FabSwingers.com forum: Blow job with condom

By *owcurious OP Couple
over a year ago

So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi op

Thinking about it.. Sucking latex would not be my thing.

Its a hard one blow job. No pun intended

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Everyone has their own opinions and risk profiles, so it’s each to their own which is one of the joys of the scene.

It’s completely normal to not want to blow raw. I won’t do OWO. I know many that are the same. It’s her body her rules. If people don’t like it, they don’t need to play. There are a lot of guys on here, she won’t find it hard to get people who are okay with rubbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey! I get so much hate for being the safe sex nerd. The NHS states

You can catch an STI if you have just one sexual partner. However, the more partners you have, the greater the risk of catching an infection.

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

human papillomavirus (HPV)

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

What I would say on the matter is this, why play with someone who doesn't respect your boundaries, if you want to find someone who wants a BJ with a condom then that works for you. If the person doesn't then they don't respect your boundary and as a result are undeserving of a blowjob.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"Hey! I get so much hate for being the safe sex nerd. The NHS states

You can catch an STI if you have just one sexual partner. However, the more partners you have, the greater the risk of catching an infection.

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

human papillomavirus (HPV)

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

This!!!!!! So much love for this post. Bravo!

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby

Tbh she would have to make it a thing. Latex fetish, wanting to see the cum load at the end or something to make it appeal

I don’t think you’d be long satisfied with it either.

I think if there is a cock in front of you that you want to suck you will.

I think he is doing it for you not herbwhich wouldn't appeal to me at all

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By *owcurious OP Couple
over a year ago

"Hey! I get so much hate for being the safe sex nerd. The NHS states

You can catch an STI if you have just one sexual partner. However, the more partners you have, the greater the risk of catching an infection.

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

human papillomavirus (HPV)

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

This!!!!!! So much love for this post. Bravo!"

Love both your replies - thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey! I get so much hate for being the safe sex nerd. The NHS states

You can catch an STI if you have just one sexual partner. However, the more partners you have, the greater the risk of catching an infection.

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

human papillomavirus (HPV)

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

This!!!!!! So much love for this post. Bravo!

Love both your replies - thank you!"

You guys do whatever makes you comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey! I get so much hate for being the safe sex nerd. The NHS states

You can catch an STI if you have just one sexual partner. However, the more partners you have, the greater the risk of catching an infection.

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

human papillomavirus (HPV)

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

This!!!!!! So much love for this post. Bravo!"

We aren't all bad this side if the Severn bridge lol

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!"

Sure you would find somebody but it’s not normal for sure. Can’t ever recall seeing oral with a condom anywhere or someone suggesting. Some just dont do oral because of these concerns. Personally I would not meet if this was suggested but can imagine lots might, although may say yes as a way to meet and then try to do without.

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By *owcurious OP Couple
over a year ago

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

Disrespecting boundaries before you even meet. Not cool, and probably frightening for many women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

Not normal? Based on what? Your experience? I think it's perfectly normal. If his and his wife's boundary is that they want the guy to rubber up you think it is wrong or not normal?

And also how many guys are so blowjob rich in life that they would turn down a blowjob? Lol

OP you guys do you ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I might just see how it works not given a blow job with a condom. Hmmm protection and safety are paramount.

Just reading the internet on it made me change my mind Op.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

We’ve had several guys do this. When I’ve said to rubber up, we get the face and the huffs. We just ask them to leave, there and then. It’s not worth the fumbling about while they cannot keep it up and it’s no fun for anyone. I’m not willing to put my health at risk for anyone.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

Disrespecting boundaries before you even meet. Not cool, and probably frightening for many women."

To be clear not saying I would but I can imagine some might.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I like to push my limits when sucking and teasing my gag reflex is bad enough without the rubber.

So, admittedly there is risk but rubber is a no for me.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

Not normal? Based on what? Your experience? I think it's perfectly normal. If his and his wife's boundary is that they want the guy to rubber up you think it is wrong or not normal?

And also how many guys are so blowjob rich in life that they would turn down a blowjob? Lol

OP you guys do you ok. "

Please do not put words in my mouth. I did not say it was wrong. OP suggested it might “be normal in the community” by which I suggest he meant common or expected. I was just saying it is not common. That is not to say OP is wrong to be concerned or wrong to what to want to do this. And before you ask I’ve been involved in this world in various guises and various countries for getting on for 30 years including early days on Fab so seen a fair bit. I am trying to think back and perhaps it was more of a thing maybe 20 years ago when HIV was more prevalent and a greater concern.

