FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers renting a house

By *ickD80 OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I feel like I’ve hijacked the other thread where I’m discussing this so have started a new one specifically for it.

A comment was made (by someone who’s since deleted his profile) that if swingers rent a house off Airbnb, or something similar, they should tell the owner of the house that they’re swingers out of respect.

I completely disagree with this and have argued that if 2 couples rent a house together with the intention of swapping partners they have absolutely no obligation to tell the owner of their plans as they’re not doing anything illegal or breaking any rules.

There have been suggestions that swingers are more likely to have sex in view of the neighbours or have a sex party in the house so there’s more risk involved with renting to swingers but I believe that swingers are no more likely to break social decency rules than anyone else.

It would be interesting to hear other people’s opinions on this because so far no one’s agreed with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see it from both sides, yes you're entitled to your privacy and as long as you act within the rules of renting the air bnb then there should be no issue. Many people book properties for meets and its all fine.

The other side is you do have people who like to buck the trend, they want to be seen or heard having sex or put on a show. Ive seen enough threads on here about sexual activity in shop changing rooms or looking for a meet to have sex in hotel windows, masturbating upstairs when a tradesman is in the property, having sex with the hotel room door open, flashing, etc. Some people will have no regard for wether others want to be in on their ‘sexy fun’ and just bring attention to themselves.

Problem is you wont know who you're letting to until the inevitable happens.

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By *ickD80 OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I can see it from both sides, yes you're entitled to your privacy and as long as you act within the rules of renting the air bnb then there should be no issue. Many people book properties for meets and its all fine.

Problem is you wont know who you're letting to until the inevitable happens. "

That risk applies equally if it was just a couple renting the house as they will probably be having sex and they could also want to be seen or heard….tenants breaking the rules and/or being too noisy is a risk that comes with renting to anyone.

The person was implying that there’s more risk involved with renting to swingers and that’s why they should tell the owner and it’s why swingers aren’t welcome by most owners. I don’t believe that there’s a greater risk or a specific risk that comes from renting to swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have booked it it’s up to you

What you do but respect the place

I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rent a large house for a party every Christmas. What happens is not the concern of the owner as it's all perfectly put back together by the time we leave and it's never been an issue. It's like telling Premier Inn that you've had sex in their beds.

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

I doubt the owner would care... Their only real concern is that the property is looked after and isn't trashed at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like I’ve hijacked the other thread where I’m discussing this so have started a new one specifically for it.

It would be interesting to hear other people’s opinions on this because so far no one’s agreed with me."

Be sure to get one that the owner has secret cameras in.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

We have rented several AirBnb properties. Usually us with another couple. For us it is like renting a hotel room, but with tons of space to make the play more interesting, a kitchen living room and bedroom(s). We show the same respect for the property and the place/neighborhood as if we had been invited to someone's place: utmost. We always get top reviews because we leave the place in top condition. We make no loud parties or go nude outside, or flash from windows.

The only rule that can easily be broken with AirBnB and people often forget is occupancy. Most properties you have to declare how many people will be sleeping there overnight. If both couples stay overnight and you have declared 2 people overnight, be aware that you are breaking the rules, even if the property has two bedrooms. However, inviting others to the property and entertain is totally fine.

We sometimes tell the host that we will have friends for dinner/drinks, so they can expect more than 1 car until late hours, but that's as far as we want to disclose. Telling the host we are swingers is our own private business. We would not advise anyone to disclose that.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"I doubt the owner would care... Their only real concern is that the property is looked after and isn't trashed at all."

Agreed. Also they care about their neighbours, who often keep an eye on the property for them and on what's going on, and that you do not try to cheat them by cramming in more people than you pay for or beyond the occupancy limit.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

This is why we need KinkBNB for people to have property that is specifically listed for the use of the adult community, sure they can advertise on AirBNB for the Muggles as well but if you get a booking through KinkBNB you know what to expect. I want to be able to find a property with a sex swing, a dungeon, a large play bed and be comfortable that whatever happens the owner is happy for people to do adult things with whoever, or however many, they see fit as long as it doesn't breach listed capacity.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"I doubt the owner would care... Their only real concern is that the property is looked after and isn't trashed at all."

Perception of the neighbours is a big part of it too. I stayed in an Airbnb flat once and the communal areas had signs up everywhere from tenants living there, pleading for guests to respect that people lived there.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset

"I doubt the owner would care... Their only real concern is that the property is looked after and isn't trashed at all.

My part of the world has an ever-increasing number of Airbnbs and the behaviour of some guests (and the wider effects on community) is widely discussed. Owners need to keep people onside, so I can see why parties of any kind might not be popular with them."
For the record, we have stayed in Airbnbs, but something needs to be done to control them. They have a terrible affect on the private rented market, reducing supply and driving up prices. The town in which we live has almost no private rented availability for families but literally hundreds of Airbnbs because of the extra revenue they generate and favourable tax treatment vs BTL. Other countries and cities have banned or heavily regulated them because of the market distortions they cause. The lack of private rented accommodation very nearly caused relatives of ours to move towns with all the resultant upheaval to their children’s education, parents work etc.Then there are the antisocial behaviour and noise problems in residential areas.

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