an itch that needs scratching, a want, a longing for the real thing.

Since having kids, our sex life has taken a dive, im lucky if i get it once a month lol,she knows I have a high sex drive, and knows I get a lot of gratification when playing with my ass, she even buys me dildos, but will play no part in it, as she thinks its too disgusting!

I'm really just looking for someone who understands the situation I'm in, and who can guide me

"

There's your answer, she thinks it's disgusting and she wants nothing to do with it. It may have put her off sex with you too unfortunately.

So... your options are,

1. Hide your toys and never speak of it again but secretly play with them when she's not around to find you.

2. Find someone to use toys or cocks on you and make sure she never finds out.

3. Split up.

Good luck, there's no easy answer. X

Personally I'd do 1 and 2.

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Maybe you're gynosexual mate! Attracted to feminine features as opposed to strictly the female sex.

I identify as gynosexual as, I'm not attracted to men or masculinity but there are some very attractive trans people out there! Straight doesn't apply but bisexual doesn't necessarily either

C x "

That’s a new one on me but very true for me. Don’t find blokes attractive but do love cock

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By *eteorMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham called Meteor

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By *iFunMale_southMan
over a year ago

Reading

Another who only fancies women but absolutely loves cock here...

My wife identifies as pansexual, able to form emotional bonds with anyone.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough


"Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honestly

I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs

Have you told her you are looking for a TV on here? If you cheat on her without discussing it with her you are starting down a certain path…

HW

She knows what I really want, she has to, we've floated around the subject many times, I just don't know how to come right out and say it to her! She's the reason I started down this path...funny story....I wanted us to try anal,,so we tried it a couple of times with no success, she said i was just too big! I was obviously disappointed,,so she said,, 'if u can handle a huge dildo in ur ass and enjoy it, then we can reconsider lol so I thought, challenge accepted lol.

I started training using small dildos, progressing on to larger and larger!, all the while sniffing po*pers to ease the pain!! I had some of the best, most intense orgasms I've ever had!

We returned to the scenario again, and she was having none of it, saying 'I didn't think u would actually go through with it'

I didn't want to pressure her into doing something she's not comfortable with so left it at that, or so I thought....

Playing with my ass awakened something inside me, an itch that needs scratching, a want, a longing for the real thing.

Since having kids, our sex life has taken a dive, im lucky if i get it once a month lol,she knows I have a high sex drive, and knows I get a lot of gratification when playing with my ass, she even buys me dildos, but will play no part in it, as she thinks its too disgusting!

I'm really just looking for someone who understands the situation I'm in, and who can guide me

There's your answer, she thinks it's disgusting and she wants nothing to do with it. It may have put her off sex with you too unfortunately.

So... your options are,

1. Hide your toys and never speak of it again but secretly play with them when she's not around to find you.

2. Find someone to use toys or cocks on you and make sure she never finds out.

3. Split up.

Good luck, there's no easy answer. X

Personally I'd do 1 and 2."

I chose 1 and 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still off my tits lol, anyone wanna chat??"

Oh ffs

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

If anyone out there finds themselves in the same situation as myself, get in touch and maybe we can help each other!!

Little update.....nothing has changed lol....still reaching out

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"Shout out to all who have privately messaged me with words of encouragement and support...u are all legends!! I've started out on a journey of self recognition and acceptance, being true to myself and just going with the flow!

Its gonna be hard considering my gf and kids,,but it has to be done,, I have needs too, she understands the majority of it, and is somewhat supportive, although, she plays no part and honestly

I'm lost...I don't wanna cheat...but as I say, I have needs

Have you told her you are looking for a TV on here? If you cheat on her without discussing it with her you are starting down a certain path…

HW

She knows what I really want, she has to, we've floated around the subject many times, I just don't know how to come right out and say it to her! She's the reason I started down this path...funny story....I wanted us to try anal,,so we tried it a couple of times with no success, she said i was just too big! I was obviously disappointed,,so she said,, 'if u can handle a huge dildo in ur ass and enjoy it, then we can reconsider lol so I thought, challenge accepted lol.