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By *rbifunMan
over a year ago

exeter

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By *rbifunMan
over a year ago

exeter

"Hey! I get so much hate for being the safe sex nerd. The NHS states

You can catch an STI if you have just one sexual partner. However, the more partners you have, the greater the risk of catching an infection.

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

human papillomavirus (HPV)

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

This!!!!!! So much love for this post. Bravo!

Love both your replies - thank you!"

I'd definitely be happy with this. I worry about sucking other guys without a condom too. Considering some of the awful STIs you can catch from oral, I can't see the problem. Also, some condoms these days are so thin, the sensations are still extremely good.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Flavoured thin ones.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Doesn't really feel the same

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have , if I do feel like giving oral has to be with a condom on . But normally I avoid all oral

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By *ablo200Man
over a year ago

sevenoaks

Definitely a no no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it normal/commonplace? Honestly I’d say I’m unsure. Based on clubs we have been to (home and abroad) I’d say not but as to what goes on behind 1000s of closed doors, it’s anyone’s guess - plus it’s impossible to work out how many abstain from oral due to STI risk - so maybe don’t worry about what’s ‘normal’ and just do what you are comfy with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When we started out I insisted on a condom for oral. Flavoured are preferable and the teat can make you gag.

The number of people who will give grief to people who enjoy unprotected penetration but practice unprotected oral is astounding to me.

Play by your rules. If others don't like them they don't have to meet you

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"When we started out I insisted on a condom for oral. Flavoured are preferable and the teat can make you gag.

The number of people who will give grief to people who enjoy unprotected penetration but practice unprotected oral is astounding to me.

Play by your rules. If others don't like them they don't have to meet you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey! I get so much hate for being the safe sex nerd. The NHS states

You can catch an STI if you have just one sexual partner. However, the more partners you have, the greater the risk of catching an infection.

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

human papillomavirus (HPV)

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

All this

Also flavoured condoms are a thing, they don't taste great but better than normal ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either reply on the forum or get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either reply on the forum or get blocked

Do they taste like the flavours suggest?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Either reply on the forum or get blocked

Do they taste like the flavours suggest?"

Haha your the inboxer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs does condom with new partners never have a problem! Rules out bad people in our experience haha

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Mrs does condom with new partners never have a problem! Rules out bad people in our experience haha "

That's good of her to tell you that

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

Na it don't

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

Na it don't "
Be like sucking on rubber gloves or something! Won't be a have the sensation. Lol

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

Na it don't Be like sucking on rubber gloves or something! Won't be a have the sensation. Lol

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* Won't have

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

Na it don't Be like sucking on rubber gloves or something! Won't be a have the sensation. Lol

Haha exactly

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

No it doesn't but as least flavoured condoms take the edge off

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By *nly DickCouple (MM)
over a year ago

chichester

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!"

Not the normal but yes she should only do what she is comfortable with, notcwhat others prefer to do

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By *luefunMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

"Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

No it doesn't but as least flavoured condoms take the edge off"

I’ve never been sucked off wearing a condom but willing to try!

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!"
I totally agree with your wife as it’s her choice , I always carry my own condoms too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I would say on the matter is this, why play with someone who doesn't respect your boundaries, if you want to find someone who wants a BJ with a condom then that works for you. If the person doesn't then they don't respect your boundary and as a result are undeserving of a blowjob."

He has a great point here and I agree, but I’d expect the mainstay ones that will want a covered bj will be guys that haven’t had one in a long time….and there will be reasons for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tricky one but neither the man or woman will enjoy a blowjob with a condom on unfortunately.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

OP, If you are straight with folk about your health concerns then you will find people who will accept a covered BJ. You may not like the taste, and they the lack of sensation, but it should still work.

However, Please remember the other equally important health protections whilst considering your health safety during casual sex.

You should ensure they are freshly showered. You should inspect their body thoroughly for sores, warts, cuts, etc before contact to ensure nothing is not passed on during physical contact.

You must not kiss them as that is a sure way of risking infection. They should wear sterile gloves, or at least clean their hands and arms with Hibiclens soap if they are going to touch your vagina.

They must not perform uncovered oral sex on you at all. Obviously condoms for vaginal penetration and they should withdraw immediately after ejaculation and dispose of the condom before washing.

I am sure the Forum experts will add other suitable precautions.

