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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when they call me Big Poppa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it when they call me Big Poppa."

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when they call me Big Poppa.

Why?"

It’s a song. I don’t actually have anything to add… mostly because this subject always goes south very quickly.

https://youtu.be/phaJXp_zMYM

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk


"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"

If I’m totally honest I think it’s just an in built pervy older man thing, if you ask men then probably 90% would love to fuck a younger woman when they get a little older and the other 10% are lying lol

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"

Doesn't do anything for me.

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

If role-playing it's like dom/sub but less bdsm overture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?

If I’m totally honest I think it’s just an in built pervy older man thing, if you ask men then probably 90% would love to fuck a younger woman when they get a little older and the other 10% are lying lol"

100% agree.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

I have a FWB who is into DDlg, to indulge him I call him Daddy when we flirt/tease, though not when he fucks me cos I'm not into it. I asked him once what he got out of it and he said amongst other things, that the role appealed to him because of his caring nature, and that when a woman calls him that it is a clear marker that the she is feeling safe, secure and trusting in him. So it is like a validation for him, but also while fucking etc, it is reassurance that the activities indulged in that he's serving out to her are wanted and enjoyed. Idk if his take is common or unusual (not my scene), I expect different people get off on different aspects of it, and that there is an age element for some (though not for my friend, ironically I'm old enough to be his mother).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very very similar to the Dom and sub dynamic. Daddy used to freak me out then I met a guy who liked it and I loved it too.

It is about feeling... Cared for. The connotations that your loved and safe.

Like any kink if it is between two consenting adults, do whatever you please.

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare


"It's very very similar to the Dom and sub dynamic. Daddy used to freak me out then I met a guy who liked it and I loved it too.

It is about feeling... Cared for. The connotations that your loved and safe.

Like any kink if it is between two consenting adults, do whatever you please. "

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By *addyyBoyyCouple (MM)
over a year ago

stoke on trent

I'm always referred to as Daddy by my boy, but when he miss behaves or is naughty then SIR comes out to play

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By *addyyBoyyCouple (MM)
over a year ago

stoke on trent

I'm always referred to as Daddy by my boy, but when he miss behaves or is naughty then SIR comes out to play

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By *iercedAndTattooedNE6Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

No, never just no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a FWB who is into DDlg, to indulge him I call him Daddy when we flirt/tease, though not when he fucks me cos I'm not into it. I asked him once what he got out of it and he said amongst other things, that the role appealed to him because of his caring nature, and that when a woman calls him that it is a clear marker that the she is feeling safe, secure and trusting in him. So it is like a validation for him, but also while fucking etc, it is reassurance that the activities indulged in that he's serving out to her are wanted and enjoyed. Idk if his take is common or unusual (not my scene), I expect different people get off on different aspects of it, and that there is an age element for some (though not for my friend, ironically I'm old enough to be his mother). "

Yeah the above is what I get out of it too. Big fan with a woman who's equally into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say it does anything for me at all! In fact, it’s quite off putting for me.

Mr

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Can’t say it does anything for me at all! In fact, it’s quite off putting for me.

Mr "

Same here, a bit off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No No and No again

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Absolutely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I guess , it's the same as being called or calling someone mummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own I guess , it's the same as being called or calling someone mummy "

That’s still equally disturbing. If someone other then my children called me mummy I’d throw up in my mouth

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

Its creepy man

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By *asseur77Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Hi I am 67 yo male naturist and have experience of being a daddy to girls regards rick

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By *heelz69Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hi I am 67 yo male naturist and have experience of being a daddy to girls regards rick"

What does that mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with younger ladies but I definitely don't want them calling me Daddy.....yuk!!

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

I've never liked it and would never say it.

Don't like the associated connotations, Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never liked it and would never say it.

Don't like the associated connotations, Mrs x"

Ditto....

Awesome profile by the way x

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"

That I can lay her head on my chest, massage her scalp and call her 'good girl'

The older/younger dynamic isn't for everyone, but it's just one more way of showing affection, which is ultimately what we're all looking for.

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By *heelz69Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've never liked it and would never say it.

Don't like the associated connotations, Mrs x

Ditto....

Awesome profile by the way x"

I'll second that great profile

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond

Too creepy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"

There's one scenario I enjoy where a girl calls me that. It's taboo and not for everyone tho.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

My ex used to do this and it gave me the ick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why any woman would want to call someone fucking her “ Daddy “, sounds a bit strange to me but each to their own , whatever floats your boat

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Not keen at all.

"Let's pretend we are shagging our kids"?

Nah.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"I've never liked it and would never say it.

Don't like the associated connotations, Mrs x

Ditto....

Awesome profile by the way x"
Thanks, Mrs x

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"I've never liked it and would never say it.

Don't like the associated connotations, Mrs x

Ditto....

Awesome profile by the way x

I'll second that great profile "
Thanks, Mrs x

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood


"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"

Nothing

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

M likes me to call her good girl, I like her calling me master or sir when we are in that D/s dynamic. I also like when she is a bit bratty and cheeky

It’s part of a role playing.

