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By *elaniejay OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

London

Is it just me, or is it just us tv/ts girls, because lots of guys message me asking me if I'm free, before we've even established that we are meeting! I don't want to be negative, but I am not offering a bookable service

Melanie xx

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By *usty_BethWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Is it just me, or is it just us tv/ts girls, because lots of guys message me asking me if I'm free, before we've even established that we are meeting! I don't want to be negative, but I am not offering a bookable service

Melanie xx"

Hi Melanie.

As a single woman on here, I receive lots of similar messages and feel your pain!

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By *rogalCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Hey, this is also true for couples

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By *usty_BethWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hey, this is also true for couples "

So it’s across the board then. I often wonder if that approach works for anyone

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By *elaniejay OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

London

Well I usually ignore those messages, then they follow up with a single "?" lol

They probably feel a little aggrieved that they don't get a reply but I put in my profile so I don't feel I should have to explain ..

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Is it just me that thinks it sounds a bit "Are You Being Served"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this too. I still haven’t figured out the perfect snarky response for it yet. “No” doesn’t cut it.

Any tips?

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By *rogalCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Maybe try yep I don't charge, followed by the scene from we are the millers "you guys are getting paid"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I have had so many messages like that some guys just put no effort in at all sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this a lot too

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Hey, this is also true for couples

So it’s across the board then. I often wonder if that approach works for anyone "

Not for us it doesn't.

Just shows us they can't be arsed to read.

If they can't do that, then what else can't they be arsed with

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I get those too, so I presume it's across the board.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

It makes it a lot easier to clear a few messages.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hey, this is also true for couples

So it’s across the board then. I often wonder if that approach works for anyone "

Or what percentage of times it has to work for them to feel like it's worthwhile. Surely the success rate must be very low in reality?

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By *TminxTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I get loads of these, very often from a faceless profile, with no pictures and no personal details. I mean seriously? Does that ever work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say free, do they mean available or something else?

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