FabSwingers.com forum: Am I too young?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems age is more than just a number on this site and being 25 closes more doors than it opens on fab!

Are there any couples or women about who prefer a younger man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of us here love young men for fun xx have you not been reading forum s it do not close door but open them up for new things xx some you have only dreamed about xx kisses jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems age is more than just a number on this site and being 25 closes more doors than it opens on fab!

Are there any couples or women about who prefer a younger man?"

loads...this site is full of cradle snatchers and nutters...good luck.xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it isn't opening any for me!

maybe its just the women/couples up north that are put off eh?

any more advice much appreciated. thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try adding some pics to yur profile - who knows, people might even start to believe that you are real and up for it ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try adding some pics to yur profile - who knows, people might even start to believe that you are real and up for it .."

its difficult for me to do that - i work across the north west and i'd hate to ever be recognised!

i could see the chances are low but it isn't work risking my job should the wrong people be aware of what i do for fun!

i have pics in private... and i dont see the value in putting a cock pic as a profile pic i just think its a bit desperate - i'd rather people want to see me, not my just my cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes you need a better profile here and pics ,one thing i am put off if no pics on profile ,,, its a real no no....... so you sort that out and spice it up a bit ,,,, as loads you read here are so boring ,, make us read and like ,, lol xxx jo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" yes you need a better profile here and pics ,one thing i am put off if no pics on profile ,,, its a real no no....... so you sort that out and spice it up a bit ,,,, as loads you read here are so boring ,, make us read and like ,, lol xxx jo"

see response above!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see response above!!

Good response, but to a lot of people it's a cop out response and they won't want to know .....

No one is suggesting that you put a face pic on your profile, but there are plenty ways to let people see who or what you are, or indeed if you really exist, other than showing a face pic, so sorry, but your "reponse above" doean't really cut the mustard with us and I suspect the same will go for many other people ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

catch 22 situation really!

maybe once i've had a meet or two i will be more confident and put some viewable ones on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"catch 22 situation really!

maybe once i've had a meet or two i will be more confident and put some viewable ones on!"

Hmmmmmmm interesting

So what's stopping you from putting a few 'viewable ones' on before you have a couple of meets ? Seems that you have some in private alreday so why not make some of them public then we can all have a look ?

Lets be fair - it only takes the wrong person to view your private ones and you could potentially be recognised, albeit a slim chance, but it could happen, so how do you decide who you accept as a friend and who you reject ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i can make an informed decision can't i based on prior discussions. same reason as before for not putting any on.

i don't want a face pic on display, and i don't see how a cock/body pic would prove someone was more genuine.

i can understand your point of view - but as far as adding pics goes im not ready to change my stance yet. i just hope some people would give me the time of day regardless of my age!

i've found age not pics to be the major problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"catch 22 situation really!

maybe once i've had a meet or two i will be more confident and put some viewable ones on!"

People need to see pics first,we would never meet anyone without pics on profile.

You could always put them in private gallery. x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"i can make an informed decision can't i based on prior discussions. same reason as before for not putting any on.

i don't want a face pic on display, and i don't see how a cock/body pic would prove someone was more genuine.

i can understand your point of view - but as far as adding pics goes im not ready to change my stance yet. i just hope some people would give me the time of day regardless of my age!

i've found age not pics to be the major problem!"

Whether or not you can show your face (for instance, I can't show mine because of who I work for), you can put on a body shot, taken in a mirror. It gives people a general idea of whether or not you could be their type.

If you don't bother, and by reading your posts on here....... I'd personally say that you have something to hide.

It's constructive critisism, and as I've been swinging longer than you have been legal ........ I'm speaking from experience.

Your profile is your advert to the swinging world, brighten it up, make sure there are no spelling mistakes and get some (even if it's only 1) piccie on there. Join in the forums and get to a few socials....... you'll soon be enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i can make an informed decision can't i based on prior discussions. same reason as before for not putting any on.

i don't want a face pic on display, and i don't see how a cock/body pic would prove someone was more genuine.

i can understand your point of view - but as far as adding pics goes im not ready to change my stance yet. i just hope some people would give me the time of day regardless of my age!

i've found age not pics to be the major problem!"

But the part I cannot for the life of me grasp, is the fact that you'll put some pics up after you've had a meet or two, but not before. It's got me confused, I must confess.

