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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

We started chatting with a couple on here earlier in the week, the conversation went to snap and got even hotter. Mrs messaging him privately and his wife messaging me privately as well as all messaging in the group chat.

The messaging was so hot I spent all day at my desk with a harden!

Arrangements were made to meet.

Everything was going great, all were happy.

This morning we logged on to find we have been deleted & blocked on here and also deleted on snap.

The only thing we can think of is that they have had an argument.

But why just delete and block instead of saying "we had a chat last night etc."?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really gets me every time this.

3 weeks of arranging socials to be ghosted.

Sorry for this to happen to you both.

When people are so disrespectful it costs nothing to be respectful

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By *owcuriousCouple
over a year ago

se

Never hit it off like that, but I’d be super pissed to be ghosted. I’m guessing they never really expected to actually do the act.

I get that - fantasy and reality two different things. But at least be honest.

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Probably a single guy acting as both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They got the wank chat they wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a single guy acting as both."

Bingo!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Probably a single guy acting as both."

Yep. Wanked himself silly, then moved on

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Probably a single guy acting as both.

Bingo!"

In a wig and heels.

A

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants


"We started chatting with a couple on here earlier in the week, the conversation went to snap and got even hotter. Mrs messaging him privately and his wife messaging me privately as well as all messaging in the group chat.

The messaging was so hot I spent all day at my desk with a harden!

Arrangements were made to meet.

Everything was going great, all were happy.

This morning we logged on to find we have been deleted & blocked on here and also deleted on snap.

The only thing we can think of is that they have had an argument.

But why just delete and block instead of saying "we had a chat last night etc."?

Unfortunately this is the frustrating side of fab ive experienced several times.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could have been real but after all the sex chats there wasn’t really anything left to look forward to - the meet was more than likely going to end up an anticlimax one if it had gone ahead. Going forward - tease but hold back a little

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Happens to us as well.

We just block them back.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

We've had this a number of times, the most annoying one being when everything was arranged (at our place, so not accomming problems) and late on the evening before, their profile was deleted.

A few months later, the same profile opened up with idential pictures, but a slightly different name and location. Long story short: this profile kept opening and closing numerous times, with no verifications and slight variations. Best bit is that it popped up AGAIN a month ago, with the same pictures of an alluring woman but as a single-male profile! We guessed ages ago it was a lone guy tossing himself off over the correspondence with a real-live girl.

So, yes - if you hear nothing the night before meeting a couple, it's probably just a wanker. Literally, and figuratively.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, learn your lesson and stick to conversations on here. Or just arrange to meet at a club, when you were planning to be there anyway.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If they were genuine they may well have had an argument as you say, especially with messaging each others partners. What you don't read about on here is the jealousy and drama that goes on. Maybe it's best not to get too deep with the messages and arrange to meet in person if you all agree.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

They had their wanks and moved on, this is why we don't engage in sexting.

Mrs

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By *abyblues2023Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

Been talking to someone for a few weeks also, everyday come yesterday nothing!

Maybe he’s had second thoughts

But I’m not here to be played

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By *ilyandronCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We get a fair bit of that. Single guys pretending to be couples. It’s usually fairly obvious tbh. Funny thing is, we’re often looking for single guys so if they’re been honest in the first place they would’ve had a chance !

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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"They had their wanks and moved on, this is why we don't engage in sexting.

Mrs "

This is the first couple we actually did the sexting with...they instigated it too. I said from scratch to meet us at our local club as there's no pressure to play that way.

I'm kinda in the mind of others here that it's probably a single guy wanking off. Tosser

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

It’s annoying as hell We have had two no shows for socials this week then they go offline or hide their profiles….site is full of time wasters 1 decent person to 99 time wasters

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Probably a single guy acting as both."

This, that's why it's always nice to be able to chat with both over the phone if the chats are/has been as good as you've mentioned op....

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By *weetPea-kMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Had this happen to me just a couple of weeks ago, going so well chatted late into tbe night getting on well etc then nothing, not blocked just being ignored, all messages left unread

So annoying

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

there seems to be a big up in single men playing a couple or women of late ...simple to deal with no horny chat and it goes away ...

makes you wonder how many ofg the couples profiles and womens profile are real .. know quite a few ex couples where the guy has continued with the joint using the excuse that his mrs is having a break when in fact they are no longer together full stop..

i irony is men faking it will ultimately ruin it mainly for other men as most couples and women suss it out quickly and its desperate men who fall for it then moan they are being let down ..men ruining it for men who would have thought that eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a single guy acting as both.

