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"Cock worshipped, and having him watch " Is it like a status thing for you? Like you’re above him because she’s worshipping you in front of him? | |||
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"Agreed - but for me when I’m that situation it’s also extremely sexy knowing that I’m inside another man’s wife while he watches…that I’m pleasuring her in a way he can’t and that she desires me more in that moment than her husband. Also often the hotwife will allow me to do things to her she wouldn’t allow her husband such as anal and she will do things with me she wouldn’t do with her husband such as rimming me, deepthroating me and swallowing my cum…all of this is a heady intoxicating mix of dominance over the couple. Some couples (after STD tests have been verified of course and we are all comfortable with the dynamic) will want me to go bare back and cum in the wife - in some situations the wife will want hubby to clean her up orally, sometime suck me clean too and in some cases hubby to fucklick as we fuck …again adding to the dominant dynamic)….the idea of pumping my seed in another man’s woman is incredibly arousing. Just my thoughts. I’m Sure others have their own reasons too. " So it’s like you enjoy the dominance you’re having over him through dominating her? | |||
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"But to some extent it’s dominance over both…the dynamic of me wanting to do things to her she won’t let her husband do, (and vice-versa - her doing things she would t do with her husband to please me) and her letting me because she is turned on by me and feels like I’m more alpha, dominant and a better lover/fucker than her husband…" So it’s a big ego boost too , I can see why that would be appealing | |||
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"It's sometimes because the husband likes showing and is proud of his sexy wife, and gets off on seeing her enjoying herself. Inviting another male into the bedroom is about the couple living out their fantasies, the bull being in control is just part of their role play. " But in this case what is the extra turn on for the bull, is it being part of a group role play? | |||
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"It's sometimes because the husband likes showing and is proud of his sexy wife, and gets off on seeing her enjoying herself. Inviting another male into the bedroom is about the couple living out their fantasies, the bull being in control is just part of their role play. " Complete agree with this too. | |||
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"But to some extent it’s dominance over both…the dynamic of me wanting to do things to her she won’t let her husband do, (and vice-versa - her doing things she would t do with her husband to please me) and her letting me because she is turned on by me and feels like I’m more alpha, dominant and a better lover/fucker than her husband… So it’s a big ego boost too , I can see why that would be appealing" Massive ego boost - and that boost goes straight to the loins too. It sort of encourages me to perform at my best and better than the husband. | |||
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"What do you guys get out of being a bull to a couple or wife, that you don’t get from just being with a single lady? " I think its the dynamic | |||
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"role play or fantasy meets with guys ''playing'' the bull = totally avoid we dont roleplay or fantasy we do real so if we are meeting a bull (rare) then i expect him to be a bull.. "Can I ask what the difference is for you? | |||
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"role play or fantasy meets with guys ''playing'' the bull = totally avoid we dont roleplay or fantasy we do real so if we are meeting a bull (rare) then i expect him to be a bull..
Can I ask what the difference is for you? "the difference is for us its real life we are a real cuckold couple hes a real cuck theres zero role play its all very real hes 100% permanently limp and before that too small/ premature ejaculation so our sex life is based on other men pleasing me ... so hence we say real cuckold couple ... im not trying to say there's a right or wrong neither just that most cuckold couples are fantasy or role play | |||
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"role play or fantasy meets with guys ''playing'' the bull = totally avoid we dont roleplay or fantasy we do real so if we are meeting a bull (rare) then i expect him to be a bull..
Can I ask what the difference is for you?
the difference is for us its real life we are a real cuckold couple hes a real cuck theres zero role play its all very real hes 100% permanently limp and before that too small/ premature ejaculation so our sex life is based on other men pleasing me ... so hence we say real cuckold couple ...