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

No !

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

We had a mmf helga gave the guy a bj he came in minutes mmmmmm moral of the story is,no difference to usXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and choose someone who gets regular checks maybe, that way she could be more confident and comfortable, possibly?

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Let her go at her own pace and you’ll probably find that in time, she relaxes her certain rules and desires. It’s all about her and her own pace mate.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Here's a question for those on here who've experienced this. So as you get to the point of climax would you rather keep going and cum in the condom in mouth or take it off and finish by hand with it spraying/dribbling freely? I'm going for the latter as really don't like cumming in condoms and tried to avoid as much as possible.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Condoms don't protect from all potential STIs, so it's best to be informed.

I have tried giving BJs a few times with them and it's awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!"

No thanks, body contact makes sex what it is, fluids and all

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By *ngels and DevilsCouple
over a year ago

The South West

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

No I wouldn’t consider receiving a BJ whilst wearing a condom.

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By *ngels and DevilsCouple
over a year ago

The South West

Agree with Quinnhawkins88.

This is why they make flavoured condoms, the pussy doesn’t have taste buds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, if someone wanted me to wear a condom for a blow job I probably wouldn't bother. What's the point of it if it feels shit?

If she insists that's the only way then of course that needs to be respected, and I'm sure maybe some guys would be okay with it. But it's definitely not for me personally.

I'd say, maybe get to know a guy well enough that you can build trust and enjoy a normal BJ. Or ask someone to go to a gum clinic and get checked out, in time for just before you play with them.

Just my two cents, anyways. Happy swinging

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By *ai24Man
over a year ago

Town

Thats like sucking Tits through a jumper.

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By *interflingMan
over a year ago

london

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!"

Hopefully you’ll encounter some guys who agree it’s her body, her rules. I’ve had oral with, wouldn’t be my preference but from a health point of view I’m more than happy to go with it. Hope you both have some fun you’re both comfortable with!

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Thats like sucking Tits through a jumper. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me, bare cock in mouth all the time

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

Only time bj has been covered is with er, 'professionals'.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I know people who alwYs use protection regardless and so do you use them for blowjobs. It's not something I would do as I wouldn't enjoy the experience quite the same, but I'm sure there would be lots of guys it would be very happy to receive.

Like others have said, If it doesn't suit the gentlemen then he doesn't get the blowjob. Easy as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time a guy asked for it in messages before a meet, he turned up without any condoms so I'm not sure what to believe any more!

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By *ike both76Man
over a year ago

Kettering

at the end of the day its your health and what ever you feel comfortable

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

It's entirely the choice of the person doing the sucking.

If they insist on a condom, you wear one or get out.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Never sucked a guy off with a condom! I do get tested regularly. Can't imagine it will feel nice?

Na it don't Be like sucking on rubber gloves or something! Won't be a have the sensation. Lol

Haha exactly "
Haha

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I guess I should get some flavored condoms

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"It's entirely the choice of the person doing the sucking.

If they insist on a condom, you wear one or get out.

Or do other things perhaps - hand job, fuck with a condom, etc. Well unless discussed in advance. Can’t say would be too impressed if went and told to leave if I declined a condom blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I always do protected oral unless it is someone I have met and trust and regularly tested

And still always have fun

You do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again, if someone feels so entitled that they say no to a blowjob with a condom then they didn't deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's entirely the choice of the person doing the sucking.

If they insist on a condom, you wear one or get out.

Or do other things perhaps - hand job, fuck with a condom, etc. Well unless discussed in advance. Can’t say would be too impressed if went and told to leave if I declined a condom blow job. "

The key words here were "if they insist"

If someone doesn't respect your wishes then yes, they should absolutely be asked to leave

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This is why discussion of non negotiables is so important before you meet.

Nobody is in the wrong or more or less deserving of anything. There's compatibility and incompatibility, it's better to discover where you are before you meet

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

STIs are obviously a concern, but all you can do is protect yourself.

Would we do BJ with condom? Sorry, no.

But, we do take sexual health seriously and would use condoms for full sex. We also get checked frequently (despite being angelic!). Also the clinic will look after you - they know the score and will give you vaccines for HEP A, B, Monkeypox and even Prep for events "just in case".

Can't knock it....

But checks frequently

We've always been OK - though did think we caught something from an event or hot tub - they tested, same treatment for UTI or STI so gave us pills, nurses had a laugh about the hot tub etc. Infection cleared and results were just a hot-tub UTI not STI. Surprised us but Phew!