I started training using small dildos, progressing on to larger and larger!, all the while sniffing po*pers to ease the pain!! I had some of the best, most intense orgasms I've ever had!

We returned to the scenario again, and she was having none of it, saying 'I didn't think u would actually go through with it'

I didn't want to pressure her into doing something she's not comfortable with so left it at that, or so I thought....

Playing with my ass awakened something inside me, an itch that needs scratching, a want, a longing for the real thing.

Since having kids, our sex life has taken a dive, im lucky if i get it once a month lol,she knows I have a high sex drive, and knows I get a lot of gratification when playing with my ass, she even buys me dildos, but will play no part in it, as she thinks its too disgusting!

I'm really just looking for someone who understands the situation I'm in, and who can guide me

There's your answer, she thinks it's disgusting and she wants nothing to do with it. It may have put her off sex with you too unfortunately.

So... your options are,

1. Hide your toys and never speak of it again but secretly play with them when she's not around to find you.

2. Find someone to use toys or cocks on you and make sure she never finds out.

3. Split up.

Good luck, there's no easy answer. X

Personally I'd do 1 and 2."

OP there’s no easy answer but there is a right and wrong thing to do. If you respect your wife you’ll tell her where you’re at, so she can make an informed choice.

HW

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

your not alone, I love cock but dont find men atractive its weird I know and have been this way as long as I can remember when I was younger I tended to use glory holes a lot, doesnt bother me now, theres probably been 3 guys I have met that I actualy fancied and snogged as well as fucked. just dont try to over think it.

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"your not alone, I love cock but dont find men atractive its weird I know and have been this way as long as I can remember when I was younger I tended to use glory holes a lot, doesnt bother me now, theres probably been 3 guys I have met that I actualy fancied and snogged as well as fucked. just dont try to over think it."

Thats my point right there lol, now don't get me wrong, I can tell a good looking bloke when I see one, doesn't mean I want him lol. The thoughts of a man, full beard, proper masculine...no thanks lol.

On the other hand tho, when u see a sexy chick with a dick, a proper shemale with all the right curves etc,,, I can't help myself but wonder and fantasise....I never thought of using glory hole's, well, truth be told, of course i have lol but with great hesitation..... watch this space lol

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?"

Start with the tip

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By *LxxMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

Start with the tip"

Hahaha Bravo…

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

Start with the tip"

Funny haha

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?"

Don't let him fuck you. You're not ready for that yet.

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

I ve not been with a woman in nearly 4yrs. I love being fucked just love it. I guess I am ?

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

Don't let him fuck you. You're not ready for that yet. "

Ok....why do you say that??

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

Don't let him fuck you. You're not ready for that yet.

Ok....why do you say that??"

Perhaps because she wants to help and get you ready, she wants first dibs on your ass

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

Don't let him fuck you. You're not ready for that yet.

Ok....why do you say that??

Perhaps because she wants to help and get you ready, she wants first dibs on your ass "

Nah, I wouldn't ever fuck a first timer.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

Don't let him fuck you. You're not ready for that yet.

Ok....why do you say that??"

There's a big difference between dildoing yourself & being fucked.

The likelyhood is first timers will choose a dick that's too big for them to handle & they end up injuring themselves.

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Maybe pay for a chick with a dick.

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By *orenzo99888Man
over a year ago

Letchworth


"Maybe pay for a chick with a dick. "
could be fun

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?"

Lube, lots of lube.

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
over a year ago

bristol

Don’t label yourself , be patient and try to relax x

I’m sure I speak for most that any first experience is nerve racking x

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Currently in the process of setting up a meet for the first time....with a bloke, they say they understand my situationand are willing to guide me ....any tips?

Don't let him fuck you. You're not ready for that yet.

You should see my toy collection lol

Ok....why do you say that??

There's a big difference between dildoing yourself & being fucked.

The likelyhood is first timers will choose a dick that's too big for them to handle & they end up injuring themselves. "

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Guys seem to like me so have fun

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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Dublin

It fell through...

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