im not trying to say there's a right or wrong neither just that most cuckold couples are fantasy or role play "I think that makes a lot of sense to me. I’ve been confused trying to figure out what people get out of the role play side of things sometimes. But if you’re like a real relationship cuckold dynamic, then I guess there is no real choice for you to exist together any other way? | |||
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"What do you guys get out of being a bull to a couple or wife, that you don’t get from just being with a single lady? " For me it’s about being chosen to meet the additional needs of the wife. To be the one who makes the wife cum hardest. The wife often being a forbidden fruit is also a factor and if the husband can’t satisfy then being the Bull who can gives a strong sexual satisfaction feeling. In what ever shape or form it takes, it’s always a huge privilege to be a couples Bull. | |||
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"What do you guys get out of being a bull to a couple or wife, that you don’t get from just being with a single lady? " I had a huge fantasy about this happening with my ex. Always thought about seeing her with bigger.. so I'm not a bull but the other end of it I guess.. it was a huge turn on thinking about her having fun in front of me | |||
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"Dominance over the bull? " Cuck even, it's been a long day! | |||
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"Agreed - but for me when I’m that situation it’s also extremely sexy knowing that I’m inside another man’s wife while he watches…that I’m pleasuring her in a way he can’t and that she desires me more in that moment than her husband. Also often the hotwife will allow me to do things to her she wouldn’t allow her husband such as anal and she will do things with me she wouldn’t do with her husband such as rimming me, deepthroating me and swallowing my cum…all of this is a heady intoxicating mix of dominance over the couple. Some couples (after STD tests have been verified of course and we are all comfortable with the dynamic) will want me to go bare back and cum in the wife - in some situations the wife will want hubby to clean her up orally, sometime suck me clean too and in some cases hubby to fucklick as we fuck …again adding to the dominant dynamic)….the idea of pumping my seed in another man’s woman is incredibly arousing. Just my thoughts. I’m Sure others have their own reasons too. " You've described this so well, it's so hot it turned me on big time! | |||
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 . Love knowing I play a role in keeping this relationship happy  | |||
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"Does the other guy , the non bull, need to be enjoying it for you to be enjoying it ?" I think they have to be bought into the dynamic for sure | |||
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"What do you guys get out of being a bull to a couple or wife, that you don’t get from just being with a single lady? " The privilege of being invited to share a couple’s sexual fantasy is an intense pleasure for me. And I find there is an intimacy about meeting a couple that is conducive to really great sex | |||
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"Agreed - but for me when I’m that situation it’s also extremely sexy knowing that I’m inside another man’s wife while he watches…that I’m pleasuring her in a way he can’t and that she desires me more in that moment than her husband. Also often the hotwife will allow me to do things to her she wouldn’t allow her husband such as anal and she will do things with me she wouldn’t do with her husband such as rimming me, deepthroating me and swallowing my cum…all of this is a heady intoxicating mix of dominance over the couple. Some couples (after STD tests have been verified of course and we are all comfortable with the dynamic) will want me to go bare back and cum in the wife - in some situations the wife will want hubby to clean her up orally, sometime suck me clean too and in some cases hubby to fucklick as we fuck …again adding to the dominant dynamic)….the idea of pumping my seed in another man’s woman is incredibly arousing. Just my thoughts. I’m Sure others have their own reasons too. " I would say you’ve accurately described many cuckold couples lifestyle, including ours. Most hotwives enjoy the ‘forbidden fruits’ of sex with a bull such as anal or bareback, even more adventurous things such as gangbangs, hubby normally watching on whilst the hotwife is ‘in heaven’ ! | |||
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"Can’t find right words to explain it properly, kind of like knowing I satisfy her physical/ sexual needs & her hubby satisfy her emotional, spiritual, financial etc needs . Love knowing I play a role in keeping this relationship happy "Hit the nail on the head. Hubby thanking you for pleasuring his wife | |||
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"role play or fantasy meets with guys ''playing'' the bull = totally avoid we dont roleplay or fantasy we do real so if we are meeting a bull (rare) then i expect him to be a bull..
Can I ask what the difference is for you?
the difference is for us its real life we are a real cuckold couple hes a real cuck theres zero role play its all very real hes 100% permanently limp and before that too small/ premature ejaculation so our sex life is based on other men pleasing me ... so hence we say real cuckold couple ...
im not trying to say there's a right or wrong neither just that most cuckold couples are fantasy or role play "Has he always been limp and unable to satisfy you? | |||
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"What do you guys get out of being a bull to a couple or wife, that you don’t get from just being with a single lady? For me it’s about being chosen to meet the additional needs of the wife. To be the one who makes the wife cum hardest. The wife often being a forbidden fruit is also a factor and if the husband can’t satisfy then being the Bull who can gives a strong sexual satisfaction feeling. In what ever shape or form it takes, it’s always a huge privilege to be a couples Bull." This…. | |||
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"For me it is the excitement of being invited to share something so personal and intimate. Not behind husbands back but to have the husband there to watch and join in in some circumstances. It’s a hell of a rush when you enter the wife for the first time. I love to see the expressions and tentative glances between the couple." And this… | |||
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"Agreed - but for me when I’m that situation it’s also extremely sexy knowing that I’m inside another man’s wife while he watches…that I’m pleasuring her in a way he can’t and that she desires me more in that moment than her husband. Also often the hotwife will allow me to do things to her she wouldn’t allow her husband such as anal and she will do things with me she wouldn’t do with her husband such as rimming me, deepthroating me and swallowing my cum…all of this is a heady intoxicating mix of dominance over the couple. Some couples (after STD tests have been verified of course and we are all comfortable with the dynamic) will want me to go bare back and cum in the wife - in some situations the wife will want hubby to clean her up orally, sometime suck me clean too and in some cases hubby to fucklick as we fuck …again adding to the dominant dynamic)….the idea of pumping my seed in another man’s woman is incredibly arousing. Just my thoughts. I’m Sure others have their own reasons too. I would say you’ve accurately described many cuckold couples lifestyle, including ours. Most hotwives enjoy the ‘forbidden fruits’ of sex with a bull such as anal or bareback, even more adventurous things such as gangbangs, hubby normally watching on whilst the hotwife is ‘in heaven’ !" This has been my experience when I’ve played with couples | |||
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"Excellent thread OP and wonderful responses. One question: are there any cuck dynamics where the lady is in control and dominant over both bull and cuck? Or does that have a different name?" Is that more Femdom? | |||
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"Excellent thread OP and wonderful responses. One question: are there any cuck dynamics where the lady is in control and dominant over both bull and cuck? Or does that have a different name? Is that more Femdom? " I'd agree | |||
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