Do you instantly become unrecognisable after a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers _adchick! sound advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i can make an informed decision can't i based on prior discussions. same reason as before for not putting any on.

i don't want a face pic on display, and i don't see how a cock/body pic would prove someone was more genuine.

i can understand your point of view - but as far as adding pics goes im not ready to change my stance yet. i just hope some people would give me the time of day regardless of my age!

i've found age not pics to be the major problem!

But the part I cannot for the life of me grasp, is the fact that you'll put some pics up after you've had a meet or two, but not before. It's got me confused, I must confess.

Do you instantly become unrecognisable after a meet ?

i have a face pic in private..

the conversation has gone from age to pics as always on this site!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i can make an informed decision can't i based on prior discussions. same reason as before for not putting any on.

i don't want a face pic on display, and i don't see how a cock/body pic would prove someone was more genuine.

i can understand your point of view - but as far as adding pics goes im not ready to change my stance yet. i just hope some people would give me the time of day regardless of my age!

i've found age not pics to be the major problem!

If you don't bother, and by reading your posts on here....... I'd personally say that you have something to hide.

It's constructive critisism, and as I've been swinging longer than you have been legal ........ I'm speaking from experience.

my identity is the thing i am trying to hide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i can make an informed decision can't i based on prior discussions. same reason as before for not putting any on.

i don't want a face pic on display, and i don't see how a cock/body pic would prove someone was more genuine.

i can understand your point of view - but as far as adding pics goes im not ready to change my stance yet. i just hope some people would give me the time of day regardless of my age!

i've found age not pics to be the major problem!

But the part I cannot for the life of me grasp, is the fact that you'll put some pics up after you've had a meet or two, but not before. It's got me confused, I must confess.

Do you instantly become unrecognisable after a meet ?

i have a face pic in private..

the conversation has gone from age to pics as always on this site!!"

Well if it's gone from age to pics, "as always" is that not telling you something ?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

my identity is the thing i am trying to hide!"

The swinging community isn't that big...... especially on here. You will be recognised sooner rather than later.

A body shot will not show anything that you wouldn't show in the gym/swimming pool/showers after rugby etc.

YOU either have something to hide, or you shouldn't be swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then why would anyone want to meet you if they dont know what you look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOU either have something to hide, or you shouldn't be swinging!

Totally agree with that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the forums but some of the responses are sooo predictable and it really does become a bit tiresome!!

If a profile pic is so important, explain this to me please; I've not met a lot of folk here but those that I have, I met before I had a public profile pic!! Since having a public pic, I haven't met one new person!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"I enjoy the forums but some of the responses are sooo predictable and it really does become a bit tiresome!!

Maybe it was something else that you changed in your profile that puts people off.......... not the photo thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predictable and tiresome ?

But if the majority of replies are similar in content, then either it's a conspiracy or there is some substance in those reponses.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"cheers _adchick! sound advice"
i dont think its your age. you just sound a bit dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what would i have to hide?

apart from being recognised by a colleague or client i have nothing to hide

hence private pics, available at to those that ask at my discresion. isn't that why fab has this feature?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So would your clients and colleagues recognise a body pic, taken from behind or from the side, or a butt pic in a pair of tight K.Cs ? I very much doubt it, and if they did you must have been putting it about already for them to recognise you.

I'm now getting onto the same way of thinking as the others, that possibly you are being a teensy weensy bit shifty on us and that maybe you have a little smidge of something to hide - like a wife or g/f ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers _adchick! sound advicei dont think its your age. you just sound a bit dodgy."

People on here are giving you sound advice,most of the people who have given you advice have been on here a lot longer than you.

You asked if it was your age because you are not getting meets,people have pointed out to you that the reason is lack of pics.

You have obviously assumed that you would have had plenty of meets under your belt by now and are now spitting your dummy out over it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what would i have to hide?

apart from being recognised by a colleague or client i have nothing to hide

hence private pics, available at to those that ask at my discresion. isn't that why fab has this feature?"

Q) How do you know that someone who views your private pics 'at your discretion' are who they say they are and not a client or colleague pretending to be someone else ?

A) With all the discretion in the world - you dont !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no wife, no girlfriend, no meets

i will have to add some pics and see if that changes, maybe the reason i dont have so many pics is im not in the shape i'd like to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what would i have to hide?

apart from being recognised by a colleague or client i have nothing to hide

hence private pics, available at to those that ask at my discresion. isn't that why fab has this feature?

Q) How do you know that someone who views your private pics 'at your discretion' are who they say they are and not a client or colleague pretending to be someone else ?