You also get a free party goody bag

(weirdly the vaccines and drugs are all free from the clinic, saved us a fortune on travel vaccines!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Thats like sucking Tits through a jumper. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has different preferences and boundaries. I don't think people are entitled if they say no to something that they don't want to do or haved one, like some people have suggested.

Communication, safety and comfort are what is important.

I personally don't do oral sex with condoms. I test regularly.

There is no right or wrong, she just needs to stick to her boundaries and explore. I wish you luck with your swinging journey.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!"

It wouldn't do much for me I'm afraid

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

It wouldn't do much for me I'm afraid

A blow job with a condom is the sort of thing that I'd expect to see in The Inbetweeners!

I'd rather toss myself off with a packet of ham whilst wearing a mask and snorkel!

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

OP, I hope that the sheer number of people saying that they would be fine with it puts your mind at ease.

You might wish to also consider similar minded couples who have the same approaches to OWO and testing as you do. Particularly those with a cuckquean element to their dynamic. That way both partners can enjoy watching their other half give/receive, while both being at ease.

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

never worn one before when getting a blow job but why not if thats what the lady wants give it her

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

It wouldn't do much for me I'm afraid

A blow job with a condom is the sort of thing that I'd expect to see in The Inbetweeners!

I'd rather toss myself off with a packet of ham whilst wearing a mask and snorkel!"

So much for RACK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I hope that the sheer number of people saying that they would be fine with it puts your mind at ease.

Agreed!

It's a shame people can't remain respectful while putting their opinions across

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

If the blow job aint bare we aint going there. Would just leave that part out tbh

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

I say no way, done it before and couldn't stand the taste! D has no input as he's never experienced one wearing a condom (and no I'm not going to..

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But as has already been said your boundaries are yours and should as always be respected

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By *owcurious OP Couple
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments guys - I wasn’t expecting so many replies.

Tbh, some of this made me feel totally unprepared- clinics, inspections etc. the admin is slightly daunting!

I get that a bj with a condom won’t feel as good, but to those that would be annoyed to turn up and be asked - your sense of entitlement over the sexual boundaries of others is quite disgusting.

We’ll stick to hand jobs for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a blow job with a condom is a No. I get tested regularly and will always drop that into conversation before I play with anyone. But it’s up to you

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Thanks for all the comments guys - I wasn’t expecting so many replies.

Tbh, some of this made me feel totally unprepared- clinics, inspections etc. the admin is slightly daunting!

I get that a bj with a condom won’t feel as good, but to those that would be annoyed to turn up and be asked - your sense of entitlement over the sexual boundaries of others is quite disgusting.

We’ll stick to hand jobs for now."

What is wrong with being annoyed with something that goes against your expectation? (providing the annoyance is polite of course). Hopefully this thread has highlighted that blow job with condoms is not common practice, even if some are happy, and need to communicate beforehand if that is your wish. You can’t expect men to just turn up and be used as you wish. We are people too and not sex toys. As long as communicate before on something like this then all will be fine. Wish you luck finding the right people.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Has she given a blow job with a condom before? If not maybe try it on you first.

Spermicide tastes awful I personally couldn't give a BJ with a condom.

Mrs

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"So, my wife has agreed she’d like to try play, but is nervous about infections etc.

Tbh, watching her give a hand job would blow my mind. But a blowjob…omg…

So…since you can get STI from blowjobs, she’d want to do it with a condom. I’ve told her that’s probably normal in the community, but I don’t know…

Is that normal? Would guys still go for that? I would!

Not normal? Based on what? Your experience? I think it's perfectly normal. If his and his wife's boundary is that they want the guy to rubber up you think it is wrong or not normal?

And also how many guys are so blowjob rich in life that they would turn down a blowjob? Lol

OP you guys do you ok. "

Well I guess guys would rather no blowjob as opposed to a bad one one.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

There are techniques for rubbered blowjobs that are fail-proof, and have had many positive compliments afterwards. If guys don’t want to try, their loss and saves me the drool and tongue ache. Win/win

Just because it’s different doesn’t mean it’s not fun. Please, can everyone remain respectful of the OP. They are nervous and new. We can all empathise with what that’s like I’m sure.

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

St Georges tower

Safe is safe. What's the point of saying safe only if you don't practice.

All sorts to stop a pregnancy but itches scratches and goooy ooooz fuck that play safe

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