There is a subset of fet people into Adultbaby play. Girls or boys dressing in onesies wearing diapers etc.

Just go on any vanilla porn website and you will see that the top searches or most popular categories are step sister/daughter/dad/brother/mum etc.

I’ve always found that a little weird but it seems that there are a lot of people that don’t.

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Not for me thanks.

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By *cing3894Man
over a year ago

Billingham

Instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like it, no idea why. I'll usually let a woman know it's something I like, but I understand if she isn't keen. Wouldn't force anyone to say it if it made them feel wierd because that's not cool

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By *omeotango121Man
over a year ago

sussex

Makes a guy fuck better when you call him daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes a guy fuck better when you call him daddy "

Certainly does for me

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Just go on any vanilla porn website and you will see that the top searches or most popular categories are step sister/daughter/dad/brother/mum etc."

I find it cringe, but I’ve heard it said before that our society fetishises youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my wife says "Daddy" in a sentence it's her way of telling me she's ready for some severe punishment.

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By *iercedAndTattooedNE6Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just no, no and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

daddy or Daddy??

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Call me big papa Smurf

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I personally like it.

I don't associate it with a form of family roleplay at all. It's not a play out of wanting to (consciously or subconsciously) fuck my Dad.

I like using it to show I feel secure, safe and cared for. But it falls within a kink setting for us. Perhaps it also grew from past trauma (also not trauma from my father, we had a great relationship before he died before anyone assumes daddy issues).

For him, he understands that and so it's an instant marker for him that he knows I'm enjoying the scene/experience. He'd also say it's a marker that I'm in a bratty mood rather than a submissive mood.

Ms

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

I can tell you, I don’t, I like to feel as young as the rest

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I have a younger lady fuck friend that calls me her Futa Mom . Quite endearing

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By *uggy 555Man
over a year ago

Swansea Valley

Dislike being called daddy no need for it.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
over a year ago

surrey

Nothing turns me off quicker than a woman calling me daddy. No thank you.

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By *icohxxxMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If a woman said “fuck me Daddy” whilst I was fucking her, I certainly wouldn’t think she is fantasising about her actual dad fucking her.

Id presume she is being totally submissive and wants to be totally dominated.

Same as if a woman likes being tied up during sex, I certainly wouldn’t think she wants to be grabbed off the street and thrown into the back of a van

Or if a woman wants her guy to dress up in a police uniform, I certainly wouldn’t worry that she will be constantly breaking the law to get arrested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No does nothing for me and would feel creepy…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone called me that, I'm retiring from sex. It would be so creepy. It would be like someone calling me a good little boy....*shudders*.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"If someone called me that, I'm retiring from sex. It would be so creepy. It would be like someone calling me a good little boy....*shudders*."

What if they called you cute boi

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Only when in the mode , love it every time she would moan daddy I slide it in abit deeper a touch tougher so she can feel who the daddy is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"

I personally don't really get off on it.

But I'm interested to know what it is about it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally like it.

I don't associate it with a form of family roleplay at all. It's not a play out of wanting to (consciously or subconsciously) fuck my Dad.

I like using it to show I feel secure, safe and cared for. But it falls within a kink setting for us. Perhaps it also grew from past trauma (also not trauma from my father, we had a great relationship before he died before anyone assumes daddy issues).

For him, he understands that and so it's an instant marker for him that he knows I'm enjoying the scene/experience. He'd also say it's a marker that I'm in a bratty mood rather than a submissive mood.

Ms "

Thanks for sharing this makes sense. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone called me that, I'm retiring from sex. It would be so creepy. It would be like someone calling me a good little boy....*shudders*.

What if they called you cute boi "

That would honestly be amazing!

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I hate it. Got called it once and that was enough.

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

Gives me the boak.

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By *errykezmasCouple
over a year ago

Telford

we both think its gross

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

It's weird

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester

Love being with younger women - enjoy a bit of role play- but never call me daddy!

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By *edonistSeekerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Wasn’t something on my radar before but was with a 20-something year old lady two years ago for a few weeks. She was very much into this scenario and I loved it. Would definitely try again.

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By *overs4loversCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Ewwwwww…just no thank you

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Thankfully I’ve never been with someone who has called me that. Definite passion killer for me.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Hard pass personally

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

What is it girls like about calling a man daddy while he fucks her ?

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

never been called it or wanted to, though I doubt in the heat of passion it would bother me, though to be honest in that moment an earthquake wouldnt bother me

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By *icohxxxMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I personally like it.

I don't associate it with a form of family roleplay at all. It's not a play out of wanting to (consciously or subconsciously) fuck my Dad.

I like using it to show I feel secure, safe and cared for. But it falls within a kink setting for us. Perhaps it also grew from past trauma (also not trauma from my father, we had a great relationship before he died before anyone assumes daddy issues).

For him, he understands that and so it's an instant marker for him that he knows I'm enjoying the scene/experience. He'd also say it's a marker that I'm in a bratty mood rather than a submissive mood.

