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By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Haven’t done a thread in a while but…

How do you approach couples who you think are hot in a club?

Curious about people’s answers oh and tell the truth

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Usually just engage in some light chat, but make sure to include both of them. Seen guys ignore the hubby or else just talk to him as if the wife had no say, idiots.

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By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

What do you class as light chat?

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

General stuff. How are they, enjoying themselves? Introduce myself, bit of a laugh

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Haven’t done a thread in a while but…

How do you approach couples who you think are hot in a club?

Curious about people’s answers oh and tell the truth "

On foot, unless I’ve been ordered to get on my hands and knees and crawl.

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By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Haven’t done a thread in a while but…

How do you approach couples who you think are hot in a club?

Curious about people’s answers oh and tell the truth

On foot, unless I’ve been ordered to get on my hands and knees and crawl. "

Hahaha good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually just go over and say hi! I really don’t mind approaching strangers but C is quite shy at first so I tend to do all the talking initially.

Then she gets comfortable and steals the show

Mr

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By *rogalCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Like what the others say, just approach and be friendly and light, eventually make a suggestion about play or meeting up out of the club and if yes then happy days

The other method we have is play in the couples only room, put on a good show and very quick my you have people wanting to join you

X

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Just break the ice with a ‘how are you’ or you ‘having much fun tonight’, just something to get the chat started and you can easily move on to other more naughty chat then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever been chams with a fwb. She was the lead and I just folllowed her lol. I’m the shy one.

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By *DandcurvykittenCouple
over a year ago

Northants and London

A good one tactic to use a from a couples standpoint, once rapport has been build and if the signals are there is:

“We’re going off going to have a play now, would you like to join us?” Or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't treat it like a swingers club, treat it more like a bar and that you are just chatting and being friendly.

If the other couple are interested then it will evolve naturally and turn to conversations about swinging.

You will soon know and even if you or they do not want to do anything that night you can still make good friends.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"Don't treat it like a swingers club, treat it more like a bar and that you are just chatting and being friendly.

If the other couple are interested then it will evolve naturally and turn to conversations about swinging.

You will soon know and even if you or they do not want to do anything that night you can still make good friends."

We are very much the same as this. Happy to chat to anyone and enjoy making friends. Anything else is a bonus if it's meant to be.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Haven’t done a thread in a while but…

How do you approach couples who you think are hot in a club?

Curious about people’s answers oh and tell the truth "

We wouldn't approach a couple just because we thought they were hot. If we received some prolonged eye contact and thought they may be interested in us we'd say hello during a walkabout. Last Saturday a Lady from a couple very directly came up and asked if we'd like to play with them, the answer was yes and after a little chat a fantastic time was had. Generally we go by eye contact and body language. The more you go to club's the more experienced you'll get at reading situations.

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By *heekyminx101Couple
over a year ago

basingstoke

See I get myself into all sorts of trouble with this. I’m really chatty, can’t help myself, I’ll chat away to anyone

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I don’t know what works but I have found that doing a moonwalk up to them and letting out a big howl as you reach them usually means they run away.

#helpfulHints

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