FabSwingers.com forum: Give away signs of being a swinger

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apart from walking around a supermarket wearing a pineapple earring or an anklet with BBC on it or MFM etc - are there any “ tell - tales “ people think mark out who might be Fab type people ?

I can’t think of any that are for certain

Clues could be facial piercings or pvc trousers - but nothing definitive

Maybe we are all too discrete

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By *avidanneCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Anne wears a plain anklet

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

PVC trousers? PVC? As in what my double glazing windows are made of? Where have you seen couples wearing that? If that's a tell tale, then it's going to be so easy to spot swingers among a crowd.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we once went out with our "plus one" lady and walked down the high street hand in hand in hand...

might not seem that radical to some, but in this town it probably caused curtains to twitch and chins to wag for many days afterwards.

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By *ablo200Man
over a year ago

sevenoaks

We want to swing.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I wear pineapple socks

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By *ablo200Man
over a year ago

sevenoaks

Last comment! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pampas grass in the garden or keys in a bowl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we once went out with our "plus one" lady and walked down the high street hand in hand in hand...

might not seem that radical to some, but in this town it probably caused curtains to twitch and chins to wag for many days afterwards."

I can imagine! What a sexy scenario too!

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By *addoggyMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

I think you're thinking of upvc.

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By *heboss2023Man
over a year ago

Near Mullingar

Wearing a black ring on the right hand.

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

DXB / SG / Thailand Krabi

"Pampas grass in the garden or keys in a bowl x"

Was the Pampas’s grass in the garden ever a thing? Or an old swinging wives tale?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Look out for overtly friendly people with big smiles on their faces who like to hug a lot...or maybe that's just us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anne wears a plain anklet

Mine does same. I know there’s not much ‘significance’ but we enjoy it

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Look out for overtly friendly people with big smiles on their faces who like to hug a lot...or maybe that's just us.

It's not just you

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We hold hands when we're walking in public. Despite being married forever we always have a laugh and engage in banter with each other. We definitely stand out as swingers

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By *ali69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PVC trousers? PVC? As in what my double glazing windows are made of? Where have you seen couples wearing that? If that's a tell tale, then it's going to be so easy to spot swingers among a crowd."

I believe that's upvc.

Pvc trousers are a leather look.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"We hold hands when we're walking in public. Despite being married forever we always have a laugh and engage in banter with each other. We definitely stand out as swingers

This, and we point out people who the other might like to have sex with....sometimes a little too loudly which can be embarrassing.

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By *kinkycpleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I wear a Kate spade anklet on my right ankle as a little gesture to our naughty hobby.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Look out for overtly friendly people with big smiles on their faces who like to hug a lot...or maybe that's just us.

Love it.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Love the handholding with partner/s, and the spotting folk you both find sexy.

I wear a bi lgbt wrist band on my left wrist so it offsets my wedding ring quite well.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

I dont think we have any tells, should we look into getting some?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Clues could be facial piercings "

I have never heard of this as being a sign of swinging

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Love the handholding with partner/s, and the spotting folk you both find sexy.

I wear a bi lgbt wrist band on my left wrist so it offsets my wedding ring quite well. "

Nice touch...I wonder if people notice straight away or whether it's a "did I just see that" moment.

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Pretty sure when we were with a couple in a pub and the ladies kissed each other and we then swapped kissed with each others partner it raised a few eyebrows.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Love the handholding with partner/s, and the spotting folk you both find sexy.

I wear a bi lgbt wrist band on my left wrist so it offsets my wedding ring quite well.

Nice touch...I wonder if people notice straight away or whether it's a "did I just see that" moment."

The lgbt kilt also helps

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

When a guy is inside me while I’m on the phone to my hubby telling him how much I’m enjoying it… I think he might just be into the scene

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I wear pineapple socks "

Wearing my pineapple socks to work! - Xeno

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"Look out for overtly friendly people with big smiles on their faces who like to hug a lot...or maybe that's just us.

This and we have a massive upside down pineapple as you walk through our front door

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"When a guy is inside me while I’m on the phone to my hubby telling him how much I’m enjoying it… I think he might just be into the scene

Very sexy giveaway.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Wife wears a vixen ankle chain out

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

They'll let everyone within earshot know

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Had a fun weekend at a hotel with our ‘kitten’ a while back.

I booked a hotel suite for 3 people, no sneaking anyone in. Arrived at the hotel reception and had Becky and kitten behind me at the desk. Booked in all 3 of us while the lady receptionist had the biggest grin.

If they didn’t know what was going to happen….

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
over a year ago

banbury

"I wear a Kate spade anklet on my right ankle as a little gesture to our naughty hobby. "

Yesss, I always wondered if the fashion label knew they were becoming popular for the black symbol.

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

When in a pub near a club,the lady wearing a coat that covers everything on a warm sunny evening. Seen this a fair bit in the pub near my local club

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Wearing a black ring on the right hand."

Is this really a thing..?

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Where do people get their anklets from.. I’d love one to wear with my heels when out with him and see who notices us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can pick up on the way they act, touching more than others, checking out other people together that kind of thing

Years ago we were in a pub and noticed a couple who we were debating if they're swingers or not. Then a couple we knew were swingers turned up and joined them, they invited us to join them but we had vanilla plans that night

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham/midlands

"I wear pineapple socks "

I wear pineapple hipster shorts, but of course that only works if I pull down my trousers, and I can tell you that the Tesco’s security guards don’t like that sort of shit.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"PVC trousers? PVC? As in what my double glazing windows are made of? Where have you seen couples wearing that? If that's a tell tale, then it's going to be so easy to spot swingers among a crowd."

Thank you to the replies letting me know about difference between PVC and UPVC, how embarrassing, clearly I'm not into swingers fashion. (Mr.)

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"When in a pub near a club,the lady wearing a coat that covers everything on a warm sunny evening. Seen this a fair bit in the pub near my local club "

which pub which club...i used to work in wood green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do people get their anklets from.. I’d love one to wear with my heels when out with him and see who notices us "
just ordered 1 off Amazon after reading this thread

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Time to get K some pineapple earrings

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Where do people get their anklets from.. I’d love one to wear with my heels when out with him and see who notices us just ordered 1 off Amazon after reading this thread

Are they honestly on Amazon..? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do people get their anklets from.. I’d love one to wear with my heels when out with him and see who notices us just ordered 1 off Amazon after reading this thread

Are they honestly on Amazon..? x"

Amazon, eBay, Etsy, to name a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my face gives it away when talking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PVC trousers? PVC? As in what my double glazing windows are made of? Where have you seen couples wearing that? If that's a tell tale, then it's going to be so easy to spot swingers among a crowd.

Thank you to the replies letting me know about difference between PVC and UPVC, how embarrassing, clearly I'm not into swingers fashion. (Mr.)"

They're not really a sign of a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When u know. U know…..

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

I was told anything to do with pineapple ??

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