A) With all the discretion in the world - you dont !

but i can make an informed decision based on age, name and location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no wife, no girlfriend, no meets

i will have to add some pics and see if that changes, maybe the reason i dont have so many pics is im not in the shape i'd like to be"

So you hope that people will think that you are a hunk, when in fact you are a chump ?

And here am I all along thinking you were scared of being recognised by clients and colleagues.

Well blow my socks off ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no wife, no girlfriend, no meets

i will have to add some pics and see if that changes, maybe the reason i dont have so many pics is im not in the shape i'd like to be"

So... Thats what you had to hide..

People come in all shapes and sizes you know..

No meets??? You been verified??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no wife, no girlfriend, no meets

i will have to add some pics and see if that changes, maybe the reason i dont have so many pics is im not in the shape i'd like to be

So you hope that people will think that you are a hunk, when in fact you are a chump ?

And here am I all along thinking you were scared of being recognised by clients and colleagues.

Well blow my socks off ....

pmsl x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"no wife, no girlfriend, no meets

i will have to add some pics and see if that changes, maybe the reason i dont have so many pics is im not in the shape i'd like to be

So you hope that people will think that you are a hunk, when in fact you are a chump ?

And here am I all along thinking you were scared of being recognised by clients and colleagues.

Well blow my socks off ....

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keep the socks on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

verification was a webcam one by someone no longer on fab. i dont know how to remove it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what would i have to hide?

apart from being recognised by a colleague or client i have nothing to hide

hence private pics, available at to those that ask at my discresion. isn't that why fab has this feature?

Q) How do you know that someone who views your private pics 'at your discretion' are who they say they are and not a client or colleague pretending to be someone else ?

A) With all the discretion in the world - you dont !

but i can make an informed decision based on age, name and location"

And we couldn't just make up a false profile and say we were someone else, someplace else when in fact we work for the same company as yourself ... ?

I admire your niavety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dear op

how many times are u gonna post threads whinging, last time we all gave u advice, did u do any of it ? no?

so stop fekkin moaning,

its boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As some have pointed out for a small percentage of people on here your age will not be a problem but for the majority it will, so yes you are probably too young to have lots of success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"verification was a webcam one by someone no longer on fab. i dont know how to remove it!"

You dont have to remove it - if the member has left the site, the verification goes with it .....we're not falling for that one ..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 25 and have not had anyone say I'm too young so far! There aren't a huge amount of profiles that say 30+ so just avoid them, and tbh some of those that do aren't hugely strict on their age ranges and will still meet some people our age.

Its down to whether they like YOU or not, and if they don't they may just say that it's your age as an easy way of saying no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"verification was a webcam one by someone no longer on fab. i dont know how to remove it!

You dont have to remove it - if the member has left the site, the verification goes with it .....we're not falling for that one ..!"

i was gonna say that, soooo hmmmmm who really verified the op???? come on op, show ya verif, cuz u say they left, then the verif would of gone too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"verification was a webcam one by someone no longer on fab. i dont know how to remove it!

You dont have to remove it - if the member has left the site, the verification goes with it .....we're not falling for that one ..!

i was gonna say that, soooo hmmmmm who really verified the op???? come on op, show ya verif, cuz u say they left, then the verif would of gone too

Seems like the 'you have something to hide' team are winning at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only the comment that disappears, the green tick stays, they should both go though but dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy is a fake,he's full of crap!

He has just drew attention to himself and has now been exposed for what he really is!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's only the comment that disappears, the green tick stays, they should both go though but dont."

that explains that!

as for the fake comments.. what a joke! i've been honest throughout

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what would i have to hide?

apart from being recognised by a colleague or client i have nothing to hide

hence private pics, available at to those that ask at my discresion. isn't that why fab has this feature?

Q) How do you know that someone who views your private pics 'at your discretion' are who they say they are and not a client or colleague pretending to be someone else ?

A) With all the discretion in the world - you dont !

but i can make an informed decision based on age, name and location

And we couldn't just make up a false profile and say we were someone else, someplace else when in fact we work for the same company as yourself ... ?

I admire your niavety

so someone would have to suspect that i am on the site, join and find me, then add me.

why would anyone suspect i am on here? there is no reason at all is there?

my cautiousness is due to the fact someone may already be on here, and i wouldnt want to risk putting my job on the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what would i have to hide?

apart from being recognised by a colleague or client i have nothing to hide

hence private pics, available at to those that ask at my discresion. isn't that why fab has this feature?