Bingo!

In a wig and heels.

A"

That's hot.

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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

We have definitely been blocked, their profile is still live (we think) as their photo is showing, had they deleted their profile then there would be no photo.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"We started chatting with a couple on here earlier in the week, the conversation went to snap and got even hotter. Mrs messaging him privately and his wife messaging me privately as well as all messaging in the group chat.

The messaging was so hot I spent all day at my desk with a harden!

Arrangements were made to meet.

Everything was going great, all were happy.

This morning we logged on to find we have been deleted & blocked on here and also deleted on snap.

The only thing we can think of is that they have had an argument.

But why just delete and block instead of saying "we had a chat last night etc."?

"

Were they a well verified account or perhaps a fake one ?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"We started chatting with a couple on here earlier in the week, the conversation went to snap and got even hotter. Mrs messaging him privately and his wife messaging me privately as well as all messaging in the group chat.

The messaging was so hot I spent all day at my desk with a harden!

Arrangements were made to meet.

Everything was going great, all were happy.

This morning we logged on to find we have been deleted & blocked on here and also deleted on snap.

The only thing we can think of is that they have had an argument.

But why just delete and block instead of saying "we had a chat last night etc."?

"

All part and parcel of Fab unfortunately

It says so in the brochure when u sign up for the site lol. Happens to us all at some point

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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

They were a new account.

We thought we would give them a chance, after all, we were once new.

We think that also, in hindsight, that their interest was lopsided, with him more keen than she was.

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By *archel OP   Couple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"We started chatting with a couple on here earlier in the week, the conversation went to snap and got even hotter. Mrs messaging him privately and his wife messaging me privately as well as all messaging in the group chat.

The messaging was so hot I spent all day at my desk with a harden!

Arrangements were made to meet.

Everything was going great, all were happy.

This morning we logged on to find we have been deleted & blocked on here and also deleted on snap.

The only thing we can think of is that they have had an argument.

But why just delete and block instead of saying "we had a chat last night etc."?

All part and parcel of Fab unfortunately

It says so in the brochure when u sign up for the site lol. Happens to us all at some point "

We've slept since we signed up, but it's common courtesy to let someone know if something can't happen.

We have a couple on our friends list who we had arranged to meet a few months back. They had an argument that day, but he made an effort to come to the club to let us know. They are a genuine couple and we really appreciated what he did when a message would have sufficed.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"They were a new account.

We thought we would give them a chance, after all, we were once new.

We think that also, in hindsight, that their interest was lopsided, with him more keen than she was. "

Ah , sometimes the fantasy of the chat is too scary to act out in reality

Gutting for you but unfortunately the nature of fab xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I guess there are many reasons. Like others have said, if a single male getting off, then it's looking for couples with veris.

If they were genuinely a couple, maybe you've had a lucky escape? Better they had an argument before the meet, than an argument during it!

Obviously just speculation, as we will never know!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"We started chatting with a couple on here earlier in the week, the conversation went to snap and got even hotter. Mrs messaging him privately and his wife messaging me privately as well as all messaging in the group chat.

The messaging was so hot I spent all day at my desk with a harden!

Arrangements were made to meet.

Everything was going great, all were happy.

This morning we logged on to find we have been deleted & blocked on here and also deleted on snap.

The only thing we can think of is that they have had an argument.

But why just delete and block instead of saying "we had a chat last night etc."?

All part and parcel of Fab unfortunately

It says so in the brochure when u sign up for the site lol. Happens to us all at some point

We've slept since we signed up, but it's common courtesy to let someone know if something can't happen.

We have a couple on our friends list who we had arranged to meet a few months back. They had an argument that day, but he made an effort to come to the club to let us know. They are a genuine couple and we really appreciated what he did when a message would have sufficed."

Completely agree with you it’s common courtesy & doesn’t take a minute to type ‘sorry we have to cancel’ . But this happens a lot on here, nevermind I’m sure an even better meet is just round the corner for you guys

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