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Sleeping with someone at work

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By *damjamie00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

Should you ever sleep with someone at work, or should you keep your distance?

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Don't shit where you eat".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danger, danger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your plan on moving jobs right afterwards then go for it

If your plans are to stay there not a good idear things can get rather messy

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By *damjamie00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

Thanks for all the good advices

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

If it’s just a shag, it’s a one-off, there are no power dynamics and you’re both on the same page, why not?

Otherwise, beware

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


""Don't shit where you eat"."

Sage advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't in all honesty tell you not to because we met at work 43 years ago and here we still are, sleeping together. It can work out depending of course if you want to get married, have two children and be together 43 years. . If not, don't do it!

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By *lla_eastWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Done this twice and while it was exciting at the time it did NOT pay off in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my work you might aswell put your keys In a bowl when you walk through the door with the amount of affairs going on

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I mean, there are plenty of stories of it not going well, so for balance I will throw in that our 'office-fling' resulted in marriage... so they aren't all car crashes!

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By *towmartiansCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Just recently married my ex hr manager.. Affair for abt 14 yrs, nobody knew and we were not seen when out..

Best woman I ever met.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Years ago I had a short fling with a guy I worked with, many people thought there was something going on way before anything happened so when it did nobody was any the wiser, it was just a bit of fun and petered out after a short time with no bad feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have done, with a colleague I found on here.

I don’t know if I’d ever do the old school “office fling”. You know, flirting that escalates… seems like a recipe for disaster.

But via here it’s different - you both know the rules and nobody else in the office is going to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been meeting a guy i work with for a while now so much fun hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done this twice and while it was exciting at the time it did NOT pay off in the end "

But hopefully you enjoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a summer boat work party last year. Met a woman. Had a fantastic few weeks dating casually. She did not like giving oral. It was easier to let go...

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

It can be a dangerous thing to do - for all sorts of reasons.

But having said that, we know couples who met at work and subsequently got married.

So it's probably all about who, when and why - rather than just the where.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you're both single then why not?

We met 23 years ago at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made that mistake, happened to be my boss, more than once! Ended very messy where I ended up having to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s something you both want it shouldn’t be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best wishes op with your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one at my work place to fancy and no I do not mix business with pleasure ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At my work you might aswell put your keys In a bowl when you walk through the door with the amount of affairs going on "

And where do you work exactly? *nips out to get cv updated*

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We both work together so technically we are both fucking someone from work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ive slept with some work colleagues in the past, Bingo industry was great!!, but they dont tend to ebd up well.

Loads of lovely ladies at my current workplace but over half my age now!

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Statistically you’re more likely to meet your life partner at work than anywhere else, so if you’re both open to that then why not?

The key is that you both have to be on the same page, and if it’s just sex, and either of you catch feelings, then you have to be honest about it. If it all goes tits up though, it will be an absolute nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember, you can lead a horse to water but a pencil must be lead!.

Oh sorry, I meant to say "don't drop plunkies where you work or they'll stick to your shoes!". Bad juujuu, don't do it, it'll bite you when it goes wrong!

Peace and love to all.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I’ve slept with loads of people at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have slept with a few work colleagues

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By *iver_lover_6969Man
over a year ago

South Liverpool

I've done it a few times and I've always managed to get away with not creating a bad atmosphere but I think I've been bloody lucky

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By *onorgspotMan
over a year ago

Yaxley

I slept with 2 work colleagues from the same office. One of which I met through Fabs. Enjoyed every minute.

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

I (Mr) have done this twice. First time did not pan out so well. The second time is going pretty well so far, together 16 years, married 11 years and 2 kids.

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By *arlos671Man
over a year ago

leeds


"At my work you might aswell put your keys In a bowl when you walk through the door with the amount of affairs going on "

Sounds like a great place to work.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


""Don't shit where you eat"."
precisely

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By *untimes_83Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I've done it a few times. Usually work after work nights out and too much booze. Always been good sex I think because there was an underlying lust/attraction and some flirting in the workplace leading up to it.

Almost always one or other party hasnt been single but never had any issues and always repeated a few times afterwards.

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By *arlos671Man
over a year ago

leeds

I’m off to fuck someone I work with tonight

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