Ms "

Absolutely spot on

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

not for me thanks

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By *ysticmykeyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I hate it; I've got actual kids and it drops me right out of grown up headspace & into parent headspace.

'Sir' or 'My Lord', however...

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

In a sexual context it’s clear a sign of submission and it’s not meant as anything other than that.

I’m looking for an older man who enjoys being called it

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By *uzy050TV/TS
45 weeks ago

Bolton

Reading the comments seems a "lot"of Guys don,t like this at all, Being referred to As Daddy , I have on a few occasions Used the Word Daddy , Its just a Kinky expression of Submission "I have no past Daddy issues" before anyone asks LOL , but now it Seems it may be prudent to ask upfront rather than in the Middle of a Sexual Encounter as one wouldnt want to Spoil the Experience for the man , X

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
45 weeks ago

chichester

Can I just go full ray Winston. “I am the fucking daddy now “ mid fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I never liked it found it weird.

Then I met a guy who enjoyed it, and I loved it. When I asked why he liked it, he said it was about being a girls first love. Being depended on etc.

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By *edonistSeekerMan
44 weeks ago

Worcester

Each to their own I guess.

Had a sugar babe a couple of years ago, she had lived the experience before and called me daddy. It’s not a daddy/daughter thing for gods sake . Jeez.

But there are quite a few young ladies around who want an older guy for better sex, a mentor, financial help, guidance.

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By *ama bamaMan
44 weeks ago

dalkeith

Could be a guy calling me daddy

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By *allySlinkyWoman
44 weeks ago

Leeds


"

But there are quite a few young ladies around who want an older guy for better sex, a mentor, financial help, guidance. "

Financial help !

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Always seems more of an American thing, & less taboo over there. It's even in Friends when Phoebe asks Ross "is daddy gonna spank me."

It's something I quite like, but it's a word associated with a shifting symbiotic power play than a family roleplay.

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
44 weeks ago

Leeds

Can’t imagine anything worse! Only had it said to me once and it was an instant turn off. No judgement on anyone it’s just not for me

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By *ave HighlandMan
44 weeks ago

Inverness

I love being called Daddy. It’s a fantasy thing. I think it means the girl likes being taken care of in all kinds of ways and giving back to her Daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I don't know why.. but I think it's a turn on!

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By *heelz69Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester

Not for me

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
44 weeks ago

Home

Just no,the word gives me a cold shiver down my spine .

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By *hy Essex GuyMan
44 weeks ago

North Essex

I'd find it very uncomfortable.

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By *iredhandMan
44 weeks ago

Manchester

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By *iredhandMan
44 weeks ago

Manchester

It’s plain wrong

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By *allySlinkyWoman
44 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'd find it very uncomfortable."

As your name on here is ShyDad do you think maybe people expect that you like to be called Daddy ?

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By *heelz69Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"I'd find it very uncomfortable.

As your name on here is ShyDad do you think maybe people expect that you like to be called Daddy ?"

That's a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

There’s nothing I like about it to be perfectly honest

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By *intagelosaCouple
44 weeks ago

Dublin

Weirds us both out but each to their own.

The hubby has been called worse!

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
44 weeks ago

Kent

Can't stand it. Anyone with "daddy" in their profile immediately blocked. Far too Jimmyish for my liking.

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By *heelz69Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"Can't stand it. Anyone with "daddy" in their profile immediately blocked. Far too Jimmyish for my liking. "

Yeah it definitely screams out pedophilia tendencies

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By *entleman of GirthMan
44 weeks ago

Forest Row

I absolutely hate it, probably the next quickest way to lose my erection after a partner wearing an Anne Widdecombe mask to bed.

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By *hy Essex GuyMan
44 weeks ago

North Essex


"I'd find it very uncomfortable.

As your name on here is ShyDad do you think maybe people expect that you like to be called Daddy ?"

Fair point. Maybe time for a name change then.

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By *iredhandMan
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"Can't stand it. Anyone with "daddy" in their profile immediately blocked. Far too Jimmyish for my liking. "

Now then, now then, now then!

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By *hesblokeMan
44 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

Not for me, instant turn-off.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

No no no completely weird absolute turnoff

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By *uri00620Woman
44 weeks ago

Croydon

Just no.

But for others by all means crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Been asked for this many times,usually by older men! I try not to overthink things too much, I've been in the moment and enjoy being called things I don't normally get called too

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By *ongAndThick123Man
33 weeks ago

Leeds

When I’m horny with an older man I do find it a turn on when they make me refer to them that way.

I see it as a dominance thing and nothing more

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By *enatton2Couple
33 weeks ago

West Midlands

Neither of us like it, both find it creepy lol

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By *oxy jWoman
33 weeks ago

somerset

not for me daddy or mummy but thats me i fully understand why and how others use it...

met a guy not long ago halfway thru the night said call me your daddy i just had fits of laughter killerd the night and he blocked me it just not for me... but wont kink shame it as i said i do understand why others use it kink wise

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