FabSwingers.com forum: Bunch of winkers

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs

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By *ecretSmile22Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

I agree this is what we do. It's definitely the right thing to do.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Or the even worse...they wink first, we wink back, radio silence for several hours until....

"Thanks for the wink"...

Cheers for that, raring to go now

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Or the even worse...they wink first, we wink back, radio silence for several hours until....

"Thanks for the wink"...

Cheers for that, raring to go now

Yeah this is another one, I rarely wink back but thought I would, they've looked at us daily since but never messaged I found it a little odd.

Mrs

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By *amsiMan
over a year ago

Hanworth

I would wink all over you

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Or the even worse...they wink first, we wink back, radio silence for several hours until....

"Thanks for the wink"...

Cheers for that, raring to go now

Yeah this is another one, I rarely wink back but thought I would, they've looked at us daily since but never messaged I found it a little odd.

Mrs "

Happens sooo much

we tend to assume it's Mr who has taken a shine to the lady of the profile and the Mrs (if she exists and is aware of course) has no interest in the fella....

Obviously just one possibility

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs "

I find this is similar to what I do. Unfortunately, it seems to go along the lines of I wink them, they wink back, I message them thanking them for winking back and try to start a conversation, then they go radio silent and/or block me. Obviously, that's not always the case for me, but it can be a bit frustrating when I get my hopes up after receiving a return wink, only to have them dashed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get people who wink then block.

Makes me think do they know me

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By *hemyththelegendMan
over a year ago

London

Once you receive a wink, would you say “Thank you for the wink?” I feel many people cringe once they receive this

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We're in agreement with your thoughts on winks Knights.

If we wink and get one in return, we send a wee message. We would also hope for a message if it was the other way around.

The other frustrating situation is when you receive a wink from a hidden profile... not much able to be done with that

C x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Or the even worse...they wink first, we wink back, radio silence for several hours until....

"Thanks for the wink"...

Cheers for that, raring to go now

So this is where I have been going wrong.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Unfortunately we use a 2 tier wink system because it has been abused.

A wink from a single guy, with no message, we just delete.

A wink from a couple, is an initial interest and if we wink back it means we are happy to start messaging.

Pretty sure we aren't the only ones though x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Once you receive a wink, would you say “Thank you for the wink?” I feel many people cringe once they receive this

And what else are they ment to say?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"Unfortunately we use a 2 tier wink system because it has been abused.

A wink from a single guy, with no message, we just delete.

A wink from a couple, is an initial interest and if we wink back it means we are happy to start messaging.

Pretty sure we aren't the only ones though x"

We’re similar to most above.

If we wink and they wink back, we’ll message.

If they wink and we wink back, we’re waiting for them to respond.

Single guys can’t wink us.

Jgmex and knights. We’d wink you lots.

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By *heerFlirtMan
over a year ago

Quite near Bath usually

"Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs "

Exactly this

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Unfortunately we use a 2 tier wink system because it has been abused.

A wink from a single guy, with no message, we just delete.

A wink from a couple, is an initial interest and if we wink back it means we are happy to start messaging.

Pretty sure we aren't the only ones though x

We’re similar to most above.

If we wink and they wink back, we’ll message.

If they wink and we wink back, we’re waiting for them to respond.

Single guys can’t wink us.

Jgmex and knights. We’d wink you lots.

Aww, you are both really sexy, absolutely love the burlesque outfits! Your pictures are amazing too x

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By *hemyththelegendMan
over a year ago

London

"Once you receive a wink, would you say “Thank you for the wink?” I feel many people cringe once they receive this

And what else are they ment to say? "

Thats what I am trying to figure out… I say thank you for the wink as well

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By *heerFlirtMan
over a year ago

Quite near Bath usually

"Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs

Exactly this

Ah sometimes there is an exception I've just realised - it's futile to expect a response when you play the 'Wink at who you'd like to fuck' forum game when they live miles away...

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs "

We rarely get chance to look on Fab together. When we do, winks are iften from weeks ago. Now we understand the etiquette, tonight we will wink as if we have a twitch

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Unfortunately we use a 2 tier wink system because it has been abused.

A wink from a single guy, with no message, we just delete.

A wink from a couple, is an initial interest and if we wink back it means we are happy to start messaging.

Pretty sure we aren't the only ones though x

We’re similar to most above.

If we wink and they wink back, we’ll message.

If they wink and we wink back, we’re waiting for them to respond.

Single guys can’t wink us.

Jgmex and knights. We’d wink you lots.

Feel free

C x

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Seem's t be the trend on fabs.

Receive a wink ...

Have a look, interested ! wink back.

Absolutely nothing

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By *azzolatinoMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I had a wink and a pic fab today. Went to immediately wink back, profile blocked?!

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We tend not to wink but if we receive a wink and we’re interested we’ll follow up.

Not sure about the winks from people that won’t meet smokers as we’re listed as smokers so that’s a strange one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink...... Not sure there is much more to it

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By *nked_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Definitely agree with your ways knights! It seems the most logical way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do like a wink.

Send and then get one back and message and nowt or they wink and return and nothing...glad it's not just me then...

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Definitely agree with original statement made, if a wink is returned a message goes out and vice versa. Doesn't always happen but that's the etiquette I use! Use the wink system as a gauge of interest

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs "

Completely agree. This is what we do if we're looking for a meet.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Once you receive a wink, would you say “Thank you for the wink?” I feel many people cringe once they receive this

We don't even check winks anymore. It says in our profile we don't check them but still we see the number of winks rise. Just shows how many can't be arsed to read a profile. We believe you only get out what you put into things in life. A nice respectful message goes much further than 1 press of a button

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’m with you OP. If they wink first, if I like them I’ll wink back but I don’t message.

Likewise, I’d not expect them to message first if I wink first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks from couples we do the same if they wink us back we message and if they've winked us first we wink back and see if the they message

Single men we ignore winks to be honest

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By *heDeliveryManMan
over a year ago

Leicester

A wink is a sign that you like them surely. That should be a prequel to conversation.

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By *eFCUKaLotCouple
over a year ago

somewhere close

We’ve got a couple that looks at us daily, multiple times some days, they winked us, we winked back & waited. No message but they still look.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

simply delete all wink and concentrate on the messages

mass delete winks daily and if the keep doing it then block

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs "

If they wink back I always message

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Wink wink wink

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

If someon3 is kind enough to wink at me and I wink back I hope they follow up with a message. I’d enjoy winking with some of the people on this thread!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Winking etiquette, so for me I wink, they wink back, I message.

They wink, we wink back I'd expect a message.

Why do people wink then not message when you return said wink? Are they expecting a message?

What's your winking etiquette?

Mrs "

Exactly the same as yours

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