Q) How do you know that someone who views your private pics 'at your discretion' are who they say they are and not a client or colleague pretending to be someone else ?

A) With all the discretion in the world - you dont !

but i can make an informed decision based on age, name and location

And we couldn't just make up a false profile and say we were someone else, someplace else when in fact we work for the same company as yourself ... ?

I admire your niavety

so someone would have to suspect that i am on the site, join and find me, then add me.

why would anyone suspect i am on here? there is no reason at all is there?

my cautiousness is due to the fact someone may already be on here, and i wouldnt want to risk putting my job on the line"

You could not possibly find to more cautious and discrete folk than us two, we are shit scared of our own shadows with regards to swinging, but check out the pics on our profile and I defy you to come find us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only the comment that disappears, the green tick stays, they should both go though but dont.

that explains that!

as for the fake comments.. what a joke! i've been honest throughout"

No you havnt tho...

You said that you couldnt put pics up because of your job,turns out that you said it was because you were not in shape..

Seems you have posted something simular in past... Why would anyone want to meet someone who isnt honest in what they post?

Stop whinging about getting no meets and do something about it!!!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"I'm 25 and have not had anyone say I'm too young so far! There aren't a huge amount of profiles that say 30+ so just avoid them, and tbh some of those that do aren't hugely strict on their age ranges and will still meet some people our age.

Its down to whether they like YOU or not, and if they don't they may just say that it's your age as an easy way of saying no. "

But you have photos......

A decentish profile.......

And you've integrated yourself into the forums....

You might be young..... but you are trying........ not whinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what would i have to hide?

apart from being recognised by a colleague or client i have nothing to hide

hence private pics, available at to those that ask at my discresion. isn't that why fab has this feature?

Q) How do you know that someone who views your private pics 'at your discretion' are who they say they are and not a client or colleague pretending to be someone else ?

A) With all the discretion in the world - you dont !

but i can make an informed decision based on age, name and location

And we couldn't just make up a false profile and say we were someone else, someplace else when in fact we work for the same company as yourself ... ?

I admire your niavety

so someone would have to suspect that i am on the site, join and find me, then add me.

why would anyone suspect i am on here? there is no reason at all is there?

my cautiousness is due to the fact someone may already be on here, and i wouldnt want to risk putting my job on the line"

So as I said before - unless you've been putting it about with your clients / collegues already etc, they'd hardly be likely to recognise you from a body shot now would they ?

But oh, there again I almost forgot - it's because you're not in the best of shape - that's why you don't post any pics, so really nothing at all to do with clients is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a reader not a poster on the forums but just had to comment on this one.

Have been sitting here chuckling away, as in all fairness you have come across shifty whether that be intentional or not. The whole business about the photos, i have to say that if there was a swinger on here that recognised you from work, well they would hardly be going to your bosses telling them your a sexual devient on a swingers site as they would more then likely be letting them know they are too!!!

At least if someone asks for a picture if you have a mug shot in your private gallery you can attach to your msg you may get a bit more luck

My advice for what its worth is to stop fretting and just enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its down to whether they like YOU or not, and if they don't they may just say that it's your age as an easy way of saying no. "
well you look yumm i can see why thay like you i know i would xxxxx jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems age is more than just a number on this site and being 25 closes more doors than it opens on fab!

Are there any couples or women about who prefer a younger man?"

I don't see that your age would be a problem, I'd jazz up your profile a bit, def add a pic - I have read all the posts and you really do need at least one, join in on the threads in the lounge, go to some socials or try a club, mix and also take advice in good grace if you ask for it expect some responses that you may not like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from getting pics and spicing up the words in profile .... I am going to give you a Tip ...... Dont send people mail here with.... one line...... do a nice letter so thay can get too know about you a little bit ...... one liners put me off i feel people dont have the time for me as mailing 100s ,, lol and if thay take the time and i like thay would do so much better x xx jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have a face pic in private..

the conversation has gone from age to pics as always on this site!!"

That's because no pics = not interested for a lot of people on this site, as the seasoned peeps have informed you already.

It is up to you to decide whether to accept or reject their advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't say mid twenties was too young.

Bottom line is, you've been given some good advice, no one likes blind dates, your in a buyers market.

So set your stall out, take the advice on this thread and either shit or get off the pot.........Daylights burning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet younger guys sometimes..

..but wouldn't meet someone that is so anonymous.

We have our message filters set to block messages from peeps with no public pictures.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to the op about age - it may not be due to your age that you havent had any luck so far lol could be the fact that you dont seem to want to make the effort? it seems you keep making excuses as to why you cant do all the things suggested...

i can understand your reasons for not putting a face pic up etc but really, as others have already said, there are other ways to take pics and displaying at least one would help.

ive seen many profiles where the person says they cant show face for such and such reason, yet they still have a few pics up and they take the time to chat to others, get themselves known, go to socials and realise that just because theyre on a swinging site, it doesnt equal sex or meets asap lol

im 21, my partner is 25, and we've never had a problem on here. yes, we have pics, but as our ages are the same/similar, i'd hope that shows that it really isnt age that puts people off lol

course its gonna be a bit harder for a single guy, as there are lots around! but if you take that into account and are serious about meeting, you'll take the time and put in the effort needed to get meets or invites to parties, or whatever it is you're looking for

hmm, sorry if this offends? or doesnt make sense lol just wanted to put my view up, being young doesnt determine much, its the attitude put across...

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has given you their opinion - but the truth of the matter is we are not going to appeal to everyone and you have to accept that.

Personally I don't like younger men simply I have a thing about men younger than my own sons - wrong on so many levels to me, and secondly - I prefer the Domme/sub scene and a young man doesn't appeal in that situation - I like older, alpha males.

Take time to read the profiles - I've seen lots of women/couples seeking younger men - I think it's attitude more than anything that are putting people of, and sorry, but you do sound a bit like a petulant child - people like different things - a vive le difference!!

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By *immyrockMan
over a year ago

walsall

well although i agree the the forum reply. i too have put piccies on profile and hid my face for reasons as others have, i have offered to people i communicate with the send face pic - not an issue at all as i agree no one wants a blind date.

but for me i still have no joy any ideas please folks - ive also chatted in chat rooms, tbh have had one friend off here who now has a lover and isnt interested any more in other guys but other than that i have not had any other luck

i look forward to the helpful replies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If hes fake or not he has a point with the age issue. Hard to find any genuine women on here that are into younger lads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been reading through this post.

I've commented before about having face pics on Swinging sites and to be honest would rather show my face on cam through MSN or Yahoo.

As for body pics I can't see a problem with posting one on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well although i agree the the forum reply. i too have put piccies on profile and hid my face for reasons as others have, i have offered to people i communicate with the send face pic - not an issue at all as i agree no one wants a blind date.

i look forward to the helpful replies xx

Hi!!!

Hope you're well. The only thing that would put me off and I can't speak for any one else is your 'interest' list - seems very hard core and pretty random - like you've just ticked everything! You might very well be into all that and are being honest but just my view of it. Anyway, good luck and perhaps show the verification and get along to a few clubs! Zoe xxx

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By *immyrockMan
over a year ago

walsall

cheers for comment appreciated xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"If hes fake or not he has a point with the age issue. Hard to find any genuine women on here that are into younger lads. "

Twaddle...... sorry but it is....

people are always complaining about "too old" or "too young"...... but lets cut to the chase...

Some people are not going to want to play with people old enough to be there mums or dads.... such is life!!

Some people are not going to want to play with people young enough to be there sons or daughters... again such is life!!!!

see... Double Edged sword and it cuts both ways..... such is life!!

Maybe its not an "age" thing for a lot of people, its a "how you come across" thing, for example.. the OP has whinged about other things before, people gave him advice and it went in one ear and out the other.....

you get one chance to make a great first impression... what kind of impression does a whinge leave???

age is just the next convient excuse in the mind of the person who has been rejected... maybe the real reason is a lot closer to home!

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

Fabio speaks common sense, as usual - I think it was Samuel Goldwyn who first said "the harder I work, the luckier I seem to get..."

We can all of us find reasons why things don't seem to be going our way - more often than not these 'reasons' are actually excuses, which allow us to ignore our real failings.

This isn't meant as a personal criticism of the OP, by the way - just a general observation of human nature. We'd all rather find fault in some external thing we can't control, than analyse what we may be doing wrong!

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

@ Timmyrock

Just a suggestion; your picture shows a beer can, and that puts me off just a little - not a lot, but thats just me.

As a general comment, to OP :

I much prefer younger guys, and 18 is not too young for me, so long as the guy has something about him. I am not interested in guys who can't or won't spell correctly, nor in guys who click the "show cam" button the minute they get on msn. To me it feels like some young guys think that women who are on swingers sites are there for the pleasure of the guys, and their attitude clearly shows this. THAT puts me off.

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